I get asked CONSTANTLY to participate in doubles with either Tasha, Kiwi, or one of the other very lovely "laid"ies here. Usually it is not a problem the client will fork over the agreed upon amount and every last one of my doubles partners have left my clients VERY HAPPY MEN! Or a very happy COUPLE!

Lately I have had a ton of request for MFM's....or a voyeuristic cuck-hold session. The request is for the male provider that I bring to the session to be straight, not bi, not bi-curious, just a plain ole straight man.

Many straight male providers are as serious about their business as we are, they screen, they use protection, and they are very professional.

My problem is......I keep getting requests for my male doubles partner to lower his rates, or a client is in shock that they have to pay him at all? Think about it? I am a bundle of energy during all our experiences, here is this male provider who has to deal with me...and me on Cialis....(which is a whole other post) but I am usually bouncing all over the place, hyper horny, and ready to experience something new. He will have to put his back into it...A game has to be on, because I will certainly be on my A Game. My client has the choice to sit there and watch, tap out, take a break, or do whatever, my male provider friend does not have that option.

I will use Smith Curren as an example. Smith does not live in Las Vegas, we are not personal fuck buddies, I have had several clients ask for me to double with him, but do not want to pay his travel expenses, or his hourly rate.

It does not matter if it is a couple requesting I bring my own male doubles partner or a single man.....it is like pulling teeth and usually leads to a very long conversation as to why STRAIGHT male providers deserve just as much professional consideration as female providers. If the request is for a bi-sexual man.....the entire concept of payment is not an issue.


Why is this such a difficult concept?

You state your situation very well and you may need to point out these facts when appropriate!

Im afraid you may have to just keep doing that with some of these guys sad to say. They just arent thinking.

Sswede has it right, c l u e l e s s.

Fuck! I'll tell you what baby. Next time I come to Vegas, I'll let you use my services for a date you have lined up that wants MFM. I won't charge the guy, seeing as how a handshake is all he's going to get out of me anyway.

BUT!!!

I want some special time with you after!

BTW, weren't we supposed to do something like this with a certain guy we know? Hmmmm....

Where the fuck was he? Oh well, more for me!!!

In all seriousness.....

I have entertained the thought of asking one of my clients to double with me, esp for a couples request....however they have pretty much said the same thing you just said MP.

1. Yes I will do it

2. No I will not charge

3. I want to be with you afterwards.


Allure`s interpretation of what my client is really saying:

1. I will do it because I want to fuck, and this is going to be easy and lots of fun.

2. I will do it because I want to fuck, and this is going to be easy and lots of fun.

3. I will do it because I want to fuck, and this is going to be easy and lots of fun.


The reality:

1. I will do it because I want to fuck, this is really important to the person who requested the session.

2.  This is this persons fantasy, but they could freak out, change their minds, or be very physically unattractive. I am a professional as is my male partner so this has to go on without a glitch.

3. I don't have a penis that has to get hard, but my hobby doubles partner does.....what if this lady is not his type and has no skills AT ALL? What if the male client who requested the experience gets all touchy feely with my MALE hobby/doubles partner...now would not be a time to flip out on a client. As a professional male provider he has to figure out how to tactfully decline and overcome a man flirting with him and get back to business....for the most part the male provider also has to be consistent multi popper. With a very toned body, extreme grooming, and VERY professional. He has to read and react as well as a female provider.

4. After an exhausting multi-hour session with 3 people all at the same time....the only thing I want to do is soak in a tub, have some ice milk, put my flannels on and crash. I have yet to have a doubles partner (esp a male doubles partner) want to do anything other than hug and go our separate ways.

So MP that has been my experience with a male doubles partner. I think they have the mentality to will their bodies to do things most civilian men cannot.

It is also why I don't think most people who request a male provider understand why their rates are the way they are.

Oh I thought reality would slap you in the face eventually.

Trust me....providers do not always have the luxury of seeing photos of our clients prior to us meeting them.

Many many clients have a specific body type they demand to see......ie they want a HWP lady....we show up and this man is very overweight and has dingle berries hanging out of his ass. HOW CUTE!

Imagine being a male provider and he shows up and the lady is as I stated above....and he HAS to put his back into the experience to please her? I do not have a problem putting any client into the shower or bathtub. It has been my experience that my male doubles partners have to do the same with a female client who may not be so fresh.

As for the touchy feely man portion of a couples client....he was slightly drunk....my male partner had to be really smooth with transitioning the hubby back to the reality that he is straight...and not interested in bumping balls.