Are swing clubs a waste of time?

Is it mostly single men that attend hoping to score?

Would it be better to bring a provider, then you look like a couple and get better treatment?

New York clubs are actually a lot more ... interactive


Lina

I went to three of them about, geez I guess it's probably been about two years ago now.  I had two girls with me and it was basically a bunch of guys following us around waiting for us to do something.  The girls finally got creeped out and we ended up going back to the hotel room to do our "swinging" there.

Me, Miami, paris , and Gesselle we are here and its our last night and has been slow we are hosting one tonight. Our room is small but we can accomadate about 10 guys its $400 but goes from 9-1 tonight. Rsvp by 5pm and we need a minimum of 5 guys!
612,568-8794

Ginger

... and don't plan on attending one again. Nothing but voyeur men, lol. Surprise!

Doesn't bother me in the least ...  but it did the gentlemen I was with.

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~ Lorsha

Re: Do any providers go to them? YEP butta got keep this one private

First let me say I loved this past Halloween at Green Door. Guy from HBO ( i heard) Cathouse was in Filming, and he asked the host about me and my girlfriend  -  I was like 'COOL!'  . Green door gets lots of porn stars there and that night they were filming a porn star that was performing oral on a guy with instructions to the audience! I feel I am well skilled in this department, so i stopped my date , as we were on our way out, and said 'I have to watch this'.  So we stood in the room packed with people in their costumes, watching this Sexy lady give her instructions on Fellatio. Well,  The guy the porn star was going to use (  was just picked out of the crowd,,lights are on him, eyes are all on him, so of course, he was a bit 'shy' with his pants down. My date and I, in the audience, were standing next to a couple I know that are weekly swingers there (and both are very sexy hot!) me and her noticed the nervousness of the guy on stage, and my girlfriend started touching me, intimately, and I touching her, playing with each other while watching him only,  our eyes glued to the man on the table with his pants down, and we moaned,....  (camera man even looked at us), and the guy ( getting his cock socked by the porn star) turned his head, and started watching me and my girl playing with each other in the audience.  We did a good job at distracting him from the audience stares, and He got so turned on that he forgot his shyness,  and CAME while his eyes were fixed on my girlfriend and I!
SO HOT !
that was awesome! ya , good fun - got hotter! Immediately after he came, my girl friend grabbed me and my date and her hubby and said ' Come on, we need to find a private room NOW! (she is a sex machine!) Lucky for us,, on this packed night, my friend being very close with the manager, found us a great private room and made my dates night even hotter!So , Green Door has many rooms,  it is like a maze in there, darker than the rooster which is a better ambiance in my opinion, especially for nervous visitors, and a nice vip area upstairs, plenty of rooms to pick from and stripper poles, pool tables, clean jacuzzi - I think Green door is a must see even if you don't play, just go watch a bit some nights are a bore, but most I have been there have been real interesting! Now, as mentioned by others, Green door does have a lot of voyeurs, and I don't mind either as long as my date is cool . I get turned on when guys are jerking off watching cause I know they are jerking of to the act, that is YOU and ME getting it on,  and I think that is hot being an exhibitionist and Voyeur myself There is a dungeon room too, and a golden shower room. Ya, for the most part they keep everything pretty clean, wiping down the beds (vinyl) after each use. I have my own 'keep clean' rules that i follow as well of course.
They give free towels if you are paid VIP.  Green Door serves NO alcohol, but there is a fun gay bar next door to grab a drink and go back after drank.
So, next club, Red rooster, been there twice, first time didn't stay - The Red Rooster club is at a local's home, way east on Tropicana, ( out there bout 7 miles!) Big place, private home, many rooms. I think they serve alcohol but can't remember for sure - Was there on a weekend night and place was near packed early!  Was told they get near 300 people there! Great vibe, Dance floor packed  and looked like lots of fun! cool friendly crowd-They charge to 'rent' the towels, (both clubs charge entry fee, and that varies nightly) Lotsa nice points bout the rooster, but,  First thing i gotta mention, and this to me is yukky, is the beds at the Red Rooster all have sheets on them, that They do NOT change after' use'!
WTF ! how do you get a 'clean bed to play on!  I freaked on this and had my date 'RENT' 6 towels (swearing I would never go there again! )  Next, Private rooms have a guy standing near by and he calls 'time up' after a line is forming , ((( yep,time for another couple to pounce on those dirty sheets, ah, No thanks, grrr. didn't like this.  We paid, and we get timed out of a room,, The room choices were not as many for private as the Green door. Next, I am extremely picky if my date wants a couple to play with,  as I am sure most gals would be. I have a discussion on my cleanliness rules, my NO's, and my NONO's etc.  Lets just say there is more looking than anything Unless we are with my couple friends, have brought a gal with us, or limited touching, cause my first priority is to keep me and my date clean and safe!  I know many swingers that are diligent about playing safe and clean. Don't play with any that are not ! On my dates,  I do mention this ahead of time, and suggest we get a clean safe girl to take with us if he wants to play,, Or, I have two swinger couples that I know use protection always and both couples are HOT.
-at the red rooster club for example, upstairs in the VIP couple room, where everyone 'mUST' be naked ( to enter VIP), I saw three couples 'sharing' each other, total swap, with NO CONDOMS! I freaked out, I mean how do they know the others are clean, Okay, maybe they are all 'regulars' and know each other like me and my couples, that is a possibility, but me and my couples NEVER go bare back!  and , these other couples were willing to play with me and my date not even knowing us! Ya, no way!! Of course, I would not allow this, Seriously that is just unsafe! -  seeing that BBBS had me leaving there fast ! The Rooster was packed busy, with lotsa neat looking people,  free snacks, a great band playing and keeping the dance floor packed, actually a great place to meet local singles and really a fun atmosphere, but Sadly, I could NOT hang with bbfs or the dirty sheets! - MY preference is the Green Door on a Friday Night or Saturday Night at Midnight,( normally best after midnight ) bringing a couple with us, or looking  for a newbie couple that is curious(but not full swap This usually works best cuz most the time my dates are new to the scene, maybe just a bit curious, I love touring with a newbie at the GD, And we can talk, play , ,,I have always had good turn outs on my trips to the Green Door lucky I guess cuz I know its not for everyone. - Hope this helps, these are the two main clubs in town from what i know Cheers!

A provider friend of mine (here in the DC area) goes to swing parties different clubs throw and there are a lot of married couples, long-term dating couples as well as singles .... there's a good mix of all.  

I've been to only one but would like to go to more and witnessed the same. It was a lot of fun but i'm more of a watcher .....for now