Would anyone care to chime in on the topic of providers cleaning up hobbist's?  I am used to provider's providing a warm wash cloth, but recently ran into a gal who didn't.  I would have said it's no big deal, but not having it, I really missed it.

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I would think its normal after a connection us ladies clean up the mess.

I mean really ,the guys are on another planet at that time and a warm towel kind of brings them back to earth.I think the last thing on their mind is a towel and clean up.

Everyone has their own style of doing things.

Too funny, man - LOL .......... but if I had my druthers, this would be more like it.

I always bring a warm washcloth unless I swallow hehe

Most guys seem to like this-I have had a couple guys say "No offense, but I'd rather do that myself." I don't get offended-to each their own.

With apologies to Paul Harvey, what would be proper if part of the clean up is that the provider got her period during....

This should go without saying that a warm towel is a must.Soapy towel followed by a warm wet towel and one to dry off with.I guess not everyone thinks like that.I have had gentleman that are very surprised when I do this but to me this is normal.It is only fair if I caused a mess I need to clean it up!

At least on my end I have some sort of a warning sign before my womanly visitor.But if it ever did happen I think i would be in the shower with him  cleaning him up with soap and warm  water

.... while it's like 2nd nature/reflex to immediately fun/go for baby wipes I will at the same time as are wipes okay or do they want me to get them a wash cloth and if they ask for a wash cloth I ask if they want me to wet it (with warm water) because some rather it be dry.

There should be nothing to cleam up.  Ladies you should be able to swallow everything (CIM) and you will NOT have that problem.  HELLO!!!!!  ALL guys love CIM.....most ladies love to taste a mans cum...it's sexy

that's what I love.. get every drop of it and still I'll get the wet cloth