I get what your saying. And of course one never knows how traffic may be. if a show is late etc. And if one is on a time stamped date. That can be nerve wracking as he'd/and of course she would be more concerned about the *time*........esp if it's a time stamped date..and it starts first in public, before BCD.
So that's why I personally, prefer to NOT have time stamped public dates. I go to golfing/football games etc with my dates, and I know how lengthy they can be.
And I we enjoy dining out at nice places such as french rest. with more than one course and all of that takes time.
So there's NO way I would ever want to interrupt our public date time.....so his/mine BCD date...is never part of our public date. Regardless of how LONG OTC in public we are. 1 hour or 6. That's simply time to enjoy being with him...for who he is.
Once BCD.....then that's where the 2 hours or longer come into play.....and play we will. And even then....time gets away from us and 2 hours tend to turn into longer. That's what chemistry and passion will do to ya.
Now mind you, I know of providers whom have balked at all the OTC public time I offer/enjoy with my dates. But hey, I simply don't care. This is my time to enjoy being with a man. It's not my *job* to be with a man, like others make it.
Ladies need to be more clear on what OTC they do/don't offer when a man books a BCD date.
Because there's many men who enjoy companionship with a woman that doesn't entail just BCD pleasure.
Posted By: Ishootcraps
First I want to thank everybody for you participation, I appreciate your opinions.
Also I want to clarify i was NOT suggesting a price structure that included OTC time above time arranged for BCD, although as a hobbyist I will say that is awfully nice of any provider that wants to do that, but that idea has been floated a few times and I understand that is a rare occurrence and should not be expected with most providers.
This is how I understand this pricing structure would work:
For Example;
Suppose I want to book a show date. For that you need about six hours; you might also need to eat. The task for me then becomes to “time” everything so I can get back to my place within four hours. That in and of it’s self is stressful, because even if everything goes right, you’re always thinking about the time.
Then, suppose it’s a concert that starts late. Suppose there’s an hour-long cab line. Traffic jam. You know the rest of the drill.
This system, from this one provider, suggests that you can book a “clock free” date. You can arrange for 2 hours of private time, plus a trip to a Vegas show. If the show takes three hours, then it’s a five-hour date. If the show takes four hours, then it’s a six-hour date. It may be a minor difference, but it takes the edge off. You don’t have to worry about the clock. And, if you both agree, you can do something spontaneous.
I know this may SOUND like I’m trying to “take advantage”, (yeah I got one PM that suggested that, I apologize), but I’m I thought it may be a way for girls to get more “dates out” without compromising their business plan, and for hobbyist get a “date out” that is less stressful.