I'm a long time lurker of TER and have at times been VIP, but just created this account to post this subject. I hobby in Vegas a few times a year, so I have been aware of the scene here for about 3 years. (as far as following TER message boards and using P411) I typically respect many of the long time posters opinions on here and thought I might get your thoughts on this.

You bring up some interesting points here. You just need to be cautious and try and use your best judgement. Do some research and read the reviews. Maybe even reach out to others on the here if something seems fishy or out of the ordinary to you. This business as you know can have some strange wrinkles to it so you always need to watch your step and be careful about how much of your own information you are willing to release.

But if I find out that there's a pimp,agency or management associated with that person, I won't see her again or I will cancel any appointments pending. Like I mentioned before. I feel better if I know that what I'm dishing out is for her and her only. But it's hard to tell sometimes....
And yes, I to have met a few ladies that passed themselves as INDIE's but when we meet,they have no ideal of my likes that I detailed in our emailings.
I guess it that old adage..”Don't hate the player, hate the game”........

I wouldn't see anyone if I knew they had a pimp.  I think the girl doing the work should get the money.  I work for a large consulting company and ....hey wait a second.  Are they making money off me?  OMG I can't believe I have a pimp.

If you have the experience and background you describe, I doubt if you saw a pimped girl. It's sounds more likely that you've  been communicating with an scheduler, and or the girl just breezed through you emails, got the important information, when where, and how long, and forgot everything else.  

You could be right about the scheduler. It would make sense. Though, I'm not too happy to have a scheduler taking my emails and responding to me, and the person I'm meeting having no idea about our conversation. I'm not talking about sending an email with the standard info needed for a date. I'm talking about a weeks worth of correspondence with flirty banter, and then being able to tell they have no clue what your talking about when you finally meet

whether the communication you think you are having with the provider turns out to be a pimp or a scheduler.  Either way it is like false advertising and if I found out I would not see her.

... what are describing in my opinion is wrong because it creates a "relationship" between the hobbyist and the "provider" where certain things are discussed and the provider is not aware of it. In my years as an assistant, I would never do that because of that very reason. One, it's technically false advertising and dishonest and misleading and two, when you finally meet the provider, she has no clue what you are even talking about.  

If you're dealing directly with a provider. Some recent correspondence I've had with a few have pretty much divulged I wasdealing with someone who answers ttheir emails, but it is what it is. Would I prefer to deal with the provider herself? Sure, but I realize it's all part of the game.

I will add one more thing. One of the things that I noticed was that all of these ladies (5-6) would sign onto P411 at the same time (within a minute of each other). Not always the case, but enough that I noticed it. I guess this points to a scheduler taking care of all their profiles. I don't know.

Can you PM who you're talking about?

they may work for an agency. Check if the agency in onlline also.

I've only dealt with a few assistants.  Never had an issue.  

My ATF has an assistant and it works well for both of us. The best part is that the phone never rings even when we spend extended time together.
henryb

Some of you guys need to get a life!  What f'ing difference does it make how they run their business.  What matters is what happens BCD!