why the hell a fake review is being allowed to stay on my review page??? I've had one other incident of this take place before. After reporting it to staff, it was professionally removed as it should have been. I take the same steps in this incident and get the exact opposite.  I've had a rough week, as some of you know, and after logging on today to check things.....I noticed the damn thing is still there.  It's obviously totally off from the rest of my reviews, the timing is VERY suspicious (the same day of my bad encounter) and not to mention total bullshit. The reviewer is an admitted "long time lurker" and has finally flung himself out of the gate with his "first review" of me.  Three times I've reported this. I'm totally confused as to the inconsistency of protocol here.  I'm an honest provider with a good reputation and only want honest reviews, whether they be good or bad (as I am a big girl and can understand and try to improve if I haven't met a client's expectations). Granted, the review is poor. Poor and honest is totally acceptable. Poor and a lie is unacceptable.  I would absolutely honor it if it were true.  Constructive criticism isn't an insult.  It's a true and brutally honest way of helping someone improve.  I am not above this or affraid of it. I welcome it because I want to improve.  However, I only welcome it if it comes with truth and factual events. IE: CONSTRUCTIVE. Lies aren't constructive. This review isn't constructive. I'm confused as to why my report of this problem has been "unapproved" twice.  After the bad events of last weekend, I'm a bit disheartened and feel not only has my person been compromised, but my reputation as well. Seemingly just to shift the review point average for sport or what?? Bullshit is bullshit-PERIOD. Shoot straight or ease on down the f-in road. WTF?  
Sincerely fed up....
Ashley Jade

Thrown into an open wound!   I can certainly understand the feeling of your person being compromised, in fact, if you didn't feel violated, at least to some degree, I'd question your sanity. lol.    As far as being professionally compromised, as a hobbyist, I just don't see it.   One lousy review in a string of good ones means nothing to me.   Well, it makes me question the reviewers motives, but not the provider.     Seriously, 3 pages of 8's, 9's, 10's and one 6.   And the 6 being the guys only review.  No credibility at all, to me.   Personally, I'd still see you in an instant, in fact, even more so since the unfortunate event.  True colors are revealed in adversity, and yours are great!

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First off I hope you are doing better.  I have to say I agreed with wanderineyes12.  The true measure of person isseen when they face adversity.  Even though we have never met it seems to me that you have a good head on your shoulders and are real in your thoughts and emotions.  I can respect that and expect others here do also.  While I can also understand your desire to have the offending reveiw pulled I can say that it would not deter me from calling you.  I do hope the reveiw gets pulled simply because of the fact it may help you move past the incident.  Be good and be happy.

They're consistently inconsistent. Now you know what we go through trying to get an honest review approved. Keep bitching at them long enough and they always seem to get things right eventually.

... and as I stated in the review, I was not thrilled with our meeting so I just chalked it up to YMMV.  It's nothing personal and it is not some great conspiracy against you.  Some people just do not click.  If you do not like my honesty then I am sorry for that but do not insulate for a minute that I am not being truthful here.  And as far as the other readers go, if this has no credibility for you then to bad for you.

First off sorry about what happened.  Hard to imagine what you're going through.
As far as the review.  Really it's not that bad.  The guy says you two didn't really click. Hey that's no real different than any so called "real" date can be.  Sometimes two people click together, other times they don't.
Most are not going to hold it against you because in a two hour date he said 20 minutes were spent screwing.  Most will note that you two had met for drinks and talked for awhile and that's included in your time together.  One can tell you tried to strike up a conversation with him, but he doesn't seem to have wanted that.  It's nothing against you.  Again, just two people who didn't click.
As others have said, you won't be judged on just this review.
What people will learn is that if they want someone who doesn't try to engage in conversation, you're not the lady for them.  Which for some, is a good thing to know.  Also, with you and most other ladies out there, the time includes being downstairs for drinks, NOT just the time spent in bed.
I wouldn't sweat this review. You're not going to click with everyone out there, no matter how hard you try.

First off let me say I am sorry to hear about your bad experience and I hope you are feeling and doing better.
If you need someone to talk to,your welcome to call me.

Regarding a “bad review” or what I call a “not so flattering review” I too have a few of those.
Some are real , some are fake …………… who cares it didn’t hurt my business one bit.

Infact it brought more attention to me and I ended up having more appointments.

You can’t always please everyone. Some men have “women issues” and they take it out on a review.

beauty is in the eye of the beholder.So you’re a 9-10 in my book, but another guy may see you as a 6. So what it is HIS opinion
your photos show the truth

There is always two sides of a story …………… like a guy may give me a lower score because I didn’t DFK with him
But he didn’t mention he also had bad hygiene. I am not going to kiss a fowl mouth just to get a higher score, so yes YMMV.


When a lady has mostly great reviews and a few bad ones intelligent guys see right through it.
Besides do you really want to see a guy who believes a few bad reviews VS so many good ones ??

I don’t have ego issues.(not saying you do) So I don’t have ALL 9’s and 10’s trust me it doesn’t stop guys from seeing me.

Don’t worry about it,smile,be happy,stay safe
Xoxo CindySpice


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All guys are differernt and want different things.  Some guys try to digest my face the whole session (sometimes I feel like I am a litte mouse and he is a big snake trying to swallow me whole! lol!) while other guys jump back two feet if my mouth gets anywhere near thier face.  I also get guys who request CBJ.  Different things excite different people and everybody has their own comfort level.

Back to the kissing.  For year my ad has said, "I love to kiss."  Recently I revised that to say, "I love to kiss people who have a close personal relationship with their toothbrush."  LOL!!  I am sure that there are a few dragon-breath people out there that thought that my service wasn't top notch.  I was too busy fantasizing about having a gas mask. LOL!!  Maybe I should say, "I love to kiss people who haven't been up for 48 hours bingeing on free drinks at the Black Jack table."

Ashley, I wouldn't worry about one little 6 amongst all those good reviews.

I appreciate  the feedback.  Just-Joe, I truly don't believe we've met.  I don't have a record of that appointment. Regardless, in the big picture, it's small beans like you guys said.  Thanks for helping me get my head out of my ass.  I guess I'm a little senative these days.  In more places than one. LOL. Have a good weekend everyone- Cindy and Logan you guys are two of the best!!! "I love you man!!!" .

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BTW for those guys who nag- "but I just brushed my teeth"..............

well for your information you must brush, floss and scrape your tongue ALL YEAR ROUND !! not just before the appointment.

Here are some more tips-

http://www.therabreath.com/soc/tips.aspx

http://www.doctorndtv.com/teeth/oraldetailtopics.asp?id=13&b=

Now guys be honest how many of you actually do the above ??

Back to Dr Cindy again LOL LOL

To brush my tongue today.  However, I did brush my teeth and floss.

My appts with Dr. Cindy are the only damn doctor appointments worth going to.  I wonder if I can claim on my insurance?

Dr. Cindy, can you help?

there is not enough brushing and scrubbing in the world to get rid of  the dreaded STINK... and now lets move on to STINKY BALLS!!!   LMAO

I swear that I have met a few guy who are unfamiliar with the concept of toilet paper.

I did think to address that basic subject on my FAQ page.  http://www.misslogan.com/html/faqs.html
I remember that Kit and Jade used to have a whole page dedicated to hygiene.

One of my favorite compliments ever was about 4 years ago when January told me that my pussy tastes like "nothing."

Yep I take medicare
so sorry till your 65 you'll just have to pay out of pocket!!

BTW your yearly check up is due *wink wink*

about my breath.  
If I am gonna be bitchin' I better be brushin'.  LOL!  I went out and bought the Breath RX kit today.  I am getting ready to play with it now.  Has anybody else ever tried it?

I also drink that mint flavored water from Whole Foods when I remember to buy it.

Logan,
I cannot stop laughing right now. I completley forgot about that. But it was a compliment your pussy was very clean and nice to taste. ROTFLMAO
Oh my God!!! that is just too funny,
Logan you made my night.
We will do that again sometime real soon.
January Class

Yep I have been using it for years. Before it was even sold in stores..............back in the days you could only buy it at the dentist.
and I have a sonic toothbrush.

Have fun
xoxo CindySpice

Best toothbrush out there!