Would love to experience BDSM if she brings out the chains and is as hot as Bibi. 😜

that would dabble and experiment in kink, but not too much at the incall.  If you are seeing them outside, they are just as sexually curious as civvie women.  Time management is always on their minds at work, and kink activities are often hard to predict when it comes to how long they will take.  Better to be outside with no clock in the room.  

 
With that said, as long YOU are strictly willing to be the submissive, some girls (often the ones with toys, etc) will be happy to do things to you that you may be curious about.  I'm not the submissive type, so I prefer to be the Dominant, which means its a no go at the incall for anything more extravagant than a simple insertable toy.  

 
The other factor is trust.  Don't expect a Kgirl to allow you to put her in restraints unless you have been seeing her a long time.  They are control freaks, and it takes a lot for them to be able to put themselves in a completely vulnerable position.  On the other hand, her being the dominant is usually not an issue FOR THOSE that have this in their playbook.  

I know/knew a few providers. My atf was into light bdsm, her on the sub side.  

 
However, bdsm kinda falls to ymmv phase. I was hesitant to say much about it and make it public because it's not on the menu and what she might love with me she might not like with another. Especially since even light bdsm involves a lot of trust and respect. Especially if the girl is kn the sub side.  

 
As someone who is a FetLife member and done a fair amount of it, I know a some newbies sometimes go overboard.  

 
And many girls who are into that will eventually bring it up themselves if they are comfortable with you.

Just my two cents.

..is a bit of an understatement, I think. Those I’ve known and known of who “dabbled in kink” only did very little, if they did any kink at all, at the incall. Kink tended to be off site dates only. And with guys with whom there was more than a bit of a relationship. At least as far as I am aware.  

 
Now, if you include costumes as kink (I don’t) the instances of it happening at the incall go way up.

 
But maybe it’s different in SoCal.

I agree that trust is essential so I will have to nurture some relationships as I am just a casual hobbyist and prefer to be on Dom side as well.

Light bdsm and cosplay is kinky enough for me if she is willing to be a sub.

but almost will never advertise that. like rocket was saying, always involves trust and time ($$$). and no, you aren't getting any clues as to who.

cosplay as kink, then the odds go way up that there's a girl in your area (wherever that might be) that can accommodate you.  Whenever you see girls with one of their ad pics as a nurse or saloon girl or something furry, there is a good chance she has other outfits as well.  Obviously, outfit requests should be made to the booker at the time of booking.  The standard response from the booker is, "I'll pass along the request, but there is no guarantee she will have the outfit available," so its best to arrange it in advance directly with the girl.  

But she has retired back to Busan to tend to the family business, so I think I'm released from my admonition/promise not to tell about it or write it in reviews.  She wore my armbinder every session after I gave it to her.