I am very new as a hobbyist.  I have contacted some wonderful providers, and all want references, which I fully understand.  One person I have seen has since retired.  Another...well, I don't want her to get a bunch of calls...want to be respectful to her time.  If you don't see anyone, your don't have a reference.....frustrating.  I am retired so no employer confirmation....AND, I want to protect my privacy and that of the one I am with....

Any suggestions?  Anyone want to give me a reference?  PLEASE.....