This was a post on a thread below but I thought the topic is important enough to warrant it's own thread

Posted by Cedar2010, 2/10/2013 10:44:41 AM
I'm with you craps, I love it when a lady leaves sexy heels or boots on during a session! But it's pretty rare  (I guess it's uncomfortable?) and I rarely have the nerve to ask for it. Since hobbying is a lot about the fantasy to me it seems obvious that a lady would continue to wear certain sexy items throughout the meeting like heels. But looking at laffy's response tells me there's more variation amongst hobbyists on this than that I would've thought. Guess I just need to grow a pair and ask for what I'd like more (or ladies charge extra for uncomfortable requests?).

No, ladies don't "charge" for attire requests, but I do get a wide variation a ladies tendency to keep heels on. I always ask at the beginning of the session, and the range goes from ladies that keep them on like its the natural thing to do, but a lot of the time they eventually slide them off, or sometimes it comes right down to a painful plea, "can I please take these things off now". (I always feel guilty and say yes, satisfied that at least I got a little time with them on)

Corsets are different. So far all I've gotten is straight out "NO, these things are too damn tight".  I posted this question on another board and one answer, from a provider, was to offer extra for "extreme" service.

I think the whole issue is "charging".  I prefer to "tip" for such service, and I starting this trip I will adopt the following policy; your comments as to whether I'm being a arrogant or reasonable, or if i should try a different approach is appreciated.)

I will make a request to keep the heels on at the beginning of the session along with any other special requests.  Sometimes the ladies also have their own.  Then if the heels stay on throughout the session with no complaints or reminders, I'm going to tip a photo of President Grant (but it won't be a pre arranged thing, therefore it is not a charge, it will be truly a tip). And if we go out, and we have to walk or stand, you can wear sneakers, just as long as you keep heels on in the room.  (But I do like them on if we go dancing (maybe you can bring a pair in your purse).

Also, if I review, if you want a 10 you gotta keep the heels on, and of course have the other attributes of receiving a 10.  My only question is, should it be part of the appearance score (my preference) or the service score?  (Personally I hate the damn numbers, if I could review without them I would, but since everyone  considers them so damn important, especially the ladies, I might as well put them to good use).

Regarding corsets, I think that is going to have to be a "pre arranged" request. Althought I'd be willing to "pay" for that if it was offered.

is what shoes she struts around in. Having a foot fetish, this is probably the most important piece of clothing she will dress in. It should also be my choice as to when they are removed.
I would think this is something that should be discussed before a meeting so the lady can dress in a pair of heels she feels comfortable in if you want her to keep them on for the full session.
I also think that some of the shoes would be a bugger to position oneself for a good time, so this should be considered.

But,for me most guys request for me to take them off after awhile.
If you want heels to stay on just ask.
Nothing hotter than a nude lady with some sexy heels
As far as review scores due your preferences well if a provider did what was expected and showed up looking like her pictures it should reflect that in the score.
You could always discuss your dress preferences at the time of setting up an appt to  guarantee that you are getting just what you are looking for.
Have fun.
xoxo

I love when the heels stay on,  I saw Jaydalee two months ago, She did as I expected plus some and looked like her pictures hence the great time and review and yes she kept her heels on the whole time.  
        I loved it

So happy to know this!

I'd love you with your shoes on!

I LOVE heels and I love wearing them. Even if certain shoes are not so comfortable ......
it is soooooooooo sexy.........especially when a lady has great legs

For me , sexy and beauty trumps comfort ........ well why would we even bother to wear them...
No pain , no gain LOL LOL LOL right ?

I keep my heels on till the very last second until I get into the bed.
The reason I remove my heels at that point is because I am thinking about hygiene.
I mean we are in the bed that you are going to sleep in later.
Do you really want my dirty shoes that have been walking in gods knows what from the street and
parking garage .........getting all over your sheets ???
also I worry that I would scratch some part of your body with my heels ........ that would be
a hard to explain accident to the wifey/SO/GF back home.


I thought I was being considerate by removing my shoes.
but hey , if anyone wants me to keep them on , all you have to do is ask

communication , communication , communication is key to a perfect date or fantasy.
We are hookers , not mind readers

Yes you can tip a lady if you found her service to be exceptional ....... like leaving shoes on during
the whole session.
You can rave about her going the extra mile in the review you write.

But , extra points for looks or service has nothing to do with leaving shoes on.
To keep reviews honest, the review should never be a barter point for extra points ...... as in ......
If you leave shoes on , I will give you a higher score
OR give me a discount , I will write you a great review..........
do you see where I am going with this ???

Whatever your fantasy is , if you don't speak up and ask , we don't know.
No need to be shy about it.
After all , we are here to fulfill fantasies.

No extra charge here to make your fantasy come true.
If I am not into your fantasy , I will let you know so you can find someone who is a better fit for your request.

I LOVE corsets........but good luck finding one that fits my body type .
( really big boobs with small waist ) I also can't find button down shirts that fit ;-( ;-(
Ohhhhhh the curse of being so busty LOL LOL
Sorry not into buying custom made ....... tried that a few times, didn't go well ;-(
If I can't find something ready made that fits , sorry I wont have it in my closet .

and that is the whole Spice point of view ......... but you asked

xoxo CindySpice

When you're short like me keeping them on has its benefits to both . I think I would have to say these accessories are my trademark . A corset rocks they are beautiful and the smaller the better
for me. Lace and silk with silk stockings and pumps... mmm.....

Xo

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I like to dress up in sexy nights, thigh highs, garters and heels. I know a lot of girls might not want to but, I  really like them. I of course don't charge extra for them but am not offended if tipped to do this for the client. It's all about his fantasy and I enjoy that kind of dress up. We both win!

First off I LOVE to dress for the client's tastes. Heels, stockings, garder's, corset, bra, teddy... It's all about the client. And during the course of the appt. I will loose or add whatever is requested.
All of my dates are multi hour or multi day so they are not rushed
So what is really fun is going out with the client and shopping with him ( or a couple for the items he wants to see me in later. Lots of tease and clothes on foreplay
Keep em happy and give them what they don't get at home !

I have a closet with an entire wall devoted to shoes and most are heels but I typically wear flats when I meet with clients. Because I am only 5'2 I typically attract clients who are in the 5'4-5'7 height range themselves and my assumption is that they like a girl shorter than they are- I maybe have 1 client a month who requests heels... Am I doing clients a disservice by not wearing heels to every date?

Craps

I think maybe for you and I (and other hobbyists?) this is just an issue of clearly asking a lady for what we'd like ahead of time. I can't speak to corsets (I love the look but never asked a lady to wear one through a meeting) but I do think waering heels or boots through a session isn't a huge problem for most ladies, if asked.  But everyone is different; some guys don't like that, or like Curvy said, I think the provider/hobbyist height ratio can be an issue, too. I'm not very tall but tend to favor tall ladies. I've noticed that unless I specifically ask for a tall provider to keep her heels on she'll remove them, probably assuming I'm intimidated by her height, especially if she's as tall or taller than me to begin with and wearing 4 inch or higher heels, while providers several inches shorter tend to be the ones who leave their heels on, even without my requesting it.

To each their own and providers aren't mind readers so I just need to make my preferences known.

Cedar

Cindy

I feel stupid for my post below since I hadn't read the whole thread. You nailed what I was trying to say and said it better!

but of course, I expect nothing less from "Doctor Spice"

I never thought of the hygiene issue, don't really care about the sheets, and a couple of nicks here and there always felt pretty good, but the next time I get up and personal with a set of heels I'm wearing a cover.

Regarding the scores, I don't know, I've had two reviews "marked down" by TER because the lady does not offer BBBJ, anal or lesbian encounters, none of which are of primary importance to me, but I disagree with the numbers anyway, so.... I guess if I feel one way about  that I should be consistent with the heels too.

But yes I'm working on communication, I've been embarrassed, or afraid, to get too explicit with my requests, especially with new girls, with my favorites I've been feeling more comfortable, but with someone I haven't met I worry that getting too specific will cause me to appear like a weirdo (that ship might have already sailed with this post).  So in the future I will ask in my appointment request if they have a set of "bedroom only FMPs (for good hygiene) that are comfortable to wear because I would like you to keep them on"

I'm embarrassed already.

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I have request for corests and heels all the time, and yes i will wear them the entire session. Not gonna lie, sometimes it is hard to do certain things in a corset, but i make it happen.

xo
LaRue McCay

Me, too, craps but I think these are great ideas!

I feel much sexier with heels on.  I wear them all the time, in and out of the bedroom.  I wear corsets quite often, too.  Yes, in and out of the bedroom.  I wear them with suits, though.  Very feminine.

I've never had a problem asking a lady to wear a certain outfit during a session. I think it even adds to the session. Also many ladies would even love to go shopping to find the perfect outfit and heels. That's one of the reasons I love staying at PH. They have the miracle mile shops that have a Frederick's OF Hollywood and tons of shoe stores as well as other places to get your kink on.

So just ask and enjoy..

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