Thrown into an open wound!   I can certainly understand the feeling of your person being compromised, in fact, if you didn't feel violated, at least to some degree, I'd question your sanity. lol.    As far as being professionally compromised, as a hobbyist, I just don't see it.   One lousy review in a string of good ones means nothing to me.   Well, it makes me question the reviewers motives, but not the provider.     Seriously, 3 pages of 8's, 9's, 10's and one 6.   And the 6 being the guys only review.  No credibility at all, to me.   Personally, I'd still see you in an instant, in fact, even more so since the unfortunate event.  True colors are revealed in adversity, and yours are great!

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First off I hope you are doing better.  I have to say I agreed with wanderineyes12.  The true measure of person isseen when they face adversity.  Even though we have never met it seems to me that you have a good head on your shoulders and are real in your thoughts and emotions.  I can respect that and expect others here do also.  While I can also understand your desire to have the offending reveiw pulled I can say that it would not deter me from calling you.  I do hope the reveiw gets pulled simply because of the fact it may help you move past the incident.  Be good and be happy.

They're consistently inconsistent. Now you know what we go through trying to get an honest review approved. Keep bitching at them long enough and they always seem to get things right eventually.

... and as I stated in the review, I was not thrilled with our meeting so I just chalked it up to YMMV.  It's nothing personal and it is not some great conspiracy against you.  Some people just do not click.  If you do not like my honesty then I am sorry for that but do not insulate for a minute that I am not being truthful here.  And as far as the other readers go, if this has no credibility for you then to bad for you.

First off sorry about what happened.  Hard to imagine what you're going through.
As far as the review.  Really it's not that bad.  The guy says you two didn't really click. Hey that's no real different than any so called "real" date can be.  Sometimes two people click together, other times they don't.
Most are not going to hold it against you because in a two hour date he said 20 minutes were spent screwing.  Most will note that you two had met for drinks and talked for awhile and that's included in your time together.  One can tell you tried to strike up a conversation with him, but he doesn't seem to have wanted that.  It's nothing against you.  Again, just two people who didn't click.
As others have said, you won't be judged on just this review.
What people will learn is that if they want someone who doesn't try to engage in conversation, you're not the lady for them.  Which for some, is a good thing to know.  Also, with you and most other ladies out there, the time includes being downstairs for drinks, NOT just the time spent in bed.
I wouldn't sweat this review. You're not going to click with everyone out there, no matter how hard you try.

First off let me say I am sorry to hear about your bad experience and I hope you are feeling and doing better.
If you need someone to talk to,your welcome to call me.

Regarding a “bad review” or what I call a “not so flattering review” I too have a few of those.
Some are real , some are fake …………… who cares it didn’t hurt my business one bit.

Infact it brought more attention to me and I ended up having more appointments.

You can’t always please everyone. Some men have “women issues” and they take it out on a review.

beauty is in the eye of the beholder.So you’re a 9-10 in my book, but another guy may see you as a 6. So what it is HIS opinion
your photos show the truth

There is always two sides of a story …………… like a guy may give me a lower score because I didn’t DFK with him
But he didn’t mention he also had bad hygiene. I am not going to kiss a fowl mouth just to get a higher score, so yes YMMV.


When a lady has mostly great reviews and a few bad ones intelligent guys see right through it.
Besides do you really want to see a guy who believes a few bad reviews VS so many good ones ??

I don’t have ego issues.(not saying you do) So I don’t have ALL 9’s and 10’s trust me it doesn’t stop guys from seeing me.

Don’t worry about it,smile,be happy,stay safe
Xoxo CindySpice


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