I was sitting here and reading a few reviews and a lot of guys have different views on makes a provider that PREFECT girl. Or what makes your time with her so special that she stood out from the rest and made you want to make a return trip.

So my question is this....

What do you look for in a provider? Height? Weight? Blonde, brunette, or redhead? Nationality? And please feel free to throw in other physical attractions that you look for.

(ok sorry but this is a two part question )

What can a provider do to make a morning, afternoon, or evening session with just soooooo f'ing perfect that make you wanna come back and put her as your ATF?

Not that I need to learn anything because I know a few tricks that my mom taught me to keep a man happy  It's a well known fact that one way is thru the stomach but the detour or alternate route is much more fun

But maybe this will help some of the other ladies get a better understanding of what you'll be expecting when you come a knocking on her door.

Play safe & smart

V.W.

First I believe that this will vary from person to person. Is the meeting to be one of meeting a person of a certain description or body type? Or is it something different, i.e. the setting or mood to which is provided?

That is why the GFE of each person must be reviewed by the client to see if that is how they seek the time to go. By this I mean the music, aromas (candles etc.) and the talk. These items take the mind to places maybe not visited.

Also if this is a first visit for both this might help relax the nerves on both parties. But that is MHO and what I seek.

there is very little she can really do except be 'all that she can be'.

Personalities either click or they don't. The key is personality. The sex just seems to follow suit. No 'click' = average time/session. Personalities click = Bam!!(right to the moon Alice). Personality creates FUN,EXCITEMENT,CHEMISTRY and a real desire to please each other. I am presently with personality. Can anyone challenge personality? Would anyone fuck a bitch repeatedly? A druggie? An alcoholic(no that's just too easy.HA)? A disconnected provider? See my point?



OK everybody, kick sand in the MANGINA'S face.




HA!!!!! YA' MISSED!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Every Hobbiest is different.  So one answer doesn't fit all of them.  But here's mine.

1. cleanliness
2. don't promise something and not deliver
3. don't show up unprepared, you're running a
  business and charging a price, act like it.
4. listen and pay attention to reasonable
  requests.  It amazes me how a simple request
  for something like nylons gets ignored yet the
  provider's gallery on her web site is filled  
  with nylon wearing pictures.  (the heat, I get
  it, so bring some along)
5. Try and have fun while you are there.

I have been fortunate that almost all of the providers I have seen in LV fit the bill.  But I do my homework.  

I'm sure the ladies have a few things of their own they'd like to see from the men as well.      

First off fellow hobbyist i had the pleasure of
meeting veronica last month at a small m&g more ladie's than guy's and her picture's on her web site do not do her justice she is hot and much smaller than i was led to believe.
Her sexuality shined threw and her look was one of wtf come and do me right now.
In other word's she did have me at hello
I know my first session with her is in the work's.
As far as question one variety is the spice of life. I myself love ebony ladies like yourself and of course asian spinner's like apple turn me on. I also like DD's and redhead's also.
I myself love ladie's her enjoy receiving oral
and reciprocate with bbbjwcim is alway's a plus.
As far as what makes a ATF there really are to many factor's to list. I will say if you are a true clock watcher i would never call you again.
Only guy's and ladies tell veronica and zorrodaz
what you really think.
Bye veronica until we meet again.

...real as you can be or be a damn good actress.  Nothing makes me NOT want to come back more than sensing her being fake.  Other than that, there isn't much you can do to change yourself and you shouldn't even try.  Every man has different tastes in women and are attracted by different traits.  
Probably the one thing you COULD do to get repeat business is to spend a few minutes (off the clock) getting to know and relax with the guy at least the first time you see him -- helps create a connection between the lady and the gentleman and takes the rough edge off the encounter.
my .02
mvr

OSP's  reply is awesome!  It sums up what I was trying to come up with!  The click is so important. Having a great personality is so essential  to a great time and wanting to see a person over and over again.   The are a couple  thing that  I can add that for me makes it so I want to see the person again and again.  Thing 1, a willingness to play kinky.  The older I've gotten the more and more I like to explore.  Thing 2,  I learn something from them.  I've learned things from most of the ladies that I've seen, but two stand out and by meeting them they helped me to become a better person and helped me to grow.

OSP, in his usual jocular fashion, mentioned personalities "clicking" between hobbyist & provider, which is certainly an important factor.
"Performance" is also important. Reliability is also an asset.

As for looks, kinda pointless to talk about, because every hobbyist has different preferences.

Speaking of looks, nice pics on your website, Veronica----------

In all the paid ladies that I have been with I sincerely consider them all to be excellent providers in their own way ... but ... did they all make me insane with excitement. Not really.

Only a few of them drove me to sexual overload.

It was not because I didn't enjoy myself with the rest of them but because I did not "thoroughly" enjoy myself with the rest of them.

My fault to an extent.

When I am with a lady I find that "I" usually have to take the lead, make the decisions and orchestrate the nights happening. Not that I especially want to, but maybe because she isn't the type who feels comfortable taking the lead.

The beginning of the date is usually top heavy with discussion, I guess its my fault again. The middle of the date is filled with whatever "I" decide will happen sexually. And the end is, well its the end.

What am I complaining about ?

Well, of the few ladies that I have thoroughly enjoyed myself with there is one true common denominator that gave me that special tingling  that I needed. They really made me feel like they wanted to be with me. They hugged me at valet, they kissed me in the elevator, they began the excitement the second the door was closed. They usually know what they want and they start the session off with their own ideas by taking what they want.

See my Felicity Rayne Review.

I don't mind so much if I "have to be the one" to decide what comes next but after so many years of playing the part of the aggressor in a marriage or there just wasn't any sex at all, you just dream of being able to lay back and relax and see what its like to be with someone who is initiating the sexual playtime because they want the sex as much as I do.

Its easy to pick up on a woman who is simply laying before me, allowing me to do whatever I want to her naked body, for an hour, as she lays there counting down the minutes while waiting for the hour to pass.
This is opposed to a woman who is into creating excitement, suggesting position, taking what will also pleasure her as well and leaving me with a true feeling of equal participation.

Now don't get me wrong, I know that this is a game and one that is played out in fantasy. Some women love the sex, some, not so much. But the best providers in my mind are determined by those that are able to make me believe that they thoroughly enjoy the sex and my company.

Its not brain surgery or rocket science, its simply giving as much as you are getting by taking the lead some times and showing an interest in the game and its players.

Veronica, your photos are phenomenal.

Someday I hope that we are able to "Bump" into one another in Vegas.

Ok. Obviously, being a visual creature, looks come first. BUT, not every gorgeous woman is worth a fuck.

Yeah, it's nice to stick it in a hot lady. But if she doesn't have any personality, or is just plain lame, what's the point? Especially if there's an envelope involved.

So, yes, personality is a must also in my mind.

I've had the distinct pleasure of talking with most of the ladies I've seen before our actual dates and found them to be quite intriguing in their own right.

The excitement that builds up is intoxicating in itself! Then when we meet, seeing that smile, and everything just flows from there!

I treat my appointments like dates. Do a lot of walking, talking, having drinks and food. I really enjoy listening to you lady's stories. That's why I book for 2 hours minimum.

And then, of course, comes the performance factor. This is where their reviews come in handy. That, and talking with gents I know, and some ladies, that will vouch for the lady in question and whether or not I'd be satisfied in the bedroom with her.

But like I said earlier, the personality she exudes during our conversations up to when we actually meet assures me I won't be disappointed. Which I've yet to be!

Every lady has her own style. Her brand. Not every guy can appreciate it. That's why I think it's important, at least in my limited experience hobby-wise to do your homework, talk with the lady you would like to see for a while, then go with your gut.

Someone just recently turned me onto that, and I thank her!

Hope this helps!

As for your first question, what everyone looks for in a provider is subjective and my answer cannot help you.  With so many choices, if I picked you, then that means I love your look.  You're already 2/3 there at the door.

As to your second question (and aside from the obvious like being clean, being on time, etc.), the first thing I would say is being relaxed yourself.  I can only imagine how tough that has to be, the first time.  But within a minute, you women know.  Once you know, then the second thing I would say is touching.  When I think back about why one of my fave regulars is a regular, I think about how she was physically close to me almost instantly.  She was arm-in-arm, hand-in-hand, always touching.  That instantly communicates trust, desire, and an intimacy.  Third, gentle kissing, leading to deep, urgent, passionate kissing just pushes my buttons.  My former ATF (who is no longer in the biz) was the best kisser I've ever kissed (and that says a lot, given that it counts women I've fallen in love with and married).

I could go on, but I hope that helps!  Cheers!