Most of the providers who have any reviews at all or have had any sort of success in this "hobby" have a system where their appointment time is alocated in hour long blocks. For example, one can have a one hour appointment, or a two hour appointment, or a three hour appointment, and so on. I have noticed in the last year or two it has also become fashionable for some of the ladies to begin to offer hour and a half appointments.
Anyway, the point of this post is the content of that hour.
I have read several posts where a guy will get a one or two hour appointment and they lady will spend the larger portion of that time talking and chatting. Now, if this is not part of the scheduled "appointment" time, that's cool and nice. But I don't have as much spending cash as some of the posters in here and if I go on a vacation and spend 4 or 5 hundred dollars for a one hour "appointment", I think it's not out of line to expect the lady to stay the whole hour and to not spend the larger portion of that talking. I mean, not to be hurtful but for me
(and I would assume some of the other guys here) I am not looking for a wife or a girlfriend for one hour. I am looking for some fun. And since it's my 4 or 5 hundred bucks, My fun should be a priority.
Now, I have had an hour scheduled appointment with someone who talked for over an hour and then stayed another hour for our session for a total of over 2 hours.
Thats fine. If it's your time and you want to talk, I can talk about your life, your family, your car, what you think of your hotel, what you think of your fellow providers, and I can tell you what I think about Roy Jones Jr getting KO'ed and why I want Tampa to rally and win the Cup.
But if I pay $$$$$ for an hour and you wanna talk for 30 minutes and have a 15 minute session and then leave, then I feel cheated.
It's not that I'm cold or anti-social, but facts are facts. This is a business for the ladies. They may enjoy it and they may have fun doing it, but they aren't doing it for free and they aren't giving me some sort of discount so I if I'm paying a full and sometimes large price, I don't think it's too out of line to want to keep the random conversation to a minimum.
And I know that there is some introductory conversation that can be needed to make each of us more comfortable, But I would personally perfer someone who comes in and gets down to business quickly and saves the talking for later.
I'm not trying to be mean spirited here. Just honest.
Does anyone else agree with me or do you guys disagree with me ?
What about the women ?
I'm not trying to be rude or anything.
I do enjoy a good conversation as much as the next guy, But sometimes I just want things to move at a quicker pace...

Your pretty much on the money with your thinking .. I feel mostly the same way ... The key is that we (hobbiest) must take control of the situation and run the session ...

if we allow a lady to talk on and on and on then that's our fault not hers.

Another exemple ladies love to give back rubs or massages .. and they're great but, if I'm paying for the time then I want to be giving that back rub or massage that way I'm kneading, touching, feeling, caressing, and kissing her body (love being hands on) and the ladies love it, plus she can tell me her life history then. So many ladies have a routine that they follow that if you throw them a curve they loose it. Here's a question how many times have you seen a provider and the second time you see her it's exactly the same as the first time, her routine is the same except for a higher comfort level with you. I'm all for throwing a few curves and screwballs. my .02

-- Modified on 6/5/2004 1:28:30 PM

While my most recent visit to vegas was my first time in this adventure the provider i did choose did want to start with a massage.  However the hotel room i was in gave me two shampoos and not one shampoo and one lotion  She made this comment and told me she couldnt give me her massage.  In its place she got right to the action.  While this was my first time I think this will be part of my routine next time.  Before the provider gets there get rid of the hand lotion.  Just a thought for the rest of you guys to try. Also the hour did have some talking in between pops.  I needed to regenerate anyway so I didnt mind getting to know her more during that time.  then when i was ready she got back to the action.

I don't know about you guy's but my chit chat lasts about 2 minutes while I undress..Then it's fun and games

is for companionship only, the ads read... I guess we need to determine how much we buy into this concept...

But I agree with spinner39 -- we must take control of the situation. There's talking and there's taaaalllkkkiiinnggg.... When all the wasted time talking makes us feel cheated, then the session's bad and the girl deserves a bad review.

Based on what you are seeking, you might just try a dutch apple pie from Smiths for $4.99 and go at it.

volume 1
the decline of the girlfriend experience
outsourcing pros via pasty

BDJ4ME, I'll keep that in mind when I meet with you tomorrow!

I'm in complete agreement with you TxMike2001. A provider should always remain focused on pleasing her client as much as possible within the allotted time. The obvious solution in regards to a particularly chatty provider (whom is most likely inexperienced and a bit nervous) is to; well...put something in her mouth

outsourcing pros via pasty ? I'm not sure what that means exactly. Who is "Patsy" and why is she being outsourced ?

Not to be in mean spirited, But I believe that my intial post was not written in a hurtful or sarcastic way. I wasn't trying to insult anyone; I just was trying to get some opinions on something that I believe might be a concern to some of the men on this board.

I don't know why you would respond by basically telling me to go fuck a pie.

That’s not very constructive.

And as far as the "decline of the girlfriend experience" goes, If someone sets up a single hour appointment, I really don't see how a "girlfriend experience" can be adequately provided for all gentlemen who see her, no matter how personable and talented she might be.

This might seem harsh, But I know that when I see a lady, she's not seeing me for my looks or my charm or my wit. This isn't a lady I met at a bar or a club who has decided to come back to my hotel room. This is someone who is with me for one hour because she is being compensated.

That doesn't mean I should not show her respect and treat her like a lady, but it does mean she is there because she is being compensated to provide a service.

And if it's my dime, I don't want to spend 30 or 40 minutes of get to know you chit chat. Not if I only have an hour.

I have noticed that some providers no longer book one hour appointments, presumably for that very reason.

Anyway, Some of the gentleman seem to think along the same lines as me based on the small amount of feedback that this message thread has prompted.

And to Miss Avalon, thanks for your feedback.
And to Miss Baron, no thanks on fucking the pie.

If a girl did this to me, I would feel cheated. Fortunately, it has never happened. If I knew that a girl had a reputation of talking away my money, I would not see her. PERIOD.

Nikki
you are just to cute. I am sure BDJ4MR has a smile he cant wipe off his face after your visit.  Wish i could have managed to meet with you on my visist

there are providers who will talk through the whole session if you let them.  Inexperience, not attracted to the guy, wants money with a minimun of nakedness, whatever.
Lets be honest...we want a woman who acts like a girlfriend but is mute.  Most guys get talked at constantly from their S.O. and need a break.  Shrinks are cheaper by the hour than providers also.

The last few sessions I had with a provider were for three hours.We went to dinner,spent probably an hour talking,and an hour "getting down to business".That was fine with me,but I could understand if a guy has booked for one hour or an hour and a half,he may want to get down to business right away.    It may be helpful to mention this in your call or e-mail to the provider,although NOT in graphic terms.It's always best not to discuss money,OR,dare I say it, s-x,when you are communicating with a provider,because it is "incriminating".    May I share with you an "anecdote",from a brothel lady I knew several years ago.This was in Tonapah.She said a certain guy would come in on a regular basis,and would book her for one hour.His expectations were to have intercourse for ONE SOLID HOUR.Right before the "bell" went off,(he had it timed just right)he came,got dressed,and left.    She wasn't too fond of being with him,but he WAS a regular,and she didn't mind taking his money.

As a woman seeking a visit with a provider, I WANT to spend time talking, etc.  I want to know the woman behind the eyes a little bit, use the time to flirt and touch and laugh and work up the anticipation....I wouldn't want to have sex with someone I couldn't have a good conversation with.  That's one of the reasons women like Nikki Avalon (wistful sigh) get such outstanding reviews: there's a lot of there, there, and why head immediately for the main course when she offers so many delightful appetizers?  YMMV, of course, and anyone who wastes your time is not worth it, but...I for one am looking for the whole package.  

Course, I'm a girl who likes girls, so color me clueless when it comes to what you gentlemen prefer.