Las Vegas
Consider this my yearly begging for sensual and other attention.....
Do you want real or fake ??
What you want is more then just sex . You want true passion and intimacy.
Hey who doesn't
But let me bring you to a small reality check .
why men are from mars and women are from venus . For an example - A man let say starts to cheat because of a physical need .
Later it may be for more then that , but USUALLY it starts off because lack of physical . A women who cheats , starts cheating because of an emotional need , which later can turn into more . I am just using this as an example to explain the difference between men and women . So sure you can find plenty of fake passion and intimacy and you may not even know it is fake .
because the lady is so good at what she does , or there is another factor ( not going to say what it is , as I don't want people to take what I say the wrong way ....... since they do ,LOL LOL but anyone smart enough will know what the "other factor" is .....and I mean other factor for both ends OR are you looking for TRUE passion and intimacy . If you want the real deal , well no matter how horny and nympho a lady is , she will still need some type of mental connection , or FEELING to arouse the desire and passion for you ( or anyone else ) Feelings come with being attracted to a person. Attraction isn't about looks .
It can be your mind , your personality , your sense of humor , it can be anything that causes that person to feel desire and passion . Time and getting to know a person is what creates the women to develop these feelings of desire
to TRULY be passionate and intimate. That is why longer dates make the experience more connected .
Many gents think - well I am not paying to watch her eat ........ they are not getting that during dinner the lady is getting to know the gent .
That is developing a feeling making the experience more passionate and intimate . That is why first meeting even if it is only for 2 hours , while the man just wants to get it on because DAMM she looks so hot hot hot . Well yes we know men are visual
The lady needs to find the connection to FEEL ,so she can truly go on and enjoy the time together
for real , with out faking it .
So while the guy thinks Blah blah stop wasting our time with chit chat ........ he isn't getting it .
If the gent wants more then just physical pretend sex , the women needs to feel connect . That is why one hour is never enough .
That is why two hours isn't really enough.......but not everyone has the time or budget for longer.
That is why I personally do some things to create the connection and feeling before I meet a gent.
and even then if I am meeting him first time , I still need to talk a bit to reconnect with him.
but mind you I am talking about gents that I get to see first time or maybe only once a year . When a gent sees a lady on a more regular base , that connection and feelings are already there
so the women has the desire and passion to just rip your clothes off and want you NOW !!!
FOR REAL , not because she is getting paid to do so ......... do you ( anyone who is reading this post ) understand the difference ?? Then you have this thing called TRUE CHEMISTRY . It is there or it isn't .
you can't create it ( you can fake it ) you can't buy it.
For a man because he is visual , it may start out with looks ,but it continues because of other things.
For women , it isn't about looks . Men think it is , but it isn't . I thought so too until one day
I was with a male model that from the outside you would think
wow that sex will be off the hook . He is HOT HOT HOT !!! but it wasn't . It wasn't about his looks or personality ( which was sweet , nice down to earth exactly how I love my men ) .He was smart ,fun .....He had all the qualities that I adore in a man .
it wasn't about technique or lack of technique ...... but for some reason the chemistry just wasn't there.
Next night I met a gent who looked like George Costanza ( from Seinfeld ) and WOW
fireworks !! So go figure . Chemistry is there , or it isn't . Now while I get that you want someone who you contracted for 2 hours but stays 5 and then even forgets to take the envelope home .......but with that also comes great responsibility . There is a reason Charlie Sheen says - I am not paying for sex , I am paying her to leave . While it is building your ego when she does that ( forgets envelope ) .
her lust , passion and desire is building into LOVE .
Are you ready to handle that ? You may think you are , but you really may not .
and even your ego may start turning into love or maybe not . but as in any type of relationship ( not just this type of relationship ) if the relationship doesn't feel equal . If one person feels they are getting less then they give , then someone will end up getting hurt , or angry. Why do you think in affairs that start off just for fun . That is all that both parties ever wanted just some fun . end up being so painful and hurtful ( for all parties involved ) but even more so probably for the women .
because the women gets to a point where she feels used , she feels like a "hooker" ...... she just didn't get paid. It doesn't matter how horny a lady is or even if she is a full blown nympho , at the end of the day
there is a need to feel connected. That envelope helps keep feelings and emotions in check .
If a man is emotionally unavailable .
and I don't mean only because a man is married .Single men can also be emotionally unavailable. A real man , who doesn't want to hurt anyone , will understand that he is really paying for her to leave .
and while I get it , the no envelope feeds the male ego , as a gentleman he should look for his ego to be validated in other ways . and there are plenty of ways . OK Oprah , now where is that talk show you promised me
Critics , fire away *wink wink*
xoxo CindySpic
What you want is more then just sex . You want true passion and intimacy.
Hey who doesn't
But let me bring you to a small reality check . why men are from mars and women are from venus . For an example - A man let say starts to cheat because of a physical need .
Later it may be for more then that , but USUALLY it starts off because lack of physical . A women who cheats , starts cheating because of an emotional need , which later can turn into more . I am just using this as an example to explain the difference between men and women . So sure you can find plenty of fake passion and intimacy and you may not even know it is fake .
because the lady is so good at what she does , or there is another factor ( not going to say what it is , as I don't want people to take what I say the wrong way ....... since they do ,LOL LOL but anyone smart enough will know what the "other factor" is .....and I mean other factor for both ends
OR are you looking for TRUE passion and intimacy . If you want the real deal , well no matter how horny and nympho a lady is , she will still need some type of mental connection , or FEELING to arouse the desire and passion for you ( or anyone else ) Feelings come with being attracted to a person. Attraction isn't about looks . It can be your mind , your personality , your sense of humor , it can be anything that causes that person to feel desire and passion . Time and getting to know a person is what creates the women to develop these feelings of desire
to TRULY be passionate and intimate. That is why longer dates make the experience more connected .
Many gents think - well I am not paying to watch her eat ........ they are not getting that during dinner the lady is getting to know the gent .
That is developing a feeling making the experience more passionate and intimate . That is why first meeting even if it is only for 2 hours , while the man just wants to get it on because DAMM she looks so hot hot hot . Well yes we know men are visual
The lady needs to find the connection to FEEL ,so she can truly go on and enjoy the time together
for real , with out faking it .
So while the guy thinks Blah blah stop wasting our time with chit chat ........ he isn't getting it .
If the gent wants more then just physical pretend sex , the women needs to feel connect . That is why one hour is never enough .
That is why two hours isn't really enough.......but not everyone has the time or budget for longer.
That is why I personally do some things to create the connection and feeling before I meet a gent.
and even then if I am meeting him first time , I still need to talk a bit to reconnect with him.
but mind you I am talking about gents that I get to see first time or maybe only once a year . When a gent sees a lady on a more regular base , that connection and feelings are already there
so the women has the desire and passion to just rip your clothes off and want you NOW !!!
FOR REAL , not because she is getting paid to do so ......... do you ( anyone who is reading this post ) understand the difference ?? Then you have this thing called TRUE CHEMISTRY . It is there or it isn't .
you can't create it ( you can fake it ) you can't buy it.
For a man because he is visual , it may start out with looks ,but it continues because of other things.
For women , it isn't about looks . Men think it is , but it isn't . I thought so too until one day
I was with a male model that from the outside you would think
wow that sex will be off the hook . He is HOT HOT HOT !!! but it wasn't . It wasn't about his looks or personality ( which was sweet , nice down to earth exactly how I love my men ) .He was smart ,fun .....He had all the qualities that I adore in a man .
it wasn't about technique or lack of technique ...... but for some reason the chemistry just wasn't there.
Next night I met a gent who looked like George Costanza ( from Seinfeld ) and WOW
fireworks !! So go figure . Chemistry is there , or it isn't . Now while I get that you want someone who you contracted for 2 hours but stays 5 and then even forgets to take the envelope home .......but with that also comes great responsibility . There is a reason Charlie Sheen says - I am not paying for sex , I am paying her to leave . While it is building your ego when she does that ( forgets envelope ) .
her lust , passion and desire is building into LOVE .
Are you ready to handle that ? You may think you are , but you really may not .
and even your ego may start turning into love or maybe not . but as in any type of relationship ( not just this type of relationship ) if the relationship doesn't feel equal . If one person feels they are getting less then they give , then someone will end up getting hurt , or angry. Why do you think in affairs that start off just for fun . That is all that both parties ever wanted just some fun . end up being so painful and hurtful ( for all parties involved ) but even more so probably for the women .
because the women gets to a point where she feels used , she feels like a "hooker" ...... she just didn't get paid. It doesn't matter how horny a lady is or even if she is a full blown nympho , at the end of the day
there is a need to feel connected. That envelope helps keep feelings and emotions in check .
If a man is emotionally unavailable .
and I don't mean only because a man is married .Single men can also be emotionally unavailable. A real man , who doesn't want to hurt anyone , will understand that he is really paying for her to leave .
and while I get it , the no envelope feeds the male ego , as a gentleman he should look for his ego to be validated in other ways . and there are plenty of ways . OK Oprah , now where is that talk show you promised me
Critics , fire away *wink wink*
xoxo CindySpic
Related Link: http://www.theeroticreview.com/reviews/show.asp?ID=631
Oops , sorry I didn't mean to make your head hurt
Normal people posts in reply to someone and what they are saying . I admit , I am not normal . LOL LOL LOL
So I read your post and know other people feel and think the same .....
proof how undertherader2 came back with his comment ....... and maybe he was just kidding too. So regardless if you really meant it , wanted it , was just kidding or half way hoping or wishing .
I know that there are people out there who are only lurking , they will never post .
but will read your post , nod their heads and think -
Yeah that is what I really want . and I mean it ! So my answer is to give perspective to those people , who are really wondering .
who really want to understand why. Who really want to hear an honest perspective .
and that is how my posts are born .
If it helped even ONE person to understand and learn something new , well then my work is being done. Yes even a "hooker" can make a positive difference in peoples lives
Sorry if it caused you pain ....... I am kidding , I don't take myself so seriously .
no need to get all defensive . It's ok to admit you do really want it . Nothing wrong with that . Note to self , remind posters in future that my answers are not just about the OP.
xoxo CindySpice
Related Link: http://www.demotivationalposters.org/image/demotivational-poster/1008/the-barbie-doll-b...
Have no fear , I will ALWAYS be me !!
I am not apologizing for being ME . I love myself very much .
Not in a cocky way , in a very confidante way .......and there is a BIG difference . I say I am sorry . Not sorry for speaking my mind or for being who I am .
straight up , outspoken , honest no BS tell it like it is , even if you don't like what I am saying .
Why am I like that ? because I am confidante .
I don't seek anyones approval , except my own approval .
I know who I am , and that is enough for me .
I was raised not to be shy, to speak my mind ....... Hey I thought we live in a country of freedom of speech *wink wink*
So people love me , or they don't like me ...... either way my life continues full of love joy peace and happiness . When I say I am sorry , I mean just sorry that what I say has caused someone any type of pain or hurt or any other negative feelings .
That is not my intention , but I have no control how other people feel. I am sorry that some people just can't handle the truth ....... even though I have warned people
If you can't handle the truth , maybe best to skip my posts Now based on posters history I also know he is just saying - " my head really hurts"
is his little passive aggressive way trying to be funny to tell me my posts are long winded ......yes ok I know , tell me something I don't know
No matter how long my posts are , still in the TER guidelines of how many words in one post .
So obviously it isn't a problem for whoever runs this site , why does it bother some posters. ???
If one has ADHD and can't follow , they don't HAVE to read my posts .
No one is holding a gun to anyones head , right ?
Hey I am sometimes just as guilty , I give a little zing to be funny .
To some it is funny , to others it isn't.
No one is perfect . At least I own up to my faults . btw I wasn't aware that there is a law against derailing from original post ?
did I miss that memo ??
smile faces to show I am just being sarcastic . Making a difference in peoples lives one post at a time.
when you open your heart , your mind is receptive ....... people should try it, they will be surprised
what they will find.
OK Oprah I am still waiting on that phone call ....... damm I guess she is too busy saving Lindsay Lohan
xoxo CindySpice
I am not apologizing for being ME . I love myself very much .
Not in a cocky way , in a very confidante way .......and there is a BIG difference . I say I am sorry . Not sorry for speaking my mind or for being who I am .
straight up , outspoken , honest no BS tell it like it is , even if you don't like what I am saying .
Why am I like that ? because I am confidante .
I don't seek anyones approval , except my own approval .
I know who I am , and that is enough for me .
I was raised not to be shy, to speak my mind ....... Hey I thought we live in a country of freedom of speech *wink wink*
So people love me , or they don't like me ...... either way my life continues full of love joy peace and happiness . When I say I am sorry , I mean just sorry that what I say has caused someone any type of pain or hurt or any other negative feelings .
That is not my intention , but I have no control how other people feel. I am sorry that some people just can't handle the truth ....... even though I have warned people
If you can't handle the truth , maybe best to skip my posts
Now based on posters history I also know he is just saying - " my head really hurts" is his little passive aggressive way trying to be funny to tell me my posts are long winded ......yes ok I know , tell me something I don't know
No matter how long my posts are , still in the TER guidelines of how many words in one post .
So obviously it isn't a problem for whoever runs this site , why does it bother some posters. ???
If one has ADHD and can't follow , they don't HAVE to read my posts .
No one is holding a gun to anyones head , right ?
Hey I am sometimes just as guilty , I give a little zing to be funny .
To some it is funny , to others it isn't.
No one is perfect . At least I own up to my faults . btw I wasn't aware that there is a law against derailing from original post ?
did I miss that memo ??
smile faces to show I am just being sarcastic . Making a difference in peoples lives one post at a time.
when you open your heart , your mind is receptive ....... people should try it, they will be surprised
what they will find.
OK Oprah I am still waiting on that phone call ....... damm I guess she is too busy saving Lindsay Lohan
xoxo CindySpice
Thank you for the compliment, but i am more than happy with 7's or 8's, which is attractive yes? I'd rather a date walk in and be happy than be disappointed 
.....but reading the text line suggests a blow-up doll poster. (smile)
My God Shaunna, you are a very beautiful and sexy woman, how the heck did you ever wind up with 7's and 8's for appearance scores within your reviews ? You must only date super model types and Brad Pitt,
I see that you will soon be touring California in a few weeks.... I wish it were Vegas in April instead. If you ever tour to Massachusetts please let me know, I would love to meet you.
Cheers !
My God Shaunna, you are a very beautiful and sexy woman, how the heck did you ever wind up with 7's and 8's for appearance scores within your reviews ? You must only date super model types and Brad Pitt,
I see that you will soon be touring California in a few weeks.... I wish it were Vegas in April instead. If you ever tour to Massachusetts please let me know, I would love to meet you.
Cheers !
So you've obviously been paying attention to my "sexploits". You just forgot to mention the part where SHE leaves an envelope for ME!!
The little envelope is my insurance policy against falling for a woman who, more often than not, is confident, worldly, wise, and capable of incredible passion about far more than our time together. The envelope keeps me grounded and respectful of boundaries. It's a business transaction first and foremost. Some years ago I crossed the line with an escort in the UK, and she crossed the line as well. I woke up and walked away (more like crept away) and in doing so hurt her emotionally. It took nearly a decade to repair the underlying relationship, and she is now retired from the business and is a mental health therapist (shrink). It's a business transaction first and foremost, but occasionally the service provided is unexpected and rewarding beyond the sex.
Out there. BUT ,
Do you want real or fake ??
What you want is more then just sex . You want true passion and intimacy.
Hey who doesn't
But let me bring you to a small reality check .
why men are from mars and women are from venus .
For an example - A man let say starts to cheat because of a physical need .
Later it may be for more then that , but USUALLY it starts off because lack of physical .
A women who cheats , starts cheating because of an emotional need , which later can turn into more .
I am just using this as an example to explain the difference between men and women .
So sure you can find plenty of fake passion and intimacy and you may not even know it is fake .
because the lady is so good at what she does , or there is another factor ( not going to say what it is , as I don't want people to take what I say the wrong way ....... since they do ,LOL LOL but anyone smart enough will know what the "other factor" is .....and I mean other factor for both ends
OR are you looking for TRUE passion and intimacy . If you want the real deal , well no matter how horny and nympho a lady is , she will still need some type of mental connection , or FEELING to arouse the desire and passion for you ( or anyone else )
Feelings come with being attracted to a person. Attraction isn't about looks .
It can be your mind , your personality , your sense of humor , it can be anything that causes that person to feel desire and passion .
Time and getting to know a person is what creates the women to develop these feelings of desire
to TRULY be passionate and intimate.
That is why longer dates make the experience more connected .
Many gents think - well I am not paying to watch her eat ........ they are not getting that during dinner the lady is getting to know the gent .
That is developing a feeling making the experience more passionate and intimate .
That is why first meeting even if it is only for 2 hours , while the man just wants to get it on because DAMM she looks so hot hot hot . Well yes we know men are visual
The lady needs to find the connection to FEEL ,so she can truly go on and enjoy the time together
for real , with out faking it .
So while the guy thinks Blah blah stop wasting our time with chit chat ........ he isn't getting it .
If the gent wants more then just physical pretend sex , the women needs to feel connect .
That is why one hour is never enough .
That is why two hours isn't really enough.......but not everyone has the time or budget for longer.
That is why I personally do some things to create the connection and feeling before I meet a gent.
and even then if I am meeting him first time , I still need to talk a bit to reconnect with him.
but mind you I am talking about gents that I get to see first time or maybe only once a year .
When a gent sees a lady on a more regular base , that connection and feelings are already there
so the women has the desire and passion to just rip your clothes off and want you NOW !!!
FOR REAL , not because she is getting paid to do so ......... do you ( anyone who is reading this post ) understand the difference ??
Then you have this thing called TRUE CHEMISTRY . It is there or it isn't .
you can't create it ( you can fake it ) you can't buy it.
For a man because he is visual , it may start out with looks ,but it continues because of other things.
For women , it isn't about looks . Men think it is , but it isn't . I thought so too until one day
I was with a male model that from the outside you would think
wow that sex will be off the hook . He is HOT HOT HOT !!!
but it wasn't . It wasn't about his looks or personality ( which was sweet , nice down to earth exactly how I love my men ) .He was smart ,fun .....He had all the qualities that I adore in a man .
it wasn't about technique or lack of technique ...... but for some reason the chemistry just wasn't there.
Next night I met a gent who looked like George Costanza ( from Seinfeld ) and WOW
fireworks !! So go figure .
Chemistry is there , or it isn't .
Now while I get that you want someone who you contracted for 2 hours but stays 5 and then even forgets to take the envelope home .......but with that also comes great responsibility .
There is a reason Charlie Sheen says - I am not paying for sex , I am paying her to leave .
While it is building your ego when she does that ( forgets envelope ) .
her lust , passion and desire is building into LOVE .
Are you ready to handle that ? You may think you are , but you really may not .
and even your ego may start turning into love or maybe not .
but as in any type of relationship ( not just this type of relationship ) if the relationship doesn't feel equal . If one person feels they are getting less then they give , then someone will end up getting hurt , or angry.
Why do you think in affairs that start off just for fun . That is all that both parties ever wanted just some fun . end up being so painful and hurtful ( for all parties involved ) but even more so probably for the women .
because the women gets to a point where she feels used , she feels like a "hooker" ...... she just didn't get paid.
It doesn't matter how horny a lady is or even if she is a full blown nympho , at the end of the day
there is a need to feel connected.
That envelope helps keep feelings and emotions in check .
If a man is emotionally unavailable .
and I don't mean only because a man is married .Single men can also be emotionally unavailable.
A real man , who doesn't want to hurt anyone , will understand that he is really paying for her to leave .
and while I get it , the no envelope feeds the male ego , as a gentleman he should look for his ego to be validated in other ways . and there are plenty of ways .
OK Oprah , now where is that talk show you promised me
Critics , fire away *wink wink*
xoxo CindySpice
Do you want real or fake ??
What you want is more then just sex . You want true passion and intimacy.
Hey who doesn't
But let me bring you to a small reality check .
why men are from mars and women are from venus .
For an example - A man let say starts to cheat because of a physical need .
Later it may be for more then that , but USUALLY it starts off because lack of physical .
A women who cheats , starts cheating because of an emotional need , which later can turn into more .
I am just using this as an example to explain the difference between men and women .
So sure you can find plenty of fake passion and intimacy and you may not even know it is fake .
because the lady is so good at what she does , or there is another factor ( not going to say what it is , as I don't want people to take what I say the wrong way ....... since they do ,LOL LOL but anyone smart enough will know what the "other factor" is .....and I mean other factor for both ends
OR are you looking for TRUE passion and intimacy . If you want the real deal , well no matter how horny and nympho a lady is , she will still need some type of mental connection , or FEELING to arouse the desire and passion for you ( or anyone else )
Feelings come with being attracted to a person. Attraction isn't about looks .
It can be your mind , your personality , your sense of humor , it can be anything that causes that person to feel desire and passion .
Time and getting to know a person is what creates the women to develop these feelings of desire
to TRULY be passionate and intimate.
That is why longer dates make the experience more connected .
Many gents think - well I am not paying to watch her eat ........ they are not getting that during dinner the lady is getting to know the gent .
That is developing a feeling making the experience more passionate and intimate .
That is why first meeting even if it is only for 2 hours , while the man just wants to get it on because DAMM she looks so hot hot hot . Well yes we know men are visual
The lady needs to find the connection to FEEL ,so she can truly go on and enjoy the time together
for real , with out faking it .
So while the guy thinks Blah blah stop wasting our time with chit chat ........ he isn't getting it .
If the gent wants more then just physical pretend sex , the women needs to feel connect .
That is why one hour is never enough .
That is why two hours isn't really enough.......but not everyone has the time or budget for longer.
That is why I personally do some things to create the connection and feeling before I meet a gent.
and even then if I am meeting him first time , I still need to talk a bit to reconnect with him.
but mind you I am talking about gents that I get to see first time or maybe only once a year .
When a gent sees a lady on a more regular base , that connection and feelings are already there
so the women has the desire and passion to just rip your clothes off and want you NOW !!!
FOR REAL , not because she is getting paid to do so ......... do you ( anyone who is reading this post ) understand the difference ??
Then you have this thing called TRUE CHEMISTRY . It is there or it isn't .
you can't create it ( you can fake it ) you can't buy it.
For a man because he is visual , it may start out with looks ,but it continues because of other things.
For women , it isn't about looks . Men think it is , but it isn't . I thought so too until one day
I was with a male model that from the outside you would think
wow that sex will be off the hook . He is HOT HOT HOT !!!
but it wasn't . It wasn't about his looks or personality ( which was sweet , nice down to earth exactly how I love my men ) .He was smart ,fun .....He had all the qualities that I adore in a man .
it wasn't about technique or lack of technique ...... but for some reason the chemistry just wasn't there.
Next night I met a gent who looked like George Costanza ( from Seinfeld ) and WOW
fireworks !! So go figure .
Chemistry is there , or it isn't .
Now while I get that you want someone who you contracted for 2 hours but stays 5 and then even forgets to take the envelope home .......but with that also comes great responsibility .
There is a reason Charlie Sheen says - I am not paying for sex , I am paying her to leave .
While it is building your ego when she does that ( forgets envelope ) .
her lust , passion and desire is building into LOVE .
Are you ready to handle that ? You may think you are , but you really may not .
and even your ego may start turning into love or maybe not .
but as in any type of relationship ( not just this type of relationship ) if the relationship doesn't feel equal . If one person feels they are getting less then they give , then someone will end up getting hurt , or angry.
Why do you think in affairs that start off just for fun . That is all that both parties ever wanted just some fun . end up being so painful and hurtful ( for all parties involved ) but even more so probably for the women .
because the women gets to a point where she feels used , she feels like a "hooker" ...... she just didn't get paid.
It doesn't matter how horny a lady is or even if she is a full blown nympho , at the end of the day
there is a need to feel connected.
That envelope helps keep feelings and emotions in check .
If a man is emotionally unavailable .
and I don't mean only because a man is married .Single men can also be emotionally unavailable.
A real man , who doesn't want to hurt anyone , will understand that he is really paying for her to leave .
and while I get it , the no envelope feeds the male ego , as a gentleman he should look for his ego to be validated in other ways . and there are plenty of ways .
OK Oprah , now where is that talk show you promised me
Critics , fire away *wink wink*
xoxo CindySpice