Most ladies are good with the amount of oks I have and it’s enough. I don’t seek out the ladies who want deposits. Nor would I seek one out that wanted her transportation paid for. I don’t do short visits so maybe that plays into it. I usually tip enough to cover valet or uber anyways. I really have no issues using p411 and the combination with other sites.
My "Okays" usually get me out of that, and when I had a provider ask me for a deposit a while back, I mentioned that my history of showing up, paying and tipping well should help offset that requirement, and the handler agreed.
I'm not saying I'd never give a deposit, but I haven't yet and definitely won't for someone with no reviews or solid history. It would have to be bucket-list level before I'd even consider it.
I'm not hard to book with and available 24/7 txt
Hugs Hazel Hayes
I use P411 as an advertisement platform, and depending on the information you provide on that site, I may ask you for further screening details. I also generally do not require deposits.
No u er needed as I drive myself lol and if you have a good amount of oks on p411 I won't ask for a deposit
Xo
LaRue McCay
Have the issue regarding uber as I have a car and drive myself.
I only require a deposit for a FMTY (Fly Me To you) or an overnight.
As far as P411 goes it does say on the website that providers can ask for addt'l info if not comfortable.
There are clients on there who do share accts perhaps she wants to be certain she is meeting the person who has the P411 acct
You can choose to decline to book an appt if you are not comfortable giving out more info.
I do accept okays on P411 for screening.
Jaydalee
No deposits required ever. You'll never pay an Uber fee and P411 Okays will work.
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I no longer care to use P411 after being asked to reverify myself & knowing that people feel entitled not to screen for our safety. I do not rely on references from people I have never met. No references. The majority of providers don’t remember.
💜As for deposits I have required, since 2010, so it’s nothing new. Vetting + Deposit 💸 = Booking.
Many of my friends pay in full before our date. I have integrity & value people who respect me as a single super Mamacita!
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So if a client has 20 Okays by well known providers around the country, with several of them recent (last 4 months), you're saying that's meaningless?
Why?
If you just don't care for P411 because they asked you to reverify, I suppose I get it. But I don't see how that's more onerous than asking a client to give up all his personal info for you after investing that time, money and effort into getting vouched.
I’ve had one lady out of tons ask for more screening. Which was within her right. I just politely declined. Then she gave me a paragraph on why she needed more info. It worked out for me since she was pretty fucking odd and aggressive.
The only time I ask for a deposit is if someone has booked previously and then cancelled last minute. So to make sure the person is not going to be a time waster. But if someone has plenty of p411 okays I dont usually ask.
I love p411.
Appreciate people going to the effort to get a profile there.
Dr Kiwi
You Never Ever leave a deposit i will come back to bite you ,if not this time next time ,i'd send an Uber in a heartbeat though but not the $ for one .
I do agree with some of the comments made here. I use to live in Vegas over 20 yrs ago and used P411 and never had an issue getting anyone verified and always had a good time. But since BP shut down and all of the crap happened I do ask for a little more information and a pic if they have either very little okay's or if their okay's are from years ago and I never had an issue getting them verified no one has complained. However, regarding deposits I only ask for them for longer appointments, FMTY's or overnights especially if this is our first time meeting. OR if you have a habit of cancelling last minute or multiple times I will require a 50% deposit to ensure you show up this time or to be honest I will probably not even entertain booking you the next time.
When I lived in the US, I would require deposits for tours but not for dates in my home city. Since I now have to travel internationally, I require deposits for every date as well as a greater lead time to make arrangements. If I've put a tour together, then obviously my overhead is spread across each date but if it's a FMTY, then travel arrangements are required on top of my rate and need to be paid in full, up front.
In over a decade of independent work, I think I've only canceled 2-3 times and refunded the deposits within 24hrs. My integrity and reputation are worth far, far more than whatever I'd gain from messing with someone's deposit.
As for screening, depending on what's in the P411 profile/OKs, I may/may not ask for additional info.🤷🏻♀️
The Uber thing is interesting. I suppose if it was going to cost me several hundred dollars in ground transportation, then yes, I'd probably ask for at least half of it to be covered.
