Just had a rather disappointing engagement. Spent over 30 min with someone and he said he had to go to his car to grab something and would b back in a couple mins. Well...he never came back and did not bother to even tell me. He also failed to leave a gift. I normally check the bathroom for an envelope, as stated on my site. I know, I know my fault for not checking, but regardless of the whole gift thing, I'm floored at the how rude people can be! I can chalk up the gift as a loss and a lesson to be more careful, but I'm really in shock that someone would just up and leave and not even say anything. I tried calling and texting and at first was even concerned that maybe he had fallen or something. But what's truly upsetting is the disrespect. I don't want to say the clients TER name in such a public forum, but I will definitely be blacklisting him on every site I know of.  If anyone has certain sites they use to do this please let me know. I know of a couple sites, but have never done this before so could use some advice

that's really terrible and I'm sorry to hear that.
I'm glad you're safe though and nothing else happened.
and you can use verifyhim.com to blacklist.

can you please pm his info to me, thanks so much.


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right here!

ill pm you too.
xo

I don't have access to the providers only board at the moment so I will post his name here. Curtis8319 is his TER name. Ladies, please don't make the same mistake I did.

and I can only imagine some of the shadiness you ladies must sometimes have deal with.  Sorry this happened to you.

Thanks to everyone that replied It's always uplifting to hear from such positive people

That sucks.  How incredibly disrespectful.   Sorry to hear about it.

that happened to you thank you for posting his handle.That is terrible

It's enough we ladies go through as it is! This is just sooooooooo wrong!

and am very glad you are ok! Thank you for posting his TER, hang in there - don't beat yourself up, he was a predator - lesson learned, you are safe and that's what is important.

E xoxo

tho, I am glad you are safe!!!  What a jerk.

I had that happen this past spring with someone I knew.  Luckily, we only went to dinner...and no private time. Though he wasted my evening.  I cleared my schedule specifically for him.  I was floored.  He said he thought we were on a date, and acted like I was out of line when I asked for my donation. Yes, you found me on an escort fantasy review board so we could have an eharmony date! ha!  WTF?!!

 He then said he'd send me a check.....I guess the check is still in the mail! Snail mail from AZ must be super slow, cuz it's been 9 months now.  
The Good thing is: Karma always wins.  You can't take advantage of someone's kindness and generosity of spirit and not expect to pay a price.  And, I'm sure he's lurking here on the boards; and, I bet your awful "friend" is, too.  I'd share his TER info, also but I no longer have it, since I had known him for five years.

I'm just glad he didn't touch me...and, I let the silver lining be that it was a good reminder.  Unfortunately, you have to always make sure business is handled before pleasure.  Even if you know the person.  It's a shame....tho, it's just the way it is.

Stay safe and sane....and be well!

Hi, Bri so sorry this happened feel free to PM me and I'll tell you what I do when I get threats or need to blacklist someone. Good for you to not keep quite, it's assholes like him that give the good ladies and gentlemen of the hooby a bad name. Please don't let it get you down I'm sure his karma will catch up to him soon.

XO,
Jasmeen

That happened to you.  Sadly I've heard of that happening to other ladies.  Blacklisting him is a good thing.

So not cool...free dinner?wtf....karma...it comes back around.

That is just straight up rude.   Im sorry that happened

Well, I wouldn't call him a regular.  Just someone I had known for a while, who kept in touch, who is clearly irregular...with dishonest and disrespectful behavior to match.  Lesson learned.

It really sucks and I can totally emphasize.. it is even more disappointing that he was a regular and someone you knew...A few years back I was scheduled to see a well reviewed, well respected lady that I had seen before. She called me a few days before our date and asked if I could give her gift in advance and she was in a bind and really could use the help. Me, being too naive and unexperienced at the time, send her the money ( $1200 ). She then proceeded to cancel the date for unforeseen reasons but reinsured me that she would visit town in a couple of weeks and would make it up to me... 5 years have passed, I have never seen a penny although she promised me many times she would pay me back. She used every excuse possible ( death in the family, eviction, clients flaked on her she so she is broke ). I even offered a settlement and maybe pay me half or even see me bona fide for 2 or 3 sessions but nothing worked... Lesson is, unfortunately as much as we think we can trust each other.. we can't. It is the sad truth. I always respect the ladies but will never put myself in a situation like this even if I saw someone a dozen times.

of "pick me"
what restaurant is good in las vegas..
etc..
 Decided after a few hours of nailbiting concern for fear of retaliation on his part and him being a reviewed hobbyist..obvious lurker on the board he said..

I decided to:

self delete.. after speaking with mod on my concerns

he had a gun and taser. ( supposedly for safety for being robbed by pimps and bad hookers)
sob story he gave..
he left   monopoly money after he left I realized .. no anser rto my rtexts or calls or emails..

I have emailed him telling him to read the ter board.. K A R MA !!

I had already
 placed on do not see lists across country.. and back channeled with his references (they confirmed his shadiness)/ I told BCD about this traumatic experience to a networking group of las vegas providers..In hopes they would share at meet n greets and other networking lunches and other get togethers.. to reinforce the female strength as providers should in a very scary occupation
already emailed bril  with his information. same guy.
horrible experience.  

sorry it had to happen to other another woman.

unfortunately, references, reviews, and other forms of verification are not always enough

stay safe ladies.

it definitely is not safe even in todays computer age..I vow to no longer let the unjust continue to myself or to my body.. yes, he did touch me!!

remember this could have gone really bad .. had I confronted him about monopoly money.. he could have used that gun on me.. I have spoken to someone about this and men such as this prey on woman and actually enjoy the confrontation.. I am grateful I did not and I am hear to possibly help and console another a woman ..

sadly,
Lorena De Leon

.....creating many people who have an enormous sense of entitlement and zero empathy for others.  I strongly recommend providers find some way to screen for that because it could get worse.  I am sorry this happened to you and may it never happen again.

...  Not the first time Ive heard of this happening.
Won't be the last.

ALWAYS ALWAYS ALWAYS get your donation upfront

END OF MESSAGE

he has got to be a jerk  sorry about guys like that are out there there are a lot of us that love meeting new fends and meney more then once I sure he don't know what he miss

Sorry to hear about that. What does a guy do if the provider stands him up? Just had a provider no call no show on a saturday ,sunday trip to Wisconsin, she never got on the plane and I heard nothing til I txtd her after her flight arrived. I am out a deposit 2 show tickets. I fond a replacement for the Sunday plans. She says she can't refund my deposit because she has no money. Las vegas with all positive reviews? What's my next step