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I've been called sexy, pretty, gorgeous, hot, "his dream" in my face and sometimes in reviews but i've never been given over a 7 for looks for whatever reason. I don't fuss about it nor lose sleep and also have stopped wondering or worrying.

Hello hobbyists,

I would like to ask that if I look 100% like my pictures and I am always freshly showered, pay attention what I wear and how I look like and prep 2+ hour for a meeting, I show up and the gentleman compliments on my looks and keep asking me if all ladies are as beautiful as me in my country , why he gives me a 7 rating the next day on appearance? I just do not find it fair and I do not know why this is happening to me? Everyone until now was giving me 9 and 10 for appearance and I simply do not understand why this is happening... any advice/ideas?

Thank you!

My dearest Chanel,

Please DO NOT get upset by people like them. I truly enjoyed my time with you and my review will come out soon, I promise. I am sure most people here know exactly how much effort you put in getting ready and to provide a quality service you do. I was very grateful to see you twice and trust me I do not hire ladies more than once. People like them tend to feel that they are Gods and can ruin your score just because they can. Usually people who are suppressed in some ways and that's the way they get back at you. I am really sorry that this happened. Can you contact TER so that they reconsider your scoring? If the client really was satisfied with your looks as you said then they should make the reviewer modify his review rating. You will see once your review comes out how much I appreciated our time together.

Love,
~EM

Posted By: chanelpearl
Hello hobbyists,

I would like to ask that if I look 100% like my pictures and I am always freshly showered, pay attention what I wear and how I look like and prep 2+ hour for a meeting, I show up and the gentleman compliments on my looks and keep asking me if all ladies are as beautiful as me in my country , why he gives me a 7 rating the next day on appearance? I just do not find it fair and I do not know why this is happening to me? Everyone until now was giving me 9 and 10 for appearance and I simply do not understand why this is happening... any advice/ideas?

Thank you!

Oh Chanel,
Some guys do grade harder than others, particularly if they are somewhat new to the game.
He may have been thinking for him a 10 is a figure he will reserve for the most beautiful woman he ever meets. Really!!..
Dont give it a thought as anyone you will want to meet will look at your many reviews not just this one.
You clearly take your responsibiiities very seriously and this will come shining through for you! Hope this helps a little..Have a super weekend CHanel!

Your lovely message cheered me up. Thank you so much !
I just get upset I understand I can not get 10 all the time but an 8 or 9 would be still OK. But getting a 7 when I really try hard and people who seen me before know that I look exactly like my pictures. Especially because he was really telling me how great I look. I simply do not understand. Thank you once again, your message means a lot!
Have a wonderful weekend!

Chanel Pearl

Posted By: Sswede
Oh Chanel,
Some guys do grade harder than others, particularly if they are somewhat new to the game.
He may have been thinking for him a 10 is a figure he will reserve for the most beautiful woman he ever meets. Really!!..
Dont give it a thought as anyone you will want to meet will look at your many reviews not just this one.
You clearly take your responsibiiities very seriously and this will come shining through for you! Hope this helps a little..Have a super weekend CHanel!

We all know that you are a 9 or 10 so don't worry about it.  When the hobbyists look at the reviews we look at things overall and tend to disregard the unusually low scores.  Keep smiling.

You are sweet! Thank you SO MUCH!!!

I would give you a twelve.
  If he rated you a 7, I sure would like to see what an "8" looks like.

Posted By: chanelpearl
Hello hobbyists,

I would like to ask that if I look 100% like my pictures and I am always freshly showered, pay attention what I wear and how I look like and prep 2+ hour for a meeting, I show up and the gentleman compliments on my looks and keep asking me if all ladies are as beautiful as me in my country , why he gives me a 7 rating the next day on appearance? I just do not find it fair and I do not know why this is happening to me? Everyone until now was giving me 9 and 10 for appearance and I simply do not understand why this is happening... any advice/ideas?

Thank you!

1) A Seven is not terrible. 7 stands for "attractive." I'm not sure why people are offended being attractive, but I guess it is like a student getting all As then suddenly getting a B. Still disappointing but nothing to be ashamed of.

2) Many guys who look at reviews, toss out the lowest and highest scores anyway, and look at the rest.

3) You have many great reviews, (a total of 9 just in the month of February alone) One slightly lower score will hardly affect you average.

4) Personal preference. Looks are very subjective. Everybody has their own taste and idea of beauty. The guy in question found you attractive but not "really hot," "model material," or "once in a lifetime."

5) Personal preferecne part two. The reviewer who gave you a 7, has other reviews where he gave 9s. Every one of those ladies is latina. You are European. It seems like he has a strong tendancy towards the latina ladies. Probably in general, he finds them more attractive than other races. Again it is a personal preference thing, and one you can do nothing about.

Hold your head up. Be proud of your reviews. I wouldn't ask the reviewer to change the score or ask TER to change the score as another poster requested you do. All your good reviews will overshadow this one (which is still good by the way, as I mentioned in point #1). If anything, it makes you seem more real, if once in a while, you see somebody who is not so totally won over by you. A lady with nothing but 10s and 9s, sometimes raises more suspicions than one with mostly 10s and 9s, but an outlier here and there.

Take care

When I first started reviewing I got a few comments that I was giving out too many 10s, the expectation of the other hobbiests are that you score carefully.   I've done 10 reviews and I still don't feel as if I know the numbers.  

The guy had nothing but 9/9s until yours, your post reminds me of something one of my critics told me "if you keep giving out 10s, imagine how the girl will feel when you give out your first 9".

Personally I take allot of pride in what I write.  It usually takes me a few weeks to get them how I like it.  But I've only had a few ladies talk to me about what I write, it's alway about the numbers.  To be honest it kinda hurts.  

7 is not a bad number.  I've given out two 7s to ladies I really liked and i will want to see again.  I actually just saw one tonight for the 3rd time, she's a 7, but I like her.  If you're really interested in understanding the reviewer, read his other reviews, see what he says his experiences were like, and then compare them with his review of you.  A review is more than the  numbers.  That's why they give us so much space to write in.  You get two characters for numbers, and 9,000 characters for words.

I go by the photos you show. To each his own on the appearance factor, some will rate you 10 and some will rate you 6. They might have been having a bad day, you might have been having a bad day. If the appearance shows up in the description, I'll do more research. But as long as your photos are accurate, and others have said they are, then I don't care what number someone else gives.

I would like to thank everyone for your comments. I really appreciate them and it definitely made me feel better about myself. You guys are great and you all have  a wonderful weekend!

Kisses,
Chanel PEarl

Especially in "Appearance."  It's so subjective, I woudn't lose any sleep over it if I were you.  Your ratings are so outstanding accross-the-board, that an occaisonal rating less than 8 or 9 shouldn't affect your popularity at all.  From the looks of your great reviews, it'sa quite clear that you're doing many things right, both in Appearance AND Performance!

Posted By: chanelpearl
Hello hobbyists,

I would like to ask that if I look 100% like my pictures and I am always freshly showered, pay attention what I wear and how I look like and prep 2+ hour for a meeting, I show up and the gentleman compliments on my looks and keep asking me if all ladies are as beautiful as me in my country , why he gives me a 7 rating the next day on appearance? I just do not find it fair and I do not know why this is happening to me? Everyone until now was giving me 9 and 10 for appearance and I simply do not understand why this is happening... any advice/ideas?

Thank you!

A seven is for attractive, that is not a bad score....Maybe this guy was a really hard grader but seven is not bad at all.........

Damm near EVERY highly rated lady has at least one or more abnormal scores....fergetaboutit!!

Dear Ol_Desperado,

You are right, I almost forgot that I have a seal of approval from you! Many highly rated ladies do not have that :) That's a more prestigious award anyway :)

XOXO

Posted By: Ol_Desperado
Damm near EVERY highly rated lady has at least one or more abnormal scores....fergetaboutit!!

Don't lose any sleep over it.

I don't think of a 7 as a bad score. I'd be extremely flattered if a lady ranked my appearance as a 7. Regardless, you're one beautiful, sexy woman!

I've been called sexy, pretty, gorgeous, hot, "his dream" in my face and sometimes in reviews but i've never been given over a 7 for looks for whatever reason. I don't fuss about it nor lose sleep and also have stopped wondering or worrying.

i look at your pics and see a 9 at least 10 -- something like 9.5 down to 9 if you were grumpy or pouty the whole time and 10 if you were seductive, smily and bubbly.  I haven't even wasted my time reading the 7s but here's my guess: 1.) attitude affects looks for lots of guys, personally i don't want 2 hours of prep from a lady, i want unpretentious pop on in, and heck PJs and no make up is the ultimate GFE for me :D  so if any of the primping attitude from 2 hours of getting ready shone through, that can be unattractive.  I HIGHLY doubt this is the case because I don't see bad attitude written all over your pics.  2.) Some guys want blonde barbie dolls with impossible hips and busts and blonde blonde blonde.  Your pics are gorgeous but you scream cutie girl next door type to me (and personally I wouldn't have it anyway).  Combine a similar read with a guy who wanted barbie/perfection AND is an asshole and you'll get a 7.  Which is still a good score :D.  It's a numbers game, just pay attention to the ratings and maybe ask what a guy is looking for in dress etc because 2 hours might be intimidating/too much for a lot of guys

you get almost all 9's and 10's !  ignore the 7 babe :D its all about the average (which is amazing)

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