Normally when someone emails me or pm's me here I am very helpful and try my best ....

However ... this cockroach needs to crawl back under the rock he crawled out from ...(the short of it)

A provider friend of mine would not see this guy because he knows her SO ... she didn't feel comfortable in seeing him (that's understandable) ... Instead of letting it go and moving on ... this scumbag has been hounding her and making her life a living hell...  

power1000 / Jacob has been coming on the boards gathering information about her and then passing the information onto her SO.  How do I know ... power1000 / Jacob has been asking me questions about this provider .. I've been giving him general info which I would give anyone ... To my surprise my friend (the provider) called me and read back word for word one of my pm's which I sent to Jacob in private... Jacob then forwarded it to her SO causing my friend tremendous pain and suffering.... this is so so low .. going behind a provider's back .... in a sence blackmailing her ... forcing her to see you so you won't pass on more info to her SO.  I would be more than happy to pay 1 full year memebrship to TER to have you banned from here for life.....

Now Provider's I'm not saying you should or shouldn't see this asshole ... but think about it .. if for some reason you stop seeing him or don't get along with him in the future .... you could very well be next ......

You have WAY to much time on your hands.

time on my hands ... however, when someone uses my private mail to mess with, screw with, or hurt someone for no reason ... I'll be more than happy to make the time ......

Spinner, you're right--this guy is a complete asshole.  I also find his behavior deplorable, and hope no one will help him in his quest for information.
Good of you to go out of your way to help her.

......Spinner, if this Provider is your Friend....what general information would you share with a stranger about her that would cause your "friend" ..tremendous pain and suffering when she heard what you had said ???
   
    Don't get me wrong!  I'm not taking any sides here, and, I'm most confident that you are correct about this guy.  

    But,.....and, take this constructively....You said that HE was going behind her back???  I personally don't say much, I hope, about a Friend, that I'd mind them hearing about.

    Just an observation!  Unless, I read your post wrong!

I don't answer questions unless the person has 10 reviews, also if they are anonymous i will not reply. If it is too personal i will not reply unless i know the person. Always refer questions about the provider to the provider. There are a lot of creeps out there.

Regardless of how much time on your hands or exactly what comments were shared, good for you in standing up for the lady involved. Whether this guy was trying to blackmail her to see him or maliciously trying to hurt her because of her business, she should be treated with the same basic respect and discretion that we all ask for.

He used me to get to her .... Atfer 24 pm's and numerous questions ...   he had the when .. the where and for how long ... he then sent my pm with this general info. to her SO and the SO was more than likely able to catch her in a lie about her whereabouts that night.

moral of the story .. don't try and be a helpful trusting person

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You're always helpful and generous with lots inside info. Your integrity speaks volume in this community. Keep up your fun spirit and party on.

Would you see someone you know in "real life" that somehow found you. I think it would be a real turn on to see someone I knew in my regular life but if they didn't want to see me becuase they knew me to well I would understand and would keep their secret as I would expect them to keep mine. If they are really your friend, who knows they may change their mind. Just wondering?