It has been a rough and emotional three months and I needed a break. Where better to go than Las Vegas. If you are lucky - you will find a provider (in my case two) who is not there to provide a service to you; but a lady who will talk to you and Listen to you.

If you have pain, she will ease the pain
If you want a hot sensual sexual encounter, she will provide it for you
IF you prefer to give more pleasure than receive, she will be accommodating and thankful.

Hobbyists: You may not be seeking any huge fulfilling emotional experience; but if you are, there are nice ladies that will provide what you seek. For 1 to 2 hours or more they will make you feel like a king

And when you discover your Favorite (or favorites) - be appreciative of them, let then know. Treat them well.

AS I have discovered, the best GFE providers will do more to you than you realize. As in my case - there was both an emotional and physical takeaway from the meetings. I will post reviews soon.

Everyone has different needs, every provider have different rules and personalities. Just do your research. FIRST: Be Honest with yourself and with the provider.

Yes this post is way out of line, mostly off topic: but honest.  

Andrew you are on the money ! I've had a similar experience. Las Vegas is the cure !

A very genuine post I am always to happy to hear when a gent visits and has an awesome time.
Vegas is a place to come to unwind,relax,and indulge in the fabulous ladies here and hopefully meet people that are really interested in fulfilling fantasies.

Andrew

This is the beauty of the hobby...it can be what you want it to be and there are plenty of amazing ladies willing to accommodate particular needs, tastes, and desires.  We often consider the hobby to just be about sex but we're all crazy if we think there isn't at least some level of emotional or mental component to all this from time-to-time (or more).

To each their own, but that's why this is such a great thing!

Thank you for the honest post.

cedar

There are some of us, not many, but a handful who are genuine girlfriend dates, who listen, are emphatic and sensitive, healers, and genuinely care about the men that we are with. I would love to meet you and make you feel better, as well as listen, boost your self esteem and confidence, and even advice you if you need on dealing with the past.

Lots of love, cameo knightley

you just "click" with someone in a wonderful way.  When that happens, hold onto it.  Whether in civvie life or in this demimonde.  The biggest secret of this world of ours is that it isn't always about the sex.  It can be so much more...

xoxo,

R

That's so profound and true ! I love it thank you Rani

Makes a lot more sense to me then paying a Psychiatrist $300+ an hour ...  Lol

(And if your post is way out of line or off topic... then I'm far guiltier then you with all of the stuff I've posted in the past.)

Who want more than just a quick fuck. They seek connection, intimacy, and more.

You are not alone out there.

And that's why there are so many wonderful conscious, independent working girls out there who are more mature and experienced and know how to really be with someone, be present and real.

I am currently doing my Doctorate in Human Sexuality and love this whole subject.

Also, I am putting together a collection of writings from providers that I know who specifically got into this line of work because they wanted to offer more to their clients. So stay tuned for that. Hopefully it will be published in the first part of the New Year.

When I go to Vegas I also look,for more than just the physical. I use the time to unwind and recharge. And there are some amazing ladies there that you can do that with. On an intellectual level as well as the physical. They are few and far between
But they are there.
Great post. I could not agree more and am looking forward to just that next month.

Happy Holidays!!

happy holidays and may the ladies keep you happy thru thick n thin..

Jayda Lee , Visited you and you were  everything i needed and more , perfect evening together !! Thank you for a sweet memory baby ! Merry Christmas ! , Jim / Phoenix

Time with a great new friend makes you feel like a new man. You walk a little taller you smile a lot more. You just feel GREAT!
Many of the great people I have met on here or through this site have helped me enjoy my life so much more. Carnal pleasures are just a bit of the fun and value of my experience here. Yet there is so much more to it than that. Sometimes there is a great connection and when the chemistry is right, look out!  Thank you one and all.

After about 2 years in the hobby, I came to the realization that my mental health had significantly improved.  Although not suffering from anything in particular, I had definitely been in a rut for some time.  It didn't take long for me to realize that it was the hobby that had picked me up, in particular those special providers who gave me much more than the immediate gratification I had sought.  

While I wasn't seeking any kind of treatment, it was a subtle and valuable by product that came along with the fun.  Ever since that time, I have always referred to providers as my Mental Health Providers, significantly cheaper yet more effective than a shrink and his offerings (Prozac, Zoloft, etc) could ever be.