TER or p4 members.
MJ HX are all terrible.. it's basically EVERY inquiry.. so I don't use them.BP is a mixed bunch... they may not ask for bb but they certainly dont read the ads
When I started doing this guys knew how to google my number to find out what they wanted to know. Now I have to repeat all the info thats in my ad to every guy thats "interested" all this while I have many reviews. Then after repeating the info thats already in my ad and reviews I get asked if thats for bb. To be established for this long with reviews and still be questioned about the authenticity of my pics when I take new ones at least every few months is crazy to me. I also dont know why girls are doing b.b. but thats gross and unsafe.. Im still me and my rates have been the same but now guys out here only are seriously expecting bb and thats something I have never done and never will do yet every other guy asks....its only out here though..dont get low balled anywhere else. Dont get asked for bb this much anywhere else. Sorry for the blunt observation but am I the only girl that thinks its something wrong with this?
I get exactly what you are saying! There have been a handful in my short time providing that have asked me if I Provide BBFS .. & I've even received attitudes or disrespect because I don't. Or the famous “I know a girl who is cheaper & provides more." Smh I find it very disrespectful, especially when the men have already read my ad!
know this can be an issue but not a big one to my knowledge, certainly not a deal breaker to the vast majority of the guys you would want to meet.
I think this question reflects the mindset of the guys looking at the site where your posting...Mojo Village (the only one I found admitedly) is not an upscale site in anyone's book. Heck just getting approved to post on TER could be helpful in sorting out the prospective clients. The other item I saw was an absence of new reviews. Only one thing will fix that...lol...
Hope this is of some help. Do a little search and you will find local sites to place you ad Kiara.
Good luck to you
I know what your saying, I have tried to advertise here before but I literally get no calls. I have a low rating because of the bb issue. I only use honesty,safety and use real untouched and up to date pics and thats not enough. I guess every one out here wants gfe and pse and I dont do either. Its just weird that its so different out here. Im literally torn between what to do. Work is very good in California but i dont like their houses. I like nevadas houses but work sucks..
I think turn about is fair play I notice she likes DATY!!!!
in a world of instant gratification and people are not willing to put in the time or money to cultivate a trusting relationship over time. Years ago, there was no kissing, no such thing as GFE, but some providers started doing it and others had to offer it, too, in order to stay competitive. Hobbyists my age do not look for BB because we know it is unsafe, but the younger video game crowd has grown up with the idea that you get a certain number of "lives" and if you use up a couple, you can still play the game, by hitting "reset" and starting over. Some of these young and uninformed will catch a life-changing disease and get a wake-up call, but it probably won't be enough of them to change the direction things are going. I can certainly sympathize with the dilemma today's providers find themselves in with regard to market demands for unsafe activities.
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Not sure where you are advertising at but I rarely have gents asking about unsafe practices or haggle my rates.Do you have a website where gents can find more info about what you offer?
Maybe rewriting your ad to make it clearer if you are experiencing this issue all of the time.
If gents are still asking about services direct them to your reviews.
I know it can be frustrating when you feel you have provided in your ad all the necessary info and then get asked the same questions unfortunately there are some who cannot read.Just redirect them back to your ad for any questions.
Best of luck to you!
Ok. Your right jaydalee. Ill do that. I just hope they dont think Im rude because Im going to keep telling them "go look at it again." Oh well Im just tired of feeling like 'is this guy for real?' lol
Reading your reviews and the posts I'm confused if you mean bbbj or bbfs? The bb question may well be about bbbj.
On average most ladies that only do cbj are going to get a lower scores. It's built into the site. Along with other things this site requires to get higher scores. If your cap is 7 or 8 you simply cannot get better scores. Once you establish lower scores guys are reluctant to see you when there are so many other options in the same price range.
Your link to P411 doesn't work right now. You should get that fixed.
Build a nice website if it doesn't exist. If it does it should be linked here.
When I read an ad. What am I looking for? One of the first thing is pictures. While I may not be as picky as some, I still want to see you. Clearly. Only you can sell you and that takes a bit of effort. Invest in yourself. Sell yourself.
I peeked at your profile, you are beautiful and well spoken - I think professional photos and a website would do wonders in building your business. I know it gets beyond tiring directing and redirecting, hang in there - it can actually help you decide who you want to spend time with or not. Best of luck to you xo
That should tell you all you need to know about the quality of the guys reading it and responding.
That's JMHO.
TER or p4 members.
MJ HX are all terrible.. it's basically EVERY inquiry.. so I don't use them.
BP is a mixed bunch... they may not ask for bb but they certainly dont read the ads
I see you are listed as 20-25 years old. I cannot imagine when the good old days were for you.
I have been in this business since you were in grade school and I can count on one hand the number of times a guy has requested BB. Obviously I said no.
If you are not attracting the right type of men then you must not be projecting the image that you want to project. You are a lovely girl but I think you need some help in the image and marketing department.
You may want to consider working for a reputable agency or hiring a manager to help you build a website, get some photos and put you on an upscale advertising track. You will make more money and you will be much safer.
It is not normal or usual for gentlemen to haggle over fees or ask for unsafe practices. If you need some guidance I am happy to help you get in the right direction.
Now there is a woman that knows what she is talking about. One of LV's best.
I couldn't agree more...well said...
Unfortunately the bb request is rampant everywhere! Im in the same boat as you. I havent been around a crazy long time but even when I started guys seemed more respectful and knew how to search for who they would like, now it seems they want us to find them! And give them a deal and have no limits! I was hoping to make a trip back to vagas as it's been a long time but now.....
It's like they see two of your pictures and can't figure out how to navigate the rest of your site on their own!!