Last night as I flirted online with one of my ATF's it occured to me that we hobbiests have probably all seen providers that really love what they do. They enjoy sex and love the way they make a living.
On the other hand, we have all seen those ladies that are in it just for the money.
And you know, it's pretty easy to tell the difference.

maybe broad assumptions cannot be made.maybe some are just better than others at convincing you they enjoy flirting with you for free?some providers don't have time or the privacy in their private lives to flirt with you if it's not an appointment.it's nice she made you feel special but you can't expect every gal to be able to or want to make time to do that.

In any profession, I understand that there are people that enjoy their work more than others.

For some it's just a job and for others it's fun.

But I think we all (and I probably shouldn't speak for others, just me)...have had experiences where you feel like she really enjoys this (or is a helluva actress), while other times, when the session was over(sometimes,even earlier)...you thought to yourself, she's just in it for the money.

Just an observation, not meant to ruffle any feathers.

That a good percentage of well reviewed providers hate what they do, in spite of it not showing in their reviews.  Ask yourself why they want to share a drink with you at the bar before going up to the room.  Some say it's to have time to get to know you.  Others realize that it's to dull their senses because they're about to fuck a perfect stranger.

It's a F****** business.  No pun intended.  In my business I have customers I enjoy doing business and others I grin and deal with them.

I've got my own business like Carl, and there are customers I like doing business with and others when I see their name on the caller id, I take a deep breath, cause I know they're going to bust my chops. Just the way it is! However, unlike escorts, I can't turn down customers.

with you as an LE check?

Who knows about the rest. I've seen quite a few ladies that shared with me that a rotten economy has caused them to become providers. Getting kicked out of a house because of no rent money and having the utilities disconnected in the summer...you get the drift.

Then there are the ones who selectively have one or so dates a week and get paid for it. They read our posted reviews also. A lot can be learned about a guy in his reviews, including his price point.

I am in it for my enjoyment...the rest take the backseat....