high jacking other girls threads along with talking shit about them is probably not the best way to become a favorite among the other ladies here.

Hang in there Robbin, your friends here will back you to the fullest.  I agree, there seems to be a lot of haters around lately, intruders from some other place.  Maybe they are jealous of you, some people just can't ever be happy, so let them get over it.

I searched Melanie's and Kayla/Jordan's ad threads and this was the only one you posted under. I guess the one ad per week rule has been suspended since Melanie's were dated 6/16, 6/17, 6/18, 6/23, and 6/27.

Her message to you was rude but it was private so it's probably not a good idea to post it.

Aren't you guys tired of going after innocent girls yet? I have not seen any of the girls you go after or robbin. But if I had to pick one of the girls to see, it would not be Robbin since I have seen her lack of classy with her name calling and assaults on other girls here.

As for her friends backing her up, that will always be the case here I am afraid. The rest of us have no choice but to sit back and put u with the bullshit.

I will give you some observations and advice and do believe from what I have heard from you so far, that you will take it constructively. Besides, you did ask.

First, take a look at this link:
http://www.theeroticreview.com/discussion_boards/topPosters.asp?BoardID=3&Page=1

My dear, this is not a position you should strive for. Being the top poster on any discussion board brings with it a certain amount of dislike from the masses. The masses are your future clientele and they are lurking on every board, but do not ever post. They are not into all this banter, or train wrecks as some of them become. These also are the gentleman that will help you on your continuation of becoming an elite top tier provider, either here or in other cities. Trust me reviews speak for themselves as do your White Knights.

For a top tier provider it is an old axiom, “less is more”. I know right now you have a certain amount of adoration for some of the other top tier ladies in this community. It is no mistake that they are not in the top 10 of board posters. It really does not suit them probably yet they also know that being a poster involved in drama on the boards is not good for their career. My advice then is to take that same approach.

You say that all this posting is some sort of therapy during the trying times you are experiencing right now. Still, it is not in your best interest to continue on this path. I have read a lot of your posts and I see a totally sweet, sincere and caring woman with the potential to take your career to a level that most girls never accomplish. My concern is that it would and could implode around you if you are not wise to this stuff. You yourself have stated you’re new to being a companion and to all this discussion board hoopla.

Lastly, don’t leave this board. You are loved. My advice is to scale back, contribute when you think it best and use it some for your good health if it does help. You have a small bump in the road right now yet that will clear in time and you will be well on your way to being a true super star. Don’t ruin it before you get there. Maybe one day we too will meet.

Now, likely I will be jumped on for making this post, but hey, that is after all the nature of discussion boards. Someone has to say it. It’s a no win. lol

She's a rude, paranoid ass.  Sending an email like that to you and thinking it couldn't possibly wind up on the board for all to see is foolish.  It's obvious to those who aren't jealous that you are new, asking questions from everyone and all in the name of being the best you can be here.  You don't see anyone else flaring up when you ask a question.... So, screw her and her obviously insecure notions and paranoid delusions of you "needing attention."  She'll be "needing business" because of you and that's what prompted her behind the scenes mail to you.  She must have missed the compliments and genuine appreciation you expressed for her.  Good, she can keep on missing it....She is class less, scared and juvenille.  However, if you look at it for what it really is, it's one of the highest form of flattery there is. The other is imitation. So, for what it's worth be who you always are....and if you have 5 haters, aim for 6 otherwise you're losing your touch!!!  

To the ass who seems to think people should start their own threads,Mblah blah 69 or whatever, don't bother attacking me because it's one's like you who make me look like a little desert flower!!!

Love you Robin...and the rest of you of course.

Ashley Jade the NON HATER  Ha!!

Good advice of course. However, I'm glad she posted this.  Although she is a frequent poster on this board, stuff like this sometimes needs to surface here.  Not so much for us as providers, but for hobbyists as well because it gives an inside look as to what an individual is really like.  The Providers board may have been more appropriate. It's not a good habbit to get into, but, in lieu of Robin being new and trying to learn I can understand.  Trust me, if it weren't for Smarty I wouldn't even be here at all.
Just my two cents, plus I'm partial to Robin and it's not hard to figure out why.  xo

This will be my ONE & ONLY post!!...Thank you Smarty for the WONDERFUL
post, well said!!...Anything sent PRIVATE, should be kept just
that!!...PRIVATE!!....It was quite difficult to see the "compliment" in
her post, when it was backed up by "DOES NOT SHOWING YOUR FACE CONCERN
HOBBYISTS"?....I mean, c'mon!!....What was her "point"??.

I have not been doing this long either, but certainly understand that LESS
IS MORE!!...Oh, and pmashley?...Looks as though "you" are on the SAME path
as Robbin!!...Anger & A filthy mouth, about someone you have NEVER
met!!....Probably should read Smarty1101's post 100 times!.

Thank you Gentleman to EVERYONE who has filled out my form!!...I will get
back to you ASAP, to schedule a date while I am in town!!...Melanie~ Xo

Re: Good-bye, It'sTime For A TER Hiatus Re: Robbin, you asked for advice here…..

Robbin…you don't know me, but up until the last couple of days, I was one of those silent lurkers that Smarty talked about, but in my lurking I have come to adore you, as my earlier post today indicated.

If it is to be a hiatus, just know that you’ll be missed.  You have much to deal with, which many of us who have lost fortunes and/or cared for loved ones can identify with.  But you have shown a large amount of class and spunk through your posts, and this too shall pass.  You shouldn’t let a bit of cattiness bother you and it’s obvious that you won’t.  My guess is that the hiatus won’t last long.

For Ashley, you go girl!  Being a redhead myself, or is it having a red head…hmmm, doesn’t matter…I appreciate your directness.  When everyone else on the board was going crazy, you came on in your demure and understated way, and just set the record straight.  It was a thing of beauty.

For both, when you decide to go the Green Door please make a big noise about it.  I would drive miles and miles just to watch either of you there, and for both...WOW!

Please post more often. This board needs new (and sincere) dialog DNA.

Robbin - Sweetheart. Do you know how many times I've almost cum in my pants reading your posts? Please do check in as often as possible.

Ladies all: Please join what civil discussion may be available here. We (well, I) do sometimes cause drama, but with the best intentions. My apologies if my sweeping up around the room has kicked some dust up and fouled the air. If the gals don't jump in now and then, even if to change the subject, then we start to look a lot like a circle jerk. You know we love you all.... well... with few exceptions...

Alan

Robbin, you've received some very good advice from some people here. I would take a little from each person,and use it judiciously. If you take a hiatus, as you have most likely decided to do, then you have essentially let melanie win. Thats not right. But if you continue to post as much as you do, then you may "offend" some of the visiting providers here. Please, if you can, reconsider your decision to go on a complete hiatus. I understand your current situation, and respect you more than you know for it. If, however, there is some therapy for you, then stop in once in a while. Let us know how you are doing. Your presence here is definitely refreshing, enjoyable and enticing. I look forward to September more now, because of your pending return. Until then, be safe, and be well.

xoxo,

Brian

Yeah, considering Smarty is one of my dearest friends and teachers....watch your suggestions to me. If you think I have an issue with anger then you are incorrect again. It's more like an issue with disrespect. My "filthy" mouth is called sarcasm. Don't need to meet you-now.   This wasn't up my ally to even give you a public response, however, I figured you needed to see proper use of quotation marks and maybe learn a little something about treating all the ladies, in private or in public, with some support, sisterhood and most assuredly respect. Whether they are from your area and you know them or not. New or not. It's the righteous way most of us are towards each other. I truly am sorry you didn't feel complimented....I could see it plain as day. I mean that. Take care.
AJ

I hate it when you're correct, lol.  This is excellent advice.

It is often tricky for the new ladies to put a barometer on publicity (and this is in no way a slam on Robbin).  "If a little is good, then a lot must be great" is a popular, but misguided, opinion.  I've come to know a lot of ladies beyond the hour appointment, as I know that you have.  Sometimes that's a good thing, and other times it's not.  Once the illusion wears off, you have to either become more than just clients, or clients that know secrets.  While that is interesting sometimes you just want to believe that you're really that fucking special, but that bubble's been popped.  Boards are funny that way too.  We get to know each other.  To a degree, that's great, but beyond that magical point, I see all the imperfections, and the moment has changed in a way that can't be put back in the box.

Let me ask you a question...

Is English your second language or do you have a twitch in your little finger when you type?  If you could express a coherent thought you might be taken more seriously.  That and your lack of reviews makes you a bit questionable.

If I didn't know better I'd think you were ROYALFLUSHED using an alias and coming here under that clever disguise of turning off your caps lock key.  In any case, I believe I'll "put u with the bullshit."

Robin, it's unfortunate that your message was completely taken out of context.  I have found you to be very courteous to both provider's and hobbyist's alike.  Please continue to be the classy woman that you are...hopefully other's will follow suit!!!

Re: IMPORTANT, FYI Re: Robbin, you asked for advice here…..

I don't do the lottery and hate to stand in line. I guess I'm out then?

Maybe I'm wrong, but I think that women will spend time with me IN SPITE OF my ramblings on this board.  It has to do with the pocket full of autographed Ben Franklin pictures that I carry.

I had intended on putting the 2 of you into my vehicle and transporting you to the Green Door.  Anything that goes beyond that will undoubtedly be completely beyond my control.  Women tend to have the effect of removing all of my willpower.

Re: Harley74 Re: IMPORTANT, FYI

yes dear I know and I promised you a ride on my custom orange vibrator - By the time you get back I'll have built a new one but I am thinking of RED. Kind of like Ashley's hair. Ashley don't take that the wrong way I love you and your hair.LOL

The more she looks disturbed!!....She now posts a "post", saying how she will no longer "post".....The problem is.........SHE KEEPS POSTING!!!!!!. **WTF*??..**LOL** **LOL**

Ashley

That was very nice of you to stand up for Robin. I think I was wrong about you. You are nice person.

Bengalguy