is not the lady or young lady but an agent, pimp, scumbag or G-d's gift to the world but NOT the girl? I think that's the issue. I realize you might contact this individual for a reference too if that matters.
Posted By: Curvy CoEd Carly
Yesterday I got a reference request for someone that I met once a few months ago, I responded to her that yes he was safe and kind and I that would see him again.
I then realized after that the "provider" who contacted me was one of the members of "The Group" that so many of you here are always talking about. I know there has been verification by many of their association (or perhaps management is a better term) by some outside parties but beyond the fake reviews, and having to turn money over to someone else that in fact some of the girls are fun to see.
My question is do I have an obligation to alert this hobbyist that the girl he is requesting to meet is part of "the group" and in doing so does that make me look catty or helpful?
I mean I have heard of girls "poaching" past clients, meaning they get a reference requests from another provider in the same city/town for a client they have met before and instead of telling the provider the guy is safe they instead will reach out to the hobbyist saying "Oh I hear you're coming to town in July, why don't you see me again and I'll knock $100 off my rate" Which by the way makes you come across really desperate to your past client and when the new potential provider contacts the client and says she hasn't heard back from his reference and he mentions the poaching email (proving the past provider got the reference request and is choosing not to respond) it makes said provider come across as catty and untrustworthy. But I digress...
That is not the situation here, I have no clue when this client is coming to town and I am not trying to steal him back... I am worried sending a message warning him about "The Group" situation may come off across that way but who cares, if you were in my shoes do you think it is the right thing to do? To give him the courtesy of full disclosure about "the group" and politely urge him to do a bit more research (perhaps directing him to some of the posts here about "The Group") because at least he deserves to be fully informed so he can have the best hobby experience possible... or should I just let it be?
-CCC
P.S. Playing Devil's Advocate it's possible he already knows about the reputation of "The Group" or has seen the message boards and is rolling the dice anyways but I think way fewer people read posts here as many clients I have met with aren't even aware the message boards even exist, lol.
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