Sitting here in my Vegas hotel room with a huge smile on my face and opened up TER to read up and see all the posts from the guys getting cancelled. I made a very last minute trip to Vegas and have been here all week and had 4 of the most fantastic dates ever. Having to force myself to let my last date leave for fear I might kidnap her and put her in my suitcase to take home. She is my Muse!!
Romeo, nothing but respect for you, when I started into this hobby posts from yourself and a few others were very insightful. If you had some trouble I guess everyone has.
We need to remember guys that we are at a disadvantage. The beautiful Ladies own the rule book and the playing field. They've heard it all and seen it all, they see through the bullshit faster than you can type it. They know the easy dates and the difficult dates. Did we ever think that perhaps these difficult dates are Their plan B, waiting for a better date to come along.
A few things that work for me
- I do my research and listen to my spidey sense
- Be respectful in contact, Hi ______ would you be available not Hey babe wanna hook up.
- Read their website, if your not comfortable providing something they ask for move on or provide as much info as you can and see what happens.
- don't cross any of the unwritten rules that gets everyone in trouble unless they bring it up.
- only contact 1 girl at a time and wait as long as possible before moving on. The Ladies do respond very quickly. For a lady I really want to see contact her 1st and give all the dates that you can be available and let her pick
- if things don't work out be gracious and maybe next time.
- in providing reference give name, email, website, and approx. date when seen. Contrary to popular belief they don't all know each other.
- book at least 2 hours and have a drink and chat at the beginning.
- their privacy is as important as yours.
Your Reputation is as important as theirs.
In conclusion I HAD THE MOST FANTASTIC DATES EVER ON THIS TRIP.
TO THE BEAUTIFUL LADIES THANK YOU, I'm now going to bed
Goodnight all be saf
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Now that I'm alive again I realized I missed something
- always the morning of your date send an email that you are still alive and waiting. Best to get it out before she has to ask.
Pays dividends.
to read your post and see that you had such a great time in vegas
That is awesome!
however, I have been stood up more than once by a lady. It does happen. Some ladies are more mercenary than others. But I make a habit of not trying to see them anymore.
Example: I made an appointment 3 weeks in advance. I reconfirmed a week in advance. Let her know that I had arrived in LV and where I was staying on the day I arrived. Two days later, the day of our appointment, I phone her in the morning to give her the room number and reconfirm times. She says she unable to see me because I didn't confirm soon enough. More likely she got a 4 hour date or overnight with another client rather than my 2 hour.
She is either no longer provider or is working under another name.
I would like to give a shout out to the wonderful ladies who honor their commitments and have even agree to meet on very short notice, but I don't think it would be allowed.
Just FYI, if you were referring to my recent post, I got a cancellation from a date with "civvie" woman, not a provider. The latter are generally much more reliable than the former, especially if you follow the good advice in your post.
that means you will be posting some reviews soon.
If you do your homework and you due diligence you have a better chance of having a successful date. But I think if you have been in this hobby world long enough, you will be cancelled on eventually; even from highly reviewed providers. I was cancelled on 2 hours before our date; which was booked 2 months in advanced from a highly rated young provider saying she was sick. Even though I was in contact with her by text 4 hours prior. She may have been sick or may have been offered a longer date who knows and who cares; I just contacted an "established" provider on my list and had a great time that night. So a door closes and another opened up.
I just crossed off that provider's name from my "dance card list" because I don't dwell on the negatives (cancellations, NCNS etc...) of this hobby. I get that crap in my real world. There are so many beautiful (inside and out) established providers who want to have a fun no drama date. Because on a very rare moment you meet a provider who you have great chemistry, conversation and sex with, she becomes one of your ATF
Yes you are right I guess I have to write a couple reviews. Only fair. Have never written a review as always felt what we did behind closed doors was between us.
You can be as detailed on what you write or not. That is up to you. A little info on your experience such as did she look like her pics or not, was she on time, menu accurate etc...just remember a review is to be helpful to us hobbyist and also be respectful to her.
Just an FYI, with the flu , one minute you feel totally fine and out of no where you start to have a sore throat, fever and body aches.
Some people don't get fever, so they do not feel as sick till hours later when the body aches and congestion kicks in.
Usually the onset of the flu happens as the night falls.
So it is totally possible that 4 hours before the provider was feeling fine and 2 hours later she realizes she is getting sick.
xoxo Dr CindySpice
Posted By: oralconniseur
that means you will be posting some reviews soon.
If you do your homework and you due diligence you have a better chance of having a successful date. But I think if you have been in this hobby world long enough, you will be cancelled on eventually; even from highly reviewed providers. I was cancelled on 2 hours before our date; which was booked 2 months in advanced from a highly rated young provider saying she was sick. Even though I was in contact with her by text 4 hours prior. She may have been sick or may have been offered a longer date who knows and who cares; I just contacted an "established" provider on my list and had a great time that night. So a door closes and another opened up.
I just crossed off that provider's name from my "dance card list" because I don't dwell on the negatives (cancellations, NCNS etc...) of this hobby. I get that crap in my real world. There are so many beautiful (inside and out) established providers who want to have a fun no drama date. Because on a very rare moment you meet a provider who you have great chemistry, conversation and sex with, she becomes one of your ATF.
Hi Cindy, luv you dear.
While I was writing this post I was wondering where you were to straighten us out on some of these issues. Although we have never met I have met several of the Ladies that have posted here. Always appreciate your comments.
Some of the above is what works for me and am able to have last minute dates if my schedule is all screwy. Many times my trips are only booked two days out. It may not be fair but it is easy to figure out who might be available, be honest and ask.
My friends have taught me a lot over the years in communication and what they are looking for. Selecting a date that you feel you are compatible with may not always work but does give a better success rate.
Regardless you can see that I enjoy this hobby and the wonderful people I have met. Whether we connect or not
Thanks for the luv. 
If I knew who you are, I could luv you back *wink wink*
Well, maybe someday in future.
Your original post was great. Your advice and tips on point.
Nothing wrong with having a last minute trip and contacting ladies last minute.
or even contacting a lady due to last minute cancellation .........never hurts to ask, you just never know unless you ask.
Yes , honesty and asking is best policy.
Now time to get to work on those reviews.
After all isn't it because of reviews you read you were able to find amazing ladies ?
Imagine if no one would write reviews.
It is ok to kiss and tell.
Sharing is caring.
Nice to see people posting positive things too.
Thanks for your post.
xoxo CindySpice
Posted By: btvegas
Hi Cindy, luv you dear.
While I was writing this post I was wondering where you were to straighten us out on some of these issues. Although we have never met I have met several of the Ladies that have posted here. Always appreciate your comments.
Some of the above is what works for me and am able to have last minute dates if my schedule is all screwy. Many times my trips are only booked two days out. It may not be fair but it is easy to figure out who might be available, be honest and ask.
My friends have taught me a lot over the years in communication and what they are looking for. Selecting a date that you feel you are compatible with may not always work but does give a better success rate.
Regardless you can see that I enjoy this hobby and the wonderful people I have met. Whether we connect or not.
*blush blush* Glad you approve and love Thank you beautiful.
Sending you lots of Love LL
ok pretty soon someone will tell us to go get a room LOL LOL
xoxo CindySpic
I agree about the cold/flu, but she did not describe her illness and I did not ask. Also this was in May of last year, which is not flu season. But as I mentioned, I don't dwell on the negatives and moved on to the next lady on my list.
When I got the flu I know that it came on pretty quickly and within 4 hours I was on antibiotics. It's nasty and not fun. I would have cancelled too - wouldn't want anyone to get that mess. Getting sick does happen.
It is not necessarily that the guys did something wrong either. I was in Vegas last month and I was really looking forward to meeting a wonderful lady. All was good when I left Atlanta and by the time I landed in LV, I had the dreaded text that she had to cancel. I am convinced that it was genuine and I will re-schedule the next time I am in Vegas. Shit happens. I had to cancel on a lady a few months ago because I missed my connection and I did not make it to my destination the night of the scheduled date. I know that there are flakes on both sides of the aisle, so to speak, but I try to give people the benefit of the doubt.
There are a lot of great ladies here in Las Vegas that will honor the appt and show you a wonderful time.
Very well said and glad you had a great time here in Sin City!
AJ
