I'd like to hear from both hobbyists and providers alike on this one...and remember, there are no right and wrong answers here - im curious as this has been a 'hot' topic lately...lol not to mention this board can use a healthy discussion *hinthint*  have fun and play safe!  -kim xoxoxxoxoDefine GFE...what are YOUR expectations???--modified by kim at Thu, Apr 19, 2001, 03:30:02

Both Mary O'Malley and Kristina (both public and personal reviews are on the way girls-it takes time to describe magic with words)kissed me to heaven (as I'm sure your going to do Kim!)The first interaction with a hug or kiss,the hand holding,the way the she looks at you,running her hands through your hair..mmmm,the way she holds you while having those wonderful kisses.Did I mention the kissing?But I think the gentlman will not get the true GFE experience unless he gives the boyfriend experience.I can now speak from experience!Still recoveringFF--modified by Frequent Flyer at Thu, Apr 19, 2001, 08:23:49

when two people can look in each other eyes and know that "we are TOGETHER here and now." ...then lots of licking, kissing, mutual massage, eventually we fuck like mad dogs when the owners aren't around. Ending with cuddling. Of course, that rarely happens in an hour span, because GFE is one made from much time spent bonding...But that's just me, others may just want to skip to the barking and howling.

I would have to say providers that like Greek.  Call me weird...

Complete and total full service ... From head to toe and missing nothing in the middle ... O's for both provider and hobbie are a must ... The real kind no faking... honest emotions ...You feel as if you've known this person your entire life .... something justs clicks and you both can feel it ( just like our first session Kim ) Each partner knows what the other one wants without asking... before asking .... honest pleasure and enjoyment ....

Kissing really makes for a true GFE in my mind.  Additionally, certain uncovered activities make a GFE experience.  The most important is the kissing.

My definition of a true GFE is when the service is for free.... LMAO... Just kidding, wanted to keep you all on your toes.-Vegas Moderator

Just as GF's vary, so too do GFE's.  I think a better term might be GFBE, for Girl Friend Bedroom Experience.  My criteria are at least one or more of the following: kissing, bbbj, DATY, etc.  Not all are necessary for me to feel like I have had a "GFE".  There also needs to be a feeling of "clicking" with each other (again, there can be degrees to this feeling), and no harsh  reminders of the business nature of the date.

I know this can be really annoying, but call or send an email every now and then. We sometimes feel so used when you only seem to want us for our "gifts". >sniff<I know this eats into your valuable time, so maybe you could charge us a maintenance fee for "off time GFE services", something like that. Oh, how romantic!You asked.Oh, yeah, and kissing.No, actually, this is a pet peave of mine. I'm not counting "acts" to measure how satisified I am with a session. It's intangible. Was it fun? Did I just enjoy hanging out with you, able to be myself, make a quality connection with another person? Maybe we never kiss, cbj only, one "pop" (ooh, I hate that term), but the conversation was great, I feel relaxed and satisfied, and I got to know someone cool today. Really, that's it. It can be pretty difficult to measure, and probably harder to fake.Of course there are also days when an anonymous, nasty session is what is needed, but you asked about GFE.

correct sir, I couldn't have written it any better.

The ease and comfort factor are a big percentage.

Phone calls work both ways - and thats all im gonna say about that...GFE and nasty doesnt go together??????   hmmmmm why cant you have the best of both worlds?....lol within reason of course =)~  but seriously back to the phone calls...phone calls should work both ways...have fun and play safe =)  -kim xoxoxo

we know how busy you wonderful, sweet, sexy godesses are and we don't want to impose on your time. I have never even met you   ( we will change that!)but I love sending you e-mails and love receiving them from you! And that goes for Mary and Kristina as well. Where have you girls been all my life?!! LOLBig smooch to you Kimmie!

To me a GFE is about suspension of disbelief.  That is, that when I am with the lady, I don't feel its all about the money.  I've found, for me, that takes two things.  First, she has to be engaged.  She pays attention when I talk to her, she gives appropriate responses, she responds to my touch, and she tells me what would feel good.  Second, it requires kissing.  I just can't get into the situation if I keep having to remind myself that I can't kiss her.Falcon

In the words of the song...   "It's in her kiss..."

The providers I have met that provide a qualtiy "GFE" seem to have several things in common. 1. They are not clock watchers, nor do they act as though they are in a hurry to finish. It takes as long as it takes. 2. No menu pricing. You do what feels natural, when it feels appropriate. No extra charge for this or that. 3. All kiss. 4.All are interesting conversationalist. Yes, talking is as important as everything else. 5. The experience reminds me of being on a blind date and getting really lucky.