I'm looking for some opinions so hopefully someone on here will offer their 2 cents.
 I recently saw a provider that I really, really, really liked.  I had a great time and I cannot wait to see her again.  I already have so many more questions about her (and other things too) that I want to ask her next time.  So I post her review and I find out that all of a sudden (warranted or not) I have a VIP membership.  So I go and read about the other sessions of hers just to see how my writing compares to other guys.  MAN AM I IN SHOCK!!!!  I could tell that she enjoyed doing certain things, but I've found out that she goes a lot farther than I had ever imagined.  I know that YMMV, but it doesn't seem to be that way with her, she's pretty consistent with her reviews.  
 I never dated in my younger years (though I'm currently married), and have always been very shy around girls because of my size.  That is why I think I partake in this hobby.  I finally get to meet girls, learn things about them, and have the added benefit of being pampered.  So from day one in this hobby, I have always conducted myself as I would on a real date, striving to be the gentleman that I believe I am.  The provider in question even made it a point to tell me afterwards via e-mail that she noticed I wasn't in a rush to get into the bedroom like a lot of guys, and said how comfortable she was with me.  That's 95% accurate too...We did have a great time talking and I wouldn't trade that for anything.  It was almost as much of a turn on as the physical part.
 Now however, I'd like to take our next session a little farther, but I don't want to make her think it was just a front.  I really am that nice guy she saw, I just want a little more naughty in my life and I'm afraid that if I come out and say so, that it'll make our next date too mechanical and impersonal.  Any suggestions??  Thanks in advance!

If you had a great time, and there is something in a report that you saw that you were interested in, let her know. The worst is that she says that it was a lie or that she isn't comfortable with it.

You have already broken the ice with the initial party. I wouldn't worry about her thinking it was a front.

Believe me when I say these ladies hear it all. As long as you don't do any really stupid (like sending her a picture of your penis), you should be fine.

Just be honest and upfront with the lady what your fantasies are. Just because you want to try new things doesn't make you any less of a nice guy or  less of a gentleman.
I am sure no matter what you want she will still respect you in the morning
and if you ask her for something she doesn't do (but you read she did )She will not be upset with you.
Besides the lady your talking about is very nice and understanding.
Have fun
xoxo CindySpice

Cindy is absolutely correct if it is a young lady you recently reviewed.  You won't find a more understanding and knowledgable gal.  Not to use the old saying...squeaky wheel gets the grease...if it is the grease you desire...by all means speak up man.  Have fun, play safe, and most of all show respect!!!  Happy Holidays...

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Can I call you sexy


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I've never seen one before and this might be my only opportunity!

Better yet, send it in an e-mail along with your real estate ad. (Girls, I bet you know what I am talking about, LOL!!  I think that fool e-mailed me at least 3 times.)

The poor guy was just trying to ask an innocent
question.

So is that a girl who got a dick and a pair of balls  ?  LOL LOL

Thanks for all the replies!!  With hindsight being 20/20 though, I have some great advice for myself too.  Be too forthcoming on the TER boards and maybe the provider will find your post, she'll know about your desires next time.

...Yeah, not feeling too sly now!  LOL!