Is it disrespectul to talk dirty to the provider during sex?  To each their own, it turns me on.

Hmm, I can certainly see why someone might take it that way.  I'd say just mention to her that you like to talk dirty.  If she doesn't say anything go for it.  Also, this is something that you can even discuss discretly before even making the appointment, so there is no need to go into an appointment without knowing if this is going to be a problem.Falcon

...I rather enjoy a little "dirty talk" every now and again.  I agree with Falcon that discussing it in advance is a great way to determine if the lady enjoys it as well.  lol....Kim, will you share him with me? It is a little known fact that I was once a phone sex operator...  What a great job!  It's definitely fun to incorporate that experience into what I do now!  Hope that helps!LoveLauren

Bad girl!  LOL!!  I am so glad that things are working out for you now.It's great to see you on the board. Have fun sweetie!LoveFrequent Flyer

If I ever have any special requests, I always clear it with the provider before the session starts.  I never want to be placed in a situation where the provider feels uncomfortable.  Communicating before the session makes for a better session for both you and the provider.  Hope this info helps.