So I'm planning a trip to Vegas. A provider I saw on my last trip reaches out, asks when I'm coming back. I reply that indeed I'm planning right now. My schedule was wide open, I could've booked anytime in the next 3 weeks so I text her and ask when will it be that time of the month? I want to schedule around that. NO RESPONSE. Days later I figure she got pissed at the question. Did I commit a faux pas? Let me backtrack a bit - last year I saw a local provider, we were having fun, I pull out and blood is on the condom. I played it down but when I left I was pissed. She said she was early and after stewing a bit, I believed her. So, that is why I asked the Vegas provider the question. How do you ladies deal with it? I assume you don't schedule clients when it's expected and I do understand it's not an exact science, calculations can be off. But for this provider to lose me as a client because I asked the question, I'm having a hard time understanding that. Oh well..moving on but plz let me know if asking that is a no-no.

I do not see that as being a problem.  It would not have upset me and caused me not to reply.  Thats just me, but I would think that most of us ladies would be ok with that question.

My question is - why is the provider reaching out to you to ask when you are coming back ??