Are you offended to walk up to a room separately from your date?

My preference at a hotel with security is to meet for a drink in the bar, discreetly slide a key to the lady and then have her head up to the room while I settle the bill.

I have had some providers insist on meeting them at the valet and walking up with them, but since I am very old and very homely the hot chick on my arm always attracts stares.  The process tends to make me nervous and detracts from the private time.

My preference is to be as discreet as possible.

Whatever Makes you comfortable should be what the provider of your choice cares most about..

Im enjoying  your board posts.

sincereley,
Lorena

No,I would not be offended at all if I arrived at your room separate from you.I have done this many times I meet the gent in the hotel and he slides me his key and I meet him in the room.
This is very easy and should not be an issue.I am sure the ladies will understand.
The main thing is to have fun do not do anything that will detract from that so if meeting in the lobby and going upstairs separate makes you comfortable just express your thoughts with the ladies you will be seeing.

Be number one on both parties list.I always offer many different ways to meet and keep it private.

We understand you may be with a group and may need to meet elsewhere .I like to lay my eyes on all my new friends before I do anything and I am sure they feel just the same about seeing me first.
Everyone is always happy and we depart with smiles.
Being mislead is never fun on either end.

Cocktails at the bar & meet you at the room no problemo!

- I can totally respect & understand your need for discretion.  I am sure anyone walking with identical twins could red flag themselves for the 1 having the most fun ever! -

I've got no issue escorting the lady thru the lobby/casino to the elevator.....only minor issue is that it can take a few minutes to get a "private" elevator.  knowwhatimean?

Well you had my answer to that question in your original thread
Incase you missed it , here is my quote  

"NOW , If asked which hotels I prefer ........
Then my choices are usually hotels that have easier access to.
Especially if the hobbyist needs discretion.
Even though I have my ways of being VERY discreet even at "room key required" hotels" "

When there is a will , there is a way *wink wink*
No worries it isn't that hard to keep discretion , just be sure to have an extra room key.
There are many places to discreetly slide a room key to a lady .....It doesn't have to be "in a bar"

Since I bring with me a suitcase with "equipment", meeting in a bar may attract more attention then needed .........Like my hair and boobs don't already attract enough attention LOL LOL LOL

In my opinion if a lady is offended to walk up to a room alone ....... then she is in the wrong business.
Now some ladies may PREFER that the gent meet her downstairs and walk her up to the room.
but that is a big difference between being OFFENDED if the gent prefers to walk separately.

Do we understand the difference ?

I totally understand if a guy NEEDS discretion
(because he has business associates/friends/family staying at the hotel)
or WANTS discretion ( just because he feels uncomfortable like reasons you have mentioned in your post )
And I am pretty sure most ladies feel the same.

So no worries , Have fun ,Be happy
xoxo CindySpice

I think that is a good idea and I would never be offended by something like this A very discreet solution indeed!

Good communication and planning are always important especially in this hobby when discretion is so necessary... I can't imagine any reputable ladies having issues with what you've proposed but there are perhaps even more discreet ways for a provider to get past security that don't involve meeting downstairs at all. As the luscious Cindy said we all have secrets so I would be sure to voice your privacy concerns to whomever your potential playmate is and let her offer some solutions to getting upstairs, you just might find she has a much better lay of the land than you do as a visitor, lol.

I do not have a preference at all.
But I like to enjoy walking up with you and having a few laughs.
So that is fun, but its really up to whatever the guy wants.
I will follow his directions as I am all his for the evening.
Your wish is my command!  

xoxoMickey Dollxoxo

Me Commando?? no way ..lol
smile and wink

I really appreciate all the comments, I have enjoyed reading them.

I do find it interesting that I describe myself as both very old and very homely on the initial comment and no one disagrees with the comment.

Its been nice knowing you all, but I am going to slash my wrists now.

Goodbye.

Its all about what makes you feel most comfortable...

The rest it up to me So for me its all about what makes you feel most comfortable and safe :]

MM xo

At my location, I usually meet outside, and walk them up because of security keys to all building doors.  If I was to go to someone's hotel I would totally understand going up separately, and also appreciate meeting for a drink first.  Coming back this week!