Posting here since I find the responses on the Las Vegas site to be better than many other cities.

In setting up a meeting with a lady a question arose about what services are offered and the question of GFE or not - which we all know is so well defined. So my questions -

Ladies are cautious about the language used in email and text discussions (as they should be to protect themselves) so how does one go about asking for specific services without scaring her off?

For example if I sent her an email asking about MSOG, LFK, DATY, FIV, submissive, role play - how far over the boundary may I have gone.

For those about to respond that I should read her prior reviews she had indicated to me that she may be changing her services so may not be GFE so I would like to respond but in a way that wont scare her off from seeing me.

Thank you for your help.

I as a provider find it less intimidating when a gentleman asks me where he can find an updated list of what I offer. That doesn't scare me away personally but I can't speak for everyone. Especially if one includes references or handle names from the start. That way I can look him up to see that he would be a reputable person to see and I would then gladly direct him to the answer. If no reviews that would be a hard one to answer. Maybe go off of the last and very recent review She may have. Good luck!

I do read recent reviews to sense if the activities are what I am looking for. My question is if it is proper to ask the lady if her ter profile is accurate? I have personally never done that but if some ladies could respond if that is acceptable or not?

some lades may and some may not but I think if I had a question to ask I would start well before the you wanted to meet and make sure she has all your white list and oks let her chuck you out!!! then ask if she would be comfortable if you ask a question you will get a yes or no  I am not saying it would work ya know

Different handles, you referred to the above question like it was yours

I only have one ID - the other individual is different but I guess has a similar question.

no I am a different guy just trying to kinda give a heads upon how I would ask a question if I had one cant hurt to ask

For a lot of ladies, if you sent that email asking about all those activities, you more than likely won't get a response. Now, some ladies will discuss after you have been thoroughly screened and some won't discuss ever.  

If she was the one who said that some of her services may be changing, you can always reply with something like "if you feel comfortable, would you mind sharing what those changes will be?". Or that you have some questions about the changes that will determine if you will book or not and don't want to waste her time if you two aren't on the same wavelength

My suggestion is follow the ladies lead. I will usually ask certain questions after screening in regards to "special requests ".
Do as much of your own research as possible,that always keeps things comfortable for both parties involved!

For me it's not so much what you say , it's how you say it !!!!

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It would seem to me that the Lady would like to be asked a questions re: services because the guy is interested in seeing her or he would not be asking.

 BUT,,, that if the guying asking has posted reviews and has White list status and is also on P411 then I think the exchange of info and services offered should be easy then, Because it is an inquiry from a true hobbyist.