I'll be having my first incall encounter next month...my question is this. Do I bring something like flowers or candy...bottle of wine, or is that just the incurable romantic in me. Ladies? Gents?

If it adds to the experience FOR YOU, go right ahead.  From the girl's perspective, it probably won't matter.  What's important to her is that you're on time, respectful, and clean.  Have fun.

Why don't you ask her what her size is and buy something sexy for her to roam around in??  I find Wine and strawberries always do something for the mood, oh...and candles!!!  Big plus!

sierraxoxo

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