that these men who come on here and ask for dates and get all these responses from women are double booking those women? Id say so

I'm ignoring them from now on. it's setting us up.

wonder why someone would have to post a sort of ISO post for Vegas.  It's Las-Fucking-Vegas for Christ sakes - probably the easiest place to find what your looking for with very MINIMAL effort.  Probably the most concentrated area of pussy-for-hire anywhere in the U.S.

That's my $0.02 worth - I could be wrong!!!

but I am curious when guys post ISO requests here why do they never come back to the post they started?
You see all of these ladies responding but the guy never comes back to say thank you or anything.
Sometimes the same guy is posting a ISO again for the same thing a few months later again ladies respond and no response from the guy.In a few cases I can believe there is double booking go on but you just never know.

For the past 2 months I have noticed that a good associate of mines and I keep getting double booked with each other. I do not publicly offer doubles with this individual nor do I recommend her frequently either but lately we seem to keep having the same men double booking us...coincidence? I'm not sure but I have started to put these men in my "ignore list" knowing that as "mature/seasoned/know it all" hobbyists they claim themselves to be, that sending out "feelers, half ass bookings, and short ends" is unacceptable and costs us providers a great deal of lost business/time because of it...

I warn any other hobbyists you uses this practice to not do that with me, eventually we providers do find out and it has many different negative resulting consequences....

If you know you want to see someone in particular, reach out to them in enough time before its too late, if she doesn't contact you in a certain amount of your time then move on to your back ups and see her the next time you come around but don't double book, double booking is highly frowned upon and have consequences all the way up to blacklisting depending upon the lady...

Just my .02

if a guy is sick, ok, if a guy can't make it for some reason ok. that's usually what happens iwth women, not that we are double booking guys to make sure we have guaranteed money (in thier case, company)

most men can be scheduled pretty close to the time they want. Ive never met any man that wouldn't be flexible with a meeting time. so it doesn't make any sense that girls would cancel someone for that.

Answer text hone calls or  email when appt day comes around.Then coming on the board looking for another lady to do the same shit again and again.

Don't do to others what you don't want done to you........ Treat people they way you want to be treated.

With that said - I have no problem if a Gent emails a few different ladies , because many ladies don't respond . So I think the Gent has a right to inquire with more then one lady.
BUT an inquire isn't a booking . Unless I have finalized plans with the Gent , the date is open to whoever COMMITS first

Lets say Gent # 1 emails me asking about my availability on XYZ .
I say yes I am available on XYZ. but then I never hear back from Gent #1
In the mean time I get Gent # 2 asking about the same XYZ date and
is ready to commit and book it. I will book it.
Two weeks later Gent # 1 emails me back ,ok I want to book XYZ day.
Well sorry buddy , you snooze , you loose.
and BTW I do explain all this to the inquiring Gent.

This is not a double booking . Double booking would be if I booked Gent #1 and Gent # 2 , just to cancel last minute on one of them.- NOT COOL
Same goes for the Gent. If he books two ladies just to cancel on one of them last minute , that is a BIG NO NO in my book.- NOT COOL AT ALL

Now if a gent wants to see a certain lady and wants a "back up plan" I will respect the Gent much more if he is honest with me.
He can tell me - I am booking so and so . If she cancels on me , can I call you ? Yes of course , although I can't guarantee that I will be available. It can be a hit or miss.
I don't feel like I am second choice . Variety is the spice of life. Doesn't mean the Gent doesn't enjoy being with me.

Now with that said ,I do get annoyed when a Gent books me , then uses me as a reference , then cancels on me last minute with some lame excuse.
Later I find out ( and yes we do find out , not even trying to find out ) that he saw the lady I gave a reference too.
I am reference friendly. No need to "book me" so I will give you a reference .......... When you do that , You just lose my respect.

Another no no in my book is when a Gent sends out a few emails. commits and finalize plans with a certain lady.
Then days/weeks later the Gent hears back from his "first choice"
and cancels on the lady he already committed to.
That goes for a lady too , if you committed to lets say an hour booking , but then a dinner date came along ........ sorry I believe in honoring your commitment , UNLESS
you are open and honest with your date , explain things and he is ok canceling , changing meeting or maybe sending one of your friends.

One should never dismiss an hour date .......... you never know what can come out of it .
That one hour may turn into much repeat business , while that "dinner date" was just a one time thing.
I once had an hour date turn later into 10 days in Bali.

Does everyone have honest and integrity business ethics ? no . But that goes for all walks of life.

I can only control how I am.
I choose to treat people how I want to be treated . and keep my commitments.

If I have to cancel due to illness I always make sure to go above and beyond to make it up to the Gent so he knows I was really sick.
How many times can a person get sick ? well you never know people may have all types of health issues ( lets say cancer, yes I am using extreme example on purpose )  
that they don't want to disclose to the public. There is no
"how many times"........sick isn't just the flu

Now the car breaking down ? it can happen . Has happened to me a few times this year..........but I still made it to my appointments.
Now someones car is breaking down twice a week ........ Yeah maybe time to get a new car

I am sure I will remember a bit later a few other scenarios .........but for now this should keep you busy.
The opinion of the Day from the Spice Corner
xoxo CindySpice

Your points are incredibly valid as usual.  YOU aren't the type that would crap on a guy last minute, just like I'm not the type of guy to do so.  Here's the rub though...we aren't normal, at least not in this world in this city.  I've been flaked on plenty of times, often by names that everyone here would recognize.  It's always for a valid reason if you're the person giving it.  As the person receiving it, I just file it away in the memory bank and when a few pile up, she goes on my personal DNS list.

I'm not sure that any of this helps, but until guys feel that gals will blow them off at the last minute, they're going to continue to be assholes.  As long as guys do that, ladies will feel justified in continuing to flake.

Wow!Never?You seem to be the exception because many ladies have experienced this at one time or another.If you have never had to encounter this that is great you are lucky!

First off what is "normal" ? who is the one setting the standards of "normal"
With that said , I think that I am not normal or maybe not the norm LOL LOL
but even in the world of "not normal" and the city of "not even normal" I am still able to run my business in a very normal way.

So I think it is about choices that people make that can set the tone.
OR maybe their ability to make certain choices.
Will one day everything be so perfect ........ of course not. We don't live in a perfect world
( we can only hope for perfect )

But we can try. So if my post even changes a few peoples ( Gents or Ladies ) ways.
Then it was worth the time I took to make my post and proves how valuable
TER discussion boards are.

And Phil , as you say -  "I just file it away in the memory bank and when a few pile up, she goes on my personal DNS list."
That is exactly what you should do. Maybe in future those ladies will learn how to conduct their business...........Just saying .
And same goes for the guys that choose to double book.

Maybe little by little we can try to make the world ( normal or not ) a better place *wink wink*

Now no disrespect to those who say they never ever had that problem.
If so , then truly you are very lucky.
And although I can count on one hand cancellations I have had , I can't say it NEVER happened to me.
So you mean you never had a cancellation ever , or maybe you were just not aware that the cancellation was because of a double booking.  
I think it can happen to the best of us.
but if someone never had a cancelation , that is great !
Maybe there is more hope for normal in our non normal world.

What is freaky to me is when it did happen that someone booked me just to cancel , I already knew that was going to happen.......Sometimes I just don't know how I know things.
Now if I can only use "my powers" to hit the lottery   LOL LOL LOL

Won't retire , but it would be nice that I wouldn't have to rely on the stock market to do better LOL LOL

Always giving my Spice opinion even if you want it/like it or not !!
xoxo CindySpice

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I think those ISO posts and responses are really hot, I think this board is really hot, there are allot of other ladies out there but you guys are clearly the most fun.  So far I've always just did searches to find dates, but this board is so fascinating I think I'm going to strictly look for dates here.

I was looking forward to making an ISO post about two months before my reservation (january ?) to give me time to review and compare interested ladies and prepare a budget and an agenda.  About one month before my trip (February) I will make appointment requests, and hopefully, by that time, because I will have had an opportunity to review my options, I will have a real specific itinerary for each date, shows, clubs, where we're going to eat, how much time we will spend, etc.  Hopefully I'll have tickets and reservations as well.  All that will be possible because of the interactive nature of this board.  And if someone flakes on me I'm going to put up another post, take my iPhone, go wait at the restaurant and cross my fingers. As responsive as you guys are, I think that sound like even more fun.

So I hope you don't give up on all the ISO posts, it really makes this board a fun place to be.

I'm sure many guys do just what you say. I however am not one of those that double book ladies then cancel on one. I have however been the victim of this from a few ladies. How do I know? I've read the posted reviews of the offenders and found they left me high and dry for someone that wanted a longer date or who made a better offering then me. So just remember until it stops on both ends these things will continue. Just my 2 cents.

My post referenced to the words "never ever" not "zero percent"

No not hard to believe you only had 2 NSNC or very few cancellations because as I mentioned ,
I can count on one hand cancellations that I have had.
and the one NSNC that I ever had , well it was justified ........ the guy died the night before we were suppose to meet.

I do believe you attract what you are. We are not flakes, so we don't really get flakes.
but it only takes one , that I can't say "never ever", happened to me.
What can I say - I am a very technical person LOL LOL so even one is not a "never ever"

I agree with you. Two NSNC , client will get fired. But if he calls to cancel that is different from NSNC.
As you mentioned -"For the guys, if you are continually getting blown off, maybe start choosing with both heads instead of one. " - Yep I think so too.

And to add what another poster wrote - two wrongs , don't make a right .
I am sorry to hear you were left high and dry ,BUT if you try in future to book the ladies who did that to you ( yes plenty gents do that ) ......well you are sending them a message that it is ok to do that.

Again , things will never be perfect , but we can try our best to try to make it better for everyone.

Time to get some beauty sleep.
xoxo CindySpice

Well said.  Got to treat others, as you would like to be treated.  
Sometime, stuff happens.  This is real reallity, not some TV show.  We, both hobbiests and providers, have live and families.  Sometime, you have to cancil.  Doing it profeswsionally and polietly is a Must.
I'd never double book.  Although, Vegas is a bad 'plan B town'.  I wouldn't want my time and effort wasited, like the ladies' would be, with a double book.  
Keep up the great posts, Cindy.




p.s.  How are you at sleep-overs??????(cheshire cat grin)