Posted By: PandoraDagostino
From the gentlemen's standpoint, I'm sure it can be overwhelming with all the choices. I can definitely see how posting an ISO can help one narrow down options and show them who is actively responding. It's just one of several tools they can use in their search.
As a gentleman who posts very specific ISO's I want to say that your response is pretty much true for me.
with so many options out there it can get a bit overwhelming at times
in addition to researching what I want, I much rather the lady come to me, instead of me going to her. It shows more interest on her part. I am the customer after all. She wants my business.
For me it eliminates the girls who are likely to give lesser service. This is just my experience across different cities. Some of my ISO's don't receive any response from girls, but guys respond with a suggestion from their experience or intel. Doesn't mean that the ones I approached haven't delivered. TCB eliminates those. I have just found that the ones that seek out my business and respond to the ISO are usually a better time.
This might be seen as a competitive business, but sometimes regardless of how many girls are out there at different rates, its doesn't matter. When a guy wants something, from my perspective, that is what he is going after. Personally if I want a slim blonde white girl, that is what I am going after, regardless of how many asian, hispanic, latina, black, brunette, redheads or other girls are out there. Because I hobby for fun, not for a need, if I don't get what I want I will choose none at times.
Also there are so many ladies out there, that when you msg most of them that suit your fancy, you get minimal responses because they just don't seem to be contactable at times. If you do an area code or city search you will get a lot of inactive ladies who have changed cities, on tour etc that do not change their locale on the board.
I have lost count of how many "Vegas" girls I have found in search results, that I have contacted only to be told they were not in Vegas. Ladies that is a bit frustrating and annoying.
some hott girls don't respond till days (and in a few cases more than 1 year) later, some not at all, so putting an ISO out there has its advantage where you can attract someone who is looking at the same time.
disadvantage of ISO's though, you sometimes get response from girls who don't fit the ISO
ISO - white spinner for greek
response - a latina MILF or a white MILF or a black MILF or a black spinner or an asian girl who tells you that they never have and will never do greek.
WTF
in the bigger picture this one isnt too bad, just shows that there are girls out there that seek their business interest.