A regular friend booked a 3 hour session with me the other day, I was so close to having to cancel with him due to all the errands I had to run. Luckily, I was able to complete my tasks and asked him if he could come by at a later time instead (I was already showered but needed a little time to get dolled up).  

   Unfortunately, he got the message late because by the time I parked and got out of my car to head to my room, guess who was pulling in as well?  

Yes! He was!  

The problem here?  

   I was in full NON-PROVIDER mode! I had on absolutely no makeup (Not that I wear much anyway), sweatpants, a t-shirt, tennis shoes and a Polo cap with my hair pulled back. He looked at me and smiled but I was ooohh soooo embarrassed . Anyways, I asked him if he could wait a little longer so I could get ready, added an extra hour and then some for him being so sweet and so patient with me. He sent me an email just a few minutes ago saying it was one of the best dates he's ever had and thanked me for allowing him to see the "REAL ME".  

Guys, Has this ever happened to you? Have you ever caught your date in a NON-PROVIDER mode?  

Ladies, Has this ever happened to you?

i have regulars that do see me without the make-up and hair done and they love it...it makes it even more of real girlfriend experience for them...do i do it all the time?, no...i always dress for the occasion when we go out...some just love the "lazy day in bed" scenario with room service and especially if it is sunday and we are watching football!...so much fun

the casual "non-provider" look. As a local most of the time the ladies are either coming to my residence or meeting me at the boat. I prefer that they just blend in and look as casual as everybody else. At the January Meet and Greet I met a new lady I had never met. She was stunning. By chance when I dropped another lady off on Sunday afternoon she was there in sweats, hair pulled up, glasses on and full on casual. Absolutely more stunning in my eyes.

I can definitely can understand that, for me personally as well it made me pretty comfortable as well. I feel I have nothing to worry about, considering he loves the casual style! haha but I will keep this in mind, I appreciate you sharing this with me!

XOXO,
Ms. Leila Lovely

She must be beautiful, I can only imagine! & I'm sure this must make the experience a lot more comfortable? It must really bring it to a little more personal level would you agree?

xoxo,
Ms. Leila Lovely

ladies dress casual and wear very little to natural type makeup. I don't need to see layers of makeup.

I don't know that it makes it more personal but I do get to see a lady on her casual side. Not one lady has ever said no I have to dress up and most thank me for not having to put on all the glitz. Websites show the ladies all glammed up. I get to see the other side and I find it more attractive, unless of course the event calls for dressing up. Coming to the boat? I expect you to show up with no to little makeup, in sandals, a bathing suit with a cover, floppy hat and your favorite sunscreen

or multi-hour dates with Ladies who truly are "one gentlemen a day" types, is that I get to see them both dressed up, and casual.  

I like "ebb & flow", and when she can feel comfortable 'letting her hair down', I always take it as a compliment.  

Recently I had two extended evening dates in a row with a Lady.  At the end of the first evening's date, around 11pm, before she left, she pulled out a pair of yoga pants, a sports bra/top, and socks/sneakers, and proceeded to get dressed, pulling her hair back in a bun. "Casual Hot" I'd term it. She was going off to the gym (she is a bit of a night owl). Seeing her get dressed was a turn-on especially when I saw she was going 'commando'. Made me want to get a guest pass for a day and go with her, lol.  

I do appreciate when a Lady takes the time and effort to 'doll up' to her standards. I'll appreciate her beauty in whatever form she decides to share it with me in. But as long as she is clean, and wearing a smile, the clothing is secondary.

Now, if I had been in your gentleman's shoes, knowing it was going to be an extended date, I probably would have offered to give you a nice hair shampoo and scalp/face massage to help you move past embarrassment and have some giggling shower time.  

I find this realm often brings us serendipitous moments that can really give us lasting memories.

i booked one of my atf regulars a comp room for the weekend..
i met him with the key wearing sweat shorts a tshirt and some flip flops...
we stopped by pink taco for a bite to eat and it was just chill.

a few times i have met someone when i was checking in to the hotel that day, "the line is a little long.. do you want to walk up with me in normal mode or meet me upstairs in 20?" i have never had someone say they would meet me.

Like others have mentioned, I appreciate the time and effort a lady takes to get herself ready, but for me it's not necessary if we've spent time together.

but surprisingly few actually take me up on it -- unless my Southwestern-small-town view of "casual" is just so different from theirs.  I have commented a few times that "casual" would have been fine, and the return comment each time has been "I enjoy getting dolled up...it sets a mood."

As a separate note, the one thing that really disappoints me is chipped fingernail polish.  No fingernail polish is fine, but chipped polish makes me think I am a low priority that day.

making that "real" connection is better then the fantasy! You go girl! I bet you looked beautiful!

I Personally find hobbyists to be very down to earth, sexy and very very in tune with what makes me tick wink
I do love to get dolled up too

Happy hobbying and safe providing to all

Lots of love
lovely Lorena aka Lorena DE leon

One of my regulars texted me this recently:

Next time...ponytail
tank top, no bra just nipples
sweat pant shorts, no panties. Easy Access for me.

He had already told me I didn't need to glam up for him with make up and cute lingerie next time even though I looked great...Some guys just like that GND appeal

Sweat pants/ t shirt / ponytal is a popular GND look guys ask for.

Though Ive also had requests for jean shorts/ tank /cowgirl boots  

My flight into a certain city was delayed and my client (first time meeting) was already on his way driving almost six hours to see me.  We had planned weeks ahead of time for our overnight and while he was driving through the cornfields to my location, his cell service was very limited.

When he reached city limits, he received my texts and VMs all at once.  Since I always rent suites, I told him he was welcome to just come up and wait in the other room while I finished getting ready for him.  He arrived quicker than I'd anticipated...I was hoping to at least have clothes on and hair dried.  When he arrived, I answered the door in a "comfy" paisley Soma robe and a towel around my head.  

After waiting for weeks and his long drive, it was very funny/romantic/sexy to both of us so I suggested he hit the shower quickly so that we would both be super clean and "not quite ready for dinner" at the same time and just enjoy getting to know one another.

I was very nervous and self conscious about it at first until his arrival and the fun we both had post-shower and pre-dinner!
All in all, a night turned almost weekend to remember

Not one of the "ladies"..........but will provide my input anyway.........some men like the natural look.  Many of you ladies do not realize it, but your natural beauty........no make-up, etc............can be quite compelling.