Last month I saw a provider and had a good experience with her. I even posted a positive review.

Last week, we spoke on the phone (several times) and set a firm apt. at her incall.

I had to drive pretty far to get there (it's a 45 minute drive for me).

In preparation, I showered and took my vitamin V (which pounds my big head every time I take it... So I don't like to take it unless there's a reason).

On my way I sent her a text when I was about 30 minutes out. She replied back, that she was at dinner with her family and would be about a half an hour late.

Now whether she was at dinner or with another client is not really an issue for me. The important thing was that she said it would be about an additional 30 minutes.

With that information, I decided to press on and just hang out. I sent her a text and let her know I had arrived and would wait for her.

after an hour she calls and apologizes. Says dinner is took longer than she thought, but that she was paying and would drop off her grandma and would be another 30 minutes.

30 minutes later she texts me that she's getting ready and will be txt me again.

After 15 minutes I call and it goes to VM. I then txt her again and ask her to call me.

After 5 minutes I ask her to clarify if the date is still on.

After 5 more minutes I txt her that I'm leaving but that it wasn't nice to leave me hanging like that. Total time in parking lot: Almost two hours!
(Yes, I earned a big tattoed "L" on my forehead)

But seriously, there is a certain amount of respect which MUST go both ways.

She is a nice person and gave me a good session the first time I was with her, but I won't repeat because of the "flake factor".

I've gone to see other incall providers before. They almost always honor their appointments. On the few occasions when there was flakiness, I just left after 15-20 minutes of waiting.

But, since I had actually seen her before, and we had spoken on several occasions (even prior to that day) and she always remembered me and was always positive when I called, I figured I'd wait.

I ended up calling another provider, who was great by-the-way, but by then my vitamin V had worn off and I was tired and bummed form the previous incident... so it affected my session (not the fault of the second provider).

Well, I'm interested in your opinions. Ladies? Gents?

Maybe there should be a service which collects deposits from both client and provider.  If either flakes, the other gets both deposits.  I'm still owed for the price of a few hotel rooms that I bought for dates that NCNSed on me.  If you still want to see her and she'll pay you for your lost time and trouble, as she should, I'd see her again.