I am heading out to Vegas in April and I have been pondering the option of the Overnight date / the 12 hr time frame some ladies offer. Having never done this before  I would be curious as to the opinions both pro and con others would have. I often opt for the two or three hour visit as I find it more relaxing without a sense of being rushed. However I am sure the overnight dynamic would be different. Thoughts that come to mind, what if you and the lady run out of things to talk about?
When is it time to go to sleep? Does the lady mind be awakened in the middle of the night for another round of fun .  Which for me would be one of the appealing aspects of the overnight date
waking up next to a lovely lady at say three in the morning for some play time and then going back to sleep with her and hoping to have enough endurance for morning fun, I better start taking my vitamins now! lol.

I personally love them, just not on a first date.

I have tried this on a couple of occassions, and it is a very different dynamic.  My experience was that it was harder to go to sleep and I felt I kind of turned into a letcher as I wanted to snuggle/grope all night.  It really was not fair to her.  I am a touchy/snuggly guy when I sleep, and if she is not into that, then it can be awkward.

That seems like  great advice, from someone who has never done it. Unless you totally click, it seems like an odd dynamic at some point. I would take his advice and add the following feature. Tell her you'll text her in the morning if you're up for it. If you pre-plan it, it could be equally as awkward. What if you had a great night but just don't feel like trying to repeat the magic the next day? What if you are just cashed? What if the night wasn't that great? So many scenarios where you might be fine with just the first half / night.  

I have done overnights and as far as all the questions, it depends on what you want.  At least for me, that's what I have done.  I would say that you tell me what you expect and how you would like your overnight to go, then I will do what it takes to satisfy that, if its something I am not in to then I would just say so and hopefully there would be nothing that is a deal breaker.

Please do not send us on our way and say you will text us in the morning if you're up for it! That is no different than last minute plans.. I don't what to have to wake up and start getting ready while being on hold for a text...  
If you want your space while you sleep, sure! But please make the plans set before you start them...

From the provider's perspective my advice is awful. I get that. But...that's not where I am coming from. Sorry.

It's a matter of making things run smoothly.....

Yes, that's exactly what I'm saying. "Not sure I'd be in the mood, but if you are willing to come back in the event I am...would you be?"  Your answer seems to be no. Fine.  

I agree with Alyssa here.
 

As is any appointment that is cancelled, not cool,  by the guy or the woman. But they happen all of the time. It's part of the deal. Shit happens, you don't feel good, something better comes along...the list is endless. Sometimes the excuses are valid, other times not. Sometimes it's simply "I changed my mind". And that goes both ways.

I'm just bored and killing a little time. Not looking to get into it with you. Even though I am. (Hypocrite much? )  
   
 Let me just say this. ok? I have been with a few awesome women in Vegas (great memories)....I wouldn't have dreamt of asking them to leave and come back. If they were willing to stay and accept my benjies for the privilege of doing so, the last thing I would want is for them to up and leave. My idea is kinda ree-dick.  
   
 Truth is, once you find yourself with someone you like and are having a good time with, the last thing you want is for them to leave. That goodbye's the worst part!!

...really fantastic nite. I saw a couple of more new ladies over the next few days and had some good times. I've always wanted to do a proper wake up call and of the three I saw, it was the first one who rocked me way more. I knew she was the one so I asked her for a wake up call on the morning of my last day in Vegas. We arranged to meet the nite before so I could give her my room key and, come the next morning, things went just as I had hoped for, even better, and very smoothly. So, I think the key is to think it through before you commit and make sure you believe the woman you see one nite will be as cool as you'd hoped the next day or a few days later.  

Thanks for the reply, From the perspective of having yet to try the overnight experience that I would say I am of a very similar mind set to you. My head might be saying let this girl get some sleep, but my hands would say ARE YOU CRAZY your laying next to a hot naked lady you just have to reach over for one more feel.  And then of course, just one more etc etc.  

Thanks for your input Alyssa, kinda striking that balance between the spontaneity of the middle of the night playtime and the,  Hey, I was sound asleep what is going on response.

in the middle of the night by someone being intimate with me. I would suggest talking with the lady of your choice to be sure she is okay with that because some consider it a rude awakening.