Mods won't approve my post since it contains "personal information", but I just want to put it out there that Tasha owes me a SUBSTANTIAL sum of money, & THAT'S where everything went wrong

Hmm.  I'm assuming from your post that she didn't steal it from you, so you must have voluntarily "given" "loaned" or "deposited" the the money.  

I've sort of got a Vegas favorite and have never met Tasha, but she seems to have a stellar reputation.

Have you tried to talk to her and work it out between the two of you before you trashed her publicly like that?

the lovesick puppy dogs of this hobby.  You give her a 9 in performance even though she can't keep you hard enough to fuck and you end up jacking off while watching her play with herself.

So you fall in love with her and let her milk you for a bunch of money.  Then you get pissed when she won't complete your fantasy by riding off with you into the sunset.

Get a life.  She hosed you with your own consent.

I just never knew that it meant someone really actually "forgot it was a service".

You've obviously had concerns about me for YEARS now, but you continued to ask me for money every time you needed it.

You've thought I was taking things too far for YEARS, but for the last TWO YEARS you've had at least half, & sometimes ALL of the donation up front coz I was sucker enough to give it to you.

I just want to get this all out in the open so people think twice before they see you or try & help you out after you USED me.

Is it a crime to accept the fawnings of a sucker?  I let guys give my lady stuff all the time.  Then I return it and spend the money on getting some strange while she's at work.  I think of it as recycling.

Did you offer to give her money? Was it a tip? Did you make a plan for her to pay you back? Was anything written? Have you attempted to contact her?

Don't put people's info out there unless you are ready to put your own out there as well. There is a much better way to resolve things then publicly.

Loan - money to be paid back at a later date
Donation - a gift for you to keep.

Which was it?

My reply to her reply that got deleted had some of the details, my repost says "active" but I don't see it here so I'll copy & paste:

You've obviously had concerns about me for YEARS now, but you continued to ask me for money every time you needed it.

You've thought I was taking things too far for YEARS, but for the last TWO YEARS you've had at least half, & sometimes ALL of the donation up front coz I was sucker enough to give it to you.

I just want to get this all out in the open so people think twice before they see you or try & help you out after you USED me.

So yes it was a "donation" in the way that everybody uses the term here, it was an advance on future services rendered.  Which after getting about FOUR THOUSAND DOLLARS from me up front coz I was sucker enough to give it to her she starts changing the terms of our agreement 2 weeks out she starts thinking I'm psycho coz I got mad about being shortchanged.

very calm, and very honest in her answer ... so what gives?

It's none of my business, but I felt compelled to say that in my opinion this should have been and should be handled PRIVATELY...not cool to air someone's personal business on a very public board.

I hope you two get this sorted and can move on...Tasha has a GREAT reputation for a reason!

Peace

I was sucker enough that I was going to just let this all go until I saw it.

it would have never been known that it was you.  You outed yourself not her and then choose to try and take her down on this board.  Not cool no matter what the situation or who it is.  

You both need to address this in PRIVATE as this public board is not the place.

My guess is that if she does indeed owe you money then I am certain she will take care of it.  At this point, since this JUST happened I highly doubt that she has even had the chance to reimburse you.  Give her at least some time to get it together...IF she owes you!  

I hope you can both settle this amicably and OFF THE BOARDS!

This is what happens when a provider who has been around for a while abuses members of the TER community. Wrong is Wrong.

Lets hope this guy doesn't go on for weeks like others here.

But she posted enough details that anybody with half a brain could figure it out.

Samantha you are flawless, but Tasha hardly keeps other people's business private. I think she should stick to her own standards.

Have you read this message board? Or is this the first post you ever clicked on?

IMHO you are both at fault here and how you each choose to handle this mess going forward will simply show who has character and who doesn't.  

You each have your own reasons for how you choose to deal with this but airing your dirty laundry on the boards is just tacky imho.

she needs to pay it back! It's her choice if she doesn't want to see him. But if he is owed money then Tasha needs to pay it back! Period . . . end of story!

I was willing to let it slide until I see her post on the boards where she admits USING me for two years & conveniently leaves out the part where I'm sending her money constantly.

She's obviously felt like this for a while but kept asking for money coz I was dumb enough to send it to her.

So I wanted everybody to see her true colors since everybody seems to have such a high opinion of her.

Can we expect more threads like this from other clients of yours? I was thinking of booking, but I will have to pass now.

Maybe that didn't come across correctly.

Of course I read it. Relax

But admonished both of them for seemingly crossing over the boundary. Even with both sides of the story my mind has not changed.
MikeRH. Lessons can be learned the hard way.

Nonetheless, Tasha. If you took his advanced money for a session and canceled, you are not entitled to keep it. Just because you suddenly woke up and didn't want to see him is no excuse for taking that large sum of money from him. You canceled the 24 hour date, and rightfully so. give him his money back. After all, you yourself said it was "not all about the money".

BTW, I read the thread on the other board too, Tasha.
I hope that you will do the right thing.

Are things really so slow for her that she needs to borrow money? Is that why she is constantly attacking other girls - Because she is being greedy?

and she cancelled you,there would still be evidence for you to write a better review on HER than the HACKS you have seen .STFU.

Guess you are lol. See my reply below.

she asked the GD board for advice regarding a bad situation she put herself in, DID NOT name names and admitted partial culpability.

He personally attacked and named names!  He hasn"t said whether he has asked for and been refused his money or whether it has even been addressed.  My guess is they are in a pissing match of he said she said and neither have addressed the core issue yet. It literally has been just a few days and if she indeed does owe him money that he says was pre-paid don't you think she might need more than a minute to come up with oh say a couple grand or so?

It is her right to change her mind in seeing him and his right to want his money back but give her a minute to get it before going into full-out attack mode.  That's all I am saying.  Isn't it innocent until proven guilty?

She's got 130 reviews from satisfied customers for Christ's sake. Most sane guys plop their envelope down at the time of the meeting and get what they pay for. Tasha obviously has a solid track record with "typical" clients.

ass too. Shall I inform Admin. of your exploits?

I havnt met Tasha yet but I have talked to her many times. I just dont think she would something like this. As far as i have seen from her shes a total sweetheart with great intensions. I hope this can be cleared up without a bunch more bashing going on. Dude if it did happen, lesson learned. If it didnt happen like you say, please end this here and now. Thanks

way BETTER than that.

Mike, when I canceled the appointment, did I NOT say I would pay you back??  Yes I did, I still have the messages we exchanged.  When you said you were sorry, I just said I hope you didn't do anything to harm me nor my family, since you know ALL of my personal information including my home address.  You said you wouldn't.  You then responded saying "you knew you would get your heart broken in the end."  I said you shouldn't had ever had your heart in this.  This is pay for play not e harmony and you crossed many many boundaries and you knew it.

When I stopped feeding into your senseless text messages they turned from sorry to anger, to rage and then you brought Puck and my family into it.  I know you did this just in hopes I would continue to respond to you, but instead I did what any smart woman would do and changed my number.  Oh and I did forward the text to Puck, we are still trying to figure out wtf it meant but whatever.  I guess that is the passive aggressive thing you had going on.

I told you I would pay you back.  You got back from Vegas and saw my post and basically decided instead of letting me do so, you would attempt to bruise my reputation.  Thank you it's appreciated.
 
First off, I didn't ROB you.  I didn't go into your pants while you were sleeping and take money from you.  I didn't hold a gun to your head and demand money.  Hell half the time I told you about my struggles, I didn't ASK you offered.  Now you DID NOT pay 4grand.  So stop acting like that is the amount.  Not to mention, the time you brought your sister and HER SO to OUR appt, I walked out.  I should had charged triple since I was entertaining THREE people, not one.  

You basically were OK with me saying I'd pay you back in text messages, but then when you saw I made a post in case you should decide to do something stupid while you were in Vegas and hurt me, someone would know who did it.  I had every intention of paying you back.  But I think at this point it's better for my safety that I stay far away from you.  You are obviously crazy.

Am I right for the way I ended things.  Probably not.  However, after crying in an appt like I was your girlfriend was to much.  Should I had told you earlier?  Sure, but I'm a nice person and hate to see people's feelings hurt.  And I know you are a sensitive man.  That is probably why you are 40 and still at home with Mom.  But I WILL not continue to drag myself through the mud dealing with your bipolar, over obsessed behavior.  

I appreciate your post, but next time please get the facts right.  I should consider all that money as payment for the 100 of hours or IM's.  For the stalker behavior I've had to deal with over the years and all the trouble you have caused me.  Not to mention the time I walked out of our date because you brought family.  That was 4hrs at 1400 times 3.  That is 3200.  So basically we are even since you NEVER ever sent me anywhere NEAR 4k.  

He did help me when at the end of my pregnancy.  I didn't ask for it, HE OFFERED it.  If he hadn't been so stalkerish and overly obsessed and needy, I would've done my 24hr appt and then told him I was done.  However, I was to fearful for my safety that I didn't feel comfortable at my own M&G with him there, I knew I wouldn't be OK going 300 miles from home with him.

I do not want any further contact with you Mike, don't be upset because YOU caused this.  You need professional help and this is the wrong profession to find the help you need.  I've never ever robbed anyone.  I've never ever borrowed money and not paid it back.  That isn't my character.  You are upset because I let everyone know just how obsessed you were with me. You are mad because I actually had fear of my safety so posted to make sure people knew should anything happen.  The difference is, I had class and didn't mention your name.  

As I said, I find it entertaining that you were OK with me paying you back when I said I would in the text.  But then when I didn't respond any further and you continued to text I changed my number.  So then you emailed saying how you were crying etc and I still never responded.  I think you were angry and you knew this was a way to get my response.  So here it is.  Enjoy.  And if you continue to try to contact me, I will be getting a restraining order.

You may want to get all the facts before you attempt to attack me.  I've never attacked another lady sweetness.  I attacked an agency.  Indeed I did

She is the sweetest, most well-read individuals I've ever had the pleasure of encountering. She's always read to help, assist, mentor, what have you....

The situation between her and MikeRH has been blown out of proportion. MikeRH is displaying childish behaviors. He needs to understand that he's wasted countless hours of Tasha's time, through email, phone calls, text messages... She does not deserve the "TASHA BASHING" that's she's getting right now. MikeRH is a client of hers for YEARS. It wasn't a 2 meeting thing... It's been years of her wondering whether or not this man is "safe" enough to keep as a client. He's acting irrational, and owes her SOMETHING for the chaos and stress he's put her through.

Once more, MikeRH has OFFERED her gifts many times. She has never asked straight up for money from him. He is twisting the situation to gain sympathy for his 5 year old, living at home with his mother, falling in love with escorts ego.

MikeRH did not PAY HER THE FULL 24hr donation she requests. He paid her less than her 14hr, on top of her already doing 4 of the hours previously...

I'll repeat my statement from earlier.... "He's acting irrational, and owes her SOMETHING for the chaos and stress he's put her through."

Even after she's offered to pay the money back, you still made a post, looking for attention. She didn't STEAL the money, you handed it over to her. Think twice before you try to ruin a hard-working woman's life, due to your obsession.

Client paid in advance for a session, the session was cancelled by the provider, the money should be refunded. I cannot think of any contingencies which would excuse repayment.

Frankly, as someone who considers Tasha a friend, the entire incident is disturbing on many levels. It saddens me greatly to have to read about this.

I will be frank, it is too complicated for TER for me to discuss their relationship. Let's just say the client is not an "average" client, and Tasha understood this going in.

You are advocating that a girl cancel on me? She wouldn't do that. She needs the money. OSP I admit that you are a much better hobbyist than I am.  But I asked a question to the lady who unfairly accused a member of the community of being a stalker. A girl that took pre-payments in advance and has not given a dollar back.

Anyone with half a brain wouldn't have acted like a 5 year telling the whole world your problems. You need to handle it between yourselves. Don't include everyone else in it.

Please ruin your OWN life.

Wow personal threats by OSP. Big surprise. LOL.

fault here, but he's responsible.  Grow a set and stop being hormonal on this thread on the boards.

Tasha doesn't have that same respect for people. Does she have to wait for clients to give her donations after the session? No. This guy pre-paid her for her time. She didn't fulfill. Therefore she should IMMEDIATELY return the money otherwise she is just a common thief.

on issues like this.

Just because she has over 100 reviews doesn't mean she can do whatever she wants.

Didn't you used to work for an agency?

Looks like he is saying something different.

"Think twice before you try to ruin a hard-working woman's life, due to your obsession."

Really now? Lets cut the bs. She thinks she can do whatever she wants. She isn't working too hard if she is taking advanced payments.

I bet you wanna put it on layaway... Mr. 7-7 & 4-1 last YEAR.

ha. you ran out last year?

We work hard. Us women work very very hard. It's not every day/week that we get work. So we have to make ends meet in between work. It's his issue if he wanted to pay in advance or not. NOT YOURS.

Fucking stalker dude! Mike Rh! First off Tasha didn't name you in her post! Wouldn't take a rocket scientist to know who she was talking about? She has, what, 130 or so reviews? Do you really think, in your twisted little world, that ANY of us are going to go thru all those reviews to single your crazy ass out?! You are fucking nuts!!!

If you gave Tasha money in advance for dates, who's fault is that? And all the PMs and shit? Did she send any to you asking for money? I highly fucking doubt it! Sounds like you were needing her attention, she was dumb enough to give it to you, and you gave her money because you were trying to buy her.

I don't know anything about Tasha's financial situation and don't care to. It's none of my fucking business! But I will tell you, I will be helping it in a couple of weeks because she and I have an extended date when I go to Vegas in a week and a half! And there ain't a GODDAM thing you can say here to change my mind!

I talk with Tasha constantly! BOTH ways! We share calls, texts, and emails and NEVER has she hinted that she needs money!

You know what? I'm going to give you a chance to reply. I've got plenty more, so let's hear it!!!

MP67  

I got you buddy. Listen Melody, not everybody writes reviews all the time. Your presence here is questionable to say the least. And attacking potential clients is not the best way to get business. LA seems more your style.

Funny how the hotter the woman though the less they get criticized for such things.  I went through 5 months of trying to fix my reputation and dealing with people calling me a liar and deceitful.  Those ladies all got a pass.  I don't think I effected their business by the least, nor the agencies income.

That isn't a part of this thread though.  I haven't ROBBED anyone, I haven't taken anyone's money.  I've never acted any way other than professional in my work.  I told him I would pay him back on Saturday night when I let him know I would no longer be seeing him.  He was fine with that then.

But then he gets home and sees I made a post in case something should happen to me as far as my safety goes, and decided because of that he should air dirty laundry.  He never even gave me a chance to make right.  Nope.  he figured I hurt his feelings so he would attempt to hurt my business.

It has been four days since this has happened.  Since I canceled the appointment I was to fearful to attend.  He sent me a PM last night after he read my post saying "It's on!"  Guess this is what he meant.

Notice since I've responded he has got quiet?  That's because this is exactly what he wanted.  A response from me.

Remember how you work to make drama disappear? The way you work has been noted not just by me, but others as well.

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