ladies, do not shy we can take it, LOL
Your answers might help few dates slightly more pleasurable 😏

Annoying Qs?
Rarely

I tend to go with the flow during a date which leaves little room for questions (annoying or otherwise)

However the biggest annoyances for me is when a guy asks my rates vis text.  
Like, are you kidding me? Who texts a lady before researching if she is in your price point?
Yuck, no thanks!

Pet Peeves:
- asking my rate (if you don't know why are you contacting)
- asking graphic info like services - come on, need i say more?
- not letting me know they are running late
- showing up early - come on! 5 min is one thing but 15 is pushy
- demanding toys or whatnot... let's face it, the real thing is better! thought toys have their place heehee
- hair pulling... ok it can be hot but please LEARN the proper way to pull hair (I will teach if needed)
- excessive spanking/slapping... a little is good but once you tenderize the flesh it's more sensitive each swat
- overstaying... just don't! if she is chatting or still engaged keep it up but if you haven't nutted by 10 after the session ending just call it quits. stop. do not let her keep trying unless you are extending time

 
HUGS

Thank you for your comprehensive, insightful, candid input.  Wish all contributors would be as honest and forthright as you.  In my humble opinion, I believe, managing both provider and hobbyist expectation is of paramount significance for a mutually beneficial encounter.  This is most effectively accomplished through open, honest communications.

Of course the processes of both negotiation and screening make our initial communications a bit more tentative for obvious reasons.

She was a very well reviewed young lady, had about 30 reviews and all but maybe 3 were all 10/10's..She was atttactive and I had a good time but....So as we're kicking back after having our fun, having a smoke and a drink. I then ask her, "So what's with all those 10's?"...she kinda of laugh and said "Fuck you"........Still one of the best times I had ..lol

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in my opinion, there should be no negotiation nor an attempt at it...have some respect...i set a rate for my time not what happens...if you want to know, read the reviews and if you cannot, become a vip...will not answer questions like that...yes, it does get annoying if you ask questions that have already been answered in an ad...geez, just read before deciding to contact...you may discover i am not your cup of tea and you wasted your time

Understand your position entirely.  Yet, you would be surprised how many ladies overstate their fee and then come down when questioned.

Some post a high price as they know visitors are only here once in a while and have no problem spending that much.  Yet these same providers willingly see locals who they realize may frequent providers much more often, hence the lower price.

Have experienced this more times than I can count.  Hopefully you know I would never disrespect a provider and try my best to approach this "wiggle room" between what they post and what they are actually willing to take.

May be more providers who think as you do and would NEVER press them......would simply move on to the next provider in the most respectful way I can.

As impersonal as it may sound.......sorry no disrespect intended.....the exchange of money part of it IS a business transaction.

We may not be able to barter at the grocery store, but I believe many more products and services end up being negotiated, than you may realize.  And since many ladies do negotiate, in some cases, it creates a de facto standard for the purchase of their services.

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i totally understand what you are saying, and i take no offense whatsoever, but i do not negotiate my time...that is what is rated not what is involved, hence the escort definition...anything else is prostitution, which we all no is illegal...but, i should have added this example to my previous post, if you only see i have a minimum of an hour, why is there a need to negotiate for a half hour?...i do apologize for the confusion

We met the same young lady. After you asked her, "how she got all those 10/10 scores"... did she ask you NOT to write a review for her then tell you to "fuck off" ?  LMAO

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However I never attempt to negotiate.  It seems to me that is demeaning to both the provider and myself.  I don't even ask for the P411 discount, if one is offered.  To me it just sets the wrong tone for the session before it even starts.  That is the way I feel about it.

Sounds like MJ?  LOL

you HIT the nail on the head!!!!!! I love this hobby and frequent it and if like the first meeting then I ask what we can do price wise next time we meet!!!

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