Hi clients and providers,
Let me know if providers would welcome an offer like this.

I book a 1h or 2h outcall date to my hotel on strip and also book a nails and makeup (Sephora/MAC) appointment (paid by me) nearby right before the date for her but won't pay for her time at these beauty appointments. Is this valid?
I want to make sure she looks her best on the date along with some make features I like (Glossy lips, blush, eye, gliterry eye shadow).

Also, Is it okay to buy a dress or lingerie (maybe wedding lingerie with veil ) for her and ask her to wear it when she arrives?

Yes absolutely. Take a look at my reviews and get a hold of me.

I have a regular and she knows the nail color I like. She does it and I pay for it most of the time. I guess it depends on what you workout.

I'm pretty flexible on requests  
If they are reasonable and I can do it  

Hugs Hazel Hayes

I personally have a nail tech I have been seeing for years, so unless the date falls within the time period I will see her I will pass on that request. As far as hair/makeup, I am open to someone doing it for me as long as they are a professional. I do take lingerie requests as well.

Id love my hai and make up done prior to our appt!
I love to look my best
Xo
Lovely lorena

Can do your make up request themselves, I welcome a hair appointment, I like the dry bar for things like this, and yes you are definitely welcome to pick out and buy some lingerie for me to wear. Usually I can put it on a wish list and you buy and it ships directly to me.  

Xo
LaRue McCay

Like Holly I have a preferred nail tech and if I don’t actually need my nails done at that exact time I wouldn’t want to waste your money or my time.    

 
Professional makeup would be fun though, I wouldn’t mind that. Modeling lingerie is never a problem.

What he wants and has no problem paying  for a specific look and attitre.
I would totally do all of this with no issue.
I would definitely communicate and ask if she could accommodate your requests and ask for her sizes.
I welcome wardrobe requests and always bring even if not requested lingerie with me.

One thing I would suggest if you want to do all that you described I would book longer than an hour.
That hour time will fly by.
Good luck and have fun.

Jaydalee

I like that you are willing to take responsibility for your special requests by paying for the appointment! That would make me feel like a princess!

I would love to have my makeup & nails done how you would like to see me. I think first it would be ideal to meet at least once but for a prelude to a second date, I find this extremely sexy. 💋

Every woman loves to be pampered and treated like a queen. It’s kind of you to to think of her in that way, but we have to be realistic here. What you are asking for is not for her to feel her best, it’s for you to like the way she looks. Especially since you have preferences on how you would like the make up done.  

Many ladies find getting their nails done and makeup done as self care. For every 10 ladies that enjoy this, there is one lady who thinks it’s torture and only does this maintenance because it’s apart of the job.  

In theory the gesture is kind but you are only wanting to schedule 1 maybe 2 hours of an appointment. Let me break down the time commitment you are asking for her. The nail appointment alone takes about 2 hours. If it’s a nail tech she isn’t familiar with it could take longer. I get my nails done every two weeks when not on tour and they have shortened my appointment by 30 mins because they start all of my services in the pedicure bowl. Then you have a makeup appointment. A basic glam is going to run at least about 75 mins but what you are asking for is a full glam look and at minimum 90 mins to 2 hours to be done.  

So all in all you are requesting an additional 4 hours of a ladies time to only compensate her for 1 maybe 2 hours because you are covering the costs. Does that truly sound fair to you? By no means do I think any woman would be ungrateful as this is a wonderful woman gesture. Just remember by asking for this type of time commitment on her part you should have some flexibility in the style in which she chooses. If the point is to allow her to feel her best then her preferences should matter. If the point is for you to like the way she looks and only your preferences matter then I feel she should be compensated in some way. Even if it’s just a tip for saying thank you for going out of your way to fulfill your requests. Many ladies don’t take requests purely because of this.  

I hope she enjoys this kind gesture that you are bestowing on her.  

Xoxo Andrea

I can see that arising. She should just make it clear that she expects to be compensated for making her go through the process. Then the client can go ok or find someone else. Personally , I’m thanking her for the response and moving on. Good point though !

That was indeed my question because I know I'm asking for a time commitment which I'm not willing to pay for.
I guess this will depend on individual provider.

I'm one of those who find it torturous to sit through a hair/nail appointment .... especially right before a date! It takes 4-5hrs, my body HURTS and my mood is just shit afterward.  
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Would I love you to make the makeup/outfit request (with pics)? Absolutely! Chances are I can do the look myself, unless there is ONE particular shade of ONE particular brand you LOVE or ONE VERY particular style of clothing/lingerie. But even so, given the proper lead time, you can purchase and ship it to me. Problem solved! Have done this a few times and handling it this way is sooo much more enjoyable for me .... and therefore, you!😇

I'm assuming she's spending similar time getting ready for a date herself so what if I pay to get it professionally done. In my mind it was one hour appointment right next to my hotel so no other time wasted (Sephora offers 1hour makeup appointment)