Hey providers,

 I've had this question in the back of my mind ever since I saw my first provider, but have never had the guts to ask.  I never really wanted to have that much info to begin with, but now that it has affected me, I'm going to come right out and ask.

First, my story:

 I set up an appointment last week for this afternoon.  I reserved the location because she couldn't offer incall.  I also went out of my way to make sure my time would be completely free of my normal daily distractions.  When I contacted her this morning to confirm, I was told that Aunt Flo came to town yesterday.  WTF????  
 Now to add to my initial anger, I come here to make an emergency post for another provider at the last minute, and coincidentally IT'S DOWN!!!  Not that I would have been able to make arrangements within that short amount of time, but it would have been better to try and fail then not be able to try at all.

 So I get burned paying for a hotel I cannot use.  To give her credit she apologized and promised to make it up to me next week.  Unfortunately due to my pending re-location, I won't have any more chances to do so.  Not to mention the fact that now that I've been burned, I don't think I'd want to give her another chance.  I think it would have been nice to know about this YESTERDAY (when things started) so I could make other plans, but again wasn't told until this morning when I contacted HER.  I guess some of the fault is mine for having such little time and trying to make things happen at the last minute.

 Also, In case anyone is wondering who this provider is...Sorry, I'm not going to do that to her!

 Now that I'm done complaining, my reason for making this post is really to ask:

 How do providers not know when (Appx) Aunt Flo will be visiting, and if you have an idea (which from my understanding, you should), how can you in good conscience schedule a date that close to the visit?

Thanks in advance for any and all opinions!
--Kreyzy

Google!!

http://www.menstruation.com.au/periodpages/irregular.html

http://women.webmd.com/tc/Missed-or-Irregular-Periods-Topic-Overview

Thank you for those links & information...I'm always open to constructive criticism.  This is exactly why I didn't want to name the provider (in the event I was wrong).  Though it still sucks what happened, I feel better knowing that it wasn't necessarily something she could have avoided.

--Kreyzy

That isn't what I said.
Ladies cancel all the time with lame excuses,as guys do too.

"my reason for making this post is really to ask: How do providers not know when (Appx) Aunt Flo will be visiting, and if you have an idea (which from my understanding, you should), how can you in good conscience schedule a date that close to the visit?"

really ???? No offence to you,but if you only wanted to ask a question without causing any drama you didn't need to post the whole story.
All you had to post was- I was wondering can a provider not know aunt flow is about to visit??

Yes it sucks rather it is true or not,it also sucks the other way around.
Sometimes we never know,sometimes we do find out the truth.

Crimetracker 3,always on the look out.

-- Modified on 7/17/2007 7:54:58 AM

Kreyzy-You can be thankful for 2 things.
#1. That You are not a classless nimrod who posts that he has CLASS by not revealing a providers name. (Then in a sudden high speed reach-around,  fit enough for a Richard Gere gerbil fantasy montage, turn around and backstab her. Then post private PM's on a message board that's CLEARLY been edited, erasing 2 apologies and keeping out any nasty comments you personally made about other providers. Then in a cowardly gesture, go into TER chat announce her name while pounding your chest like King Kong, (because you DA MAN!) in addition to further backchannel, PM, and IM anyone who has eyes, ears & a throat, her name too.   If that was not enough, PM all her previous reviewers 'Announcing' her provider identity anyway.  
Kudos to you, for keeping your word, being a real man and not a sniffing miserable eunuch. Thank YOU for having a pair of balls!!
You should be very proud.
#2. Going on what Kingofwhopper wrote, be thankful you did not send her the 400 bucks deposit. Look down at kingofwhoppers thread. Not calling you, refusing to speak to you or writing to you and having this go on for 2-3 months would have been a headache too.


-- Modified on 7/17/2007 8:20:33 AM

are you talking to me ??? or did the post show up in the wrong place ?

I know this is weird to respond to a question like Aunt Flo but I am just dying to answer this question.
  When ever Aunt Flo visits I never cancell,I use a device,Ladies-listen...u can but it at the stores and it's called "Insteads". It holds back everything and after 12-14hrs u throw it away.Its disposable and comes in a package of like 15.U can get them at Wal-mart or CVS
  None of my dates know I have it in because it is up there so far and works like a diaphram.No leaks,no problems.I used it alot last week.
  A lady whom I know within Sex Industry who dose ive webcam feeds told me of this product and it works,problem solved.

"really ???? No offence to you,but if you only wanted to ask a question without causing any drama you didn't need to post the whole story."

I don't think I caused any drama.  My reason for posting the whole story is that I am a story teller by nature.  If you knew me off these boards and nobody here really does, you'd know that even the most simple things I have to say are usually several pages in type as I am very detail oriented.  I'm not saying I make things up, I just go into a lot of detail so that people can really understand what I am saying or trying to convey.

"All you had to post was- I was wondering can a provider not know aunt flow is about to visit??"

 Not that I have a lot of women in my life, but like I said before my understanding was that it's a "cycle".  The meaning of the word alone conotates some sort of regularity.  I've never tried to know too much about it, but from my limited experience (and yes, I am married to a woman) I always though that it was pretty predictable within a few days.

I'm not trying to fight with you.  I just want to be able to have discussions here and I hope everyone understands me and where I am coming from.

Thanks again.
--Kreyzy

I get that you probably don't understand a cycle of a women.Just cause you are married,doesn't mean you have to know.

and it is ok if you wanted to share your story,vent,or complain.

I'm just saying if ALL you REALLY wanted is to know how a womens cycle works,you would just ask or just google the question.

Not fighting with you,just was pointing out some facts.
Here is what happened,this sucks,poor me,but it doesn't matter(if it doesn't matter then why did you want to share the whole story here?? because it did matter to you and hey that is ok)

Peace
Crimetracker 3 always looking out for you.