So lately I have been wondering if guys prefer vanilla or fetish? I'm a Professional Dominatrix and always seem to find guys that say they are vanilla but I always end up seeing the submissive side of them.

Are you vanilla or a sub? Are you open or do you wait for a mistress to bring it out of you?

For me it's about the fetish but I'll admit, I may be a little different than most.

I'd love to see more fetish related content from providers that don't mind going there.  Pro Dommes are great but sometimes you'd rather explore the fetish side with a more full service provider.

My question to providers is; do you not put much fetish related content on your websites because it alienates the vanilla hobbyists?  Or is there another reason?  For instance, babii_finesse you're a pro-domme, but I didn't see any links on your site to that side of you?

Vanilla is a ton of fun when you're doing it right.

Some people seem to have confused vanilla with just laying on the bed, as still as a starfish, not really doing anything besides waiting for it to be over, maybe some doggie, but certainly no interaction either way. That's not vanilla, that's just bad sex, and it's not worth paying for, hell, it's not worth getting paid for.  

 

Good vanilla where you're both fucking eachother, lots of kissing, eye contact, groping, squeezing, communication, that kinda thing, that's objectively super hot.

I totally agree. A good escort is one that may offer some light SM (Spanking for instance) if that what she enjoys too.
Pure doms that provide other services are few and far between, Just go to Eros,com and see their rules.
Also watch out for this provider. Her reviews are old, not good, and she lies about what she does. Have seen her ads all over the place and when I spoke to her she tried to upsell on the phone. Don't we deserve a light spanking on our birthday at least, then onto the real fun stuff.

I think I'd be down for your version of vanilla, I just want her to dress up in head to toe black leather while we're doing it!