I am very new as a hobbyist.  I have contacted some wonderful providers, and all want references, which I fully understand.  One person I have seen has since retired.  Another...well, I don't want her to get a bunch of calls...want to be respectful to her time.  If you don't see anyone, your don't have a reference.....frustrating.  I am retired so no employer confirmation....AND, I want to protect my privacy and that of the one I am with....

Any suggestions?  Anyone want to give me a reference?  PLEASE.....

My suggestion would be to give her email to the ladies, Most Ladies send me emails and I reply to them fast easy and well respectful for everyone.

That's not always just enough. But their are ways to get screened the ladies are very innovative.

Don't give up. Once you have a couple reviews under your belt you turn into a man whore like me. Shit, heaven forbid!!!

You'll also be broke too. lmao

who you can use for a reference, make sure to let her know FIRST. This is for your safety, as well as her own.