recently took a 10 panel and tested positive for clap.   also positive for hpv which isn't part of the 10 panel.  hpv was diagnosed based on warts that i didn't even know i had.  doctor found them.  

sorry, counted based on 1 year not 9 months of pregnancy.  that detail is inconsequential.  but you can keep trying to poke holes if you want.

was okay with you seeing Kgirls while she was pregnant, or did she find out you were fucking around when you gave it to her?  That seems like the worst way for a wife to find out.  Is she going to keep you now that you have a child together?  

East or west coast? If west coast NorCal Or Socal? Not trying to out you, but rather for my own risk assessment.

this is all happening as we speak.  since all she knows about is the hpv, she can't say for certain i was fucking around.  although, she is definitely giving me  the cold shoulder and is obviously upset.  we have been researching hpv together and it seems that it is an extremely contagious infection.    but the big concern is that hpv is an infection on the skin and she is trying to breast feed.  so we have to now figure out what the fuck and how the fuck to do this since warts can be transmitted from our skin to the babys mouth.  by the way, these warts are hard to see.  you can definitely have these things and not know.  i know when you google warts, you see these gross images, but there are warts that are skin colored and smooth and barely visible.

by the way i am in the  OC and LA area.

You seemed keen on putting a bunch of details in that, honestly, have little to do with getting something off your chest and clearing you conscience.  Getting something like the length of human pregnancy seems pretty bad for a new father.

in the spring of 2018 right after TER went dark in the US and SoCal agencies started openly advertising BBFS girls.  I have not knowingly seen ANY girl that advertises BBFS on her menu, and if a couple slipped through on tour without my prior knowledge that there were offering BBFS indiscriminately, then I still went for the cover.    

Thanks for the post. Most guys are too pussyfoot or embarrassed to publicly discuss the issue.  

thanks for your post. i've had a couple sti scares in the last year.

Didn't your doc tell you that HPV can have a years-long gestation period, up to more that a decade? You don't say how long you've been married, but it may be you can say it was dormant from before you started sleeping with her.
 
It happened to me with a girlfriend. She got warts after I did. Neither of us knew when I had them what they were. I wasn't cheating on her, but she wouldn't believe me. Years later she called me to say "sorry," I think *I* gave you the warts after looking further into her history. She had mentioned cancer risk, but I don't remember that she was saying that was the strain she (I?) had. It's remarkable how uniformed we were, especially since her PhD was in medicine!  
 
Anyway, the point is that you may have an out.

Nowhere in my post did I say my wife was pregnant for 13 months.  As I said in my previous response to you I was just counting backwards and making estimates.  Once I determined this happened within the past 5 or 6 months, the time period further back from that didn’t matter.  

In my first response to CDL I say “since all she knows about is the hpv she can’t say if I was fucking around”. That’s what I meant by that.   You’re right. Hpv can lay dormant in your system before manifesting externally as warts.  Her ob told her that so that’s why she couldnt flat out accuse me of cheating.

I am a rather skeptical SOB, I admit. And the OP has absolutely no responsibility to prove anything about his post.

any dermatologist can do that with a cryogenic spray.
Usually people pick up HPV almost as soon as they become sexually active. That's why kids of 14 are urged to get the new vaccine that early.

Mine were genital warts and they went away untreated. And it was more like one big (tall) wart, not a patch. I didn't even know what it was until later when my friend got vaginal warts and blamed me.

Agreed for the most part. These forums are intended to share information enabling everyone else to make and informed decision while hobbying. At times it seems people use it as a platform to brag about paid encounters. Talking about the shittier side of the hobby only gives us more data points  to process but many of us are not trying to hear that.

I knew my post would be met with skepticism and backlash.  it's a whore enthusiast board and a sti post is throwing cold water on things.  i'm on a gambling forum and i hate it when i post about a good vegas trip with winnings and some asshole chimes in "better report your winnings to irs or else".

in your OP but has perhaps been semi-resolved in the thread.

You're post offered nothing of value whatsoever to anyone reading it.  
-- are you the content police?  i'm seriously asking.    do you always speak for people you don't know?  

but your OP had nothing useful for others. Just read the thread and see where it went.

Tbh I couldn't imagine having to explain to a SO how I got an STD. And I couldn't imagine at all being her.  

I agree! Never fucked around when I was either in a serious relationship or when I was married!  

you still haven't answered my question but that's ok.  it's pretty obvious where you're coming from and really, that's ok.  by the way, I responded to my own post with my location before there were any replies (that I could see).  but I can't prove that so...  

Jensen tends to do this speaking for others stuff a bit too often on here. Don't sweat it. I didn't find your post useless and we had some more good posts as a result of replies. As long as it isn't blatant advertising or completely offtopic, I personally think most posts are generally "useful".  

"Querty" get away from you? Typing with your feet again?

Sorry, I did miss the question.

Yeah my phone autocorrect is a Cat that walks by himself. Got a mind of its own, replacing "ore" in the word "more" with "pee". Lol.

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most of the time, and I know you are like me in wanting to protect the business of the Kgirls we enjoy when we can, but I have to take exception with you saying he should reveal his review list so that others can see whether they visited ANY of the girls on his list.  Have you considered that such a move is going to make lepers out of fifteen or more Kgirls when ONLY ONE is guilty of giving him the HPV?  What if ONE of these girls is your ATF and she leaves town because her customers stopped coming merely because of SPECULATION that she might be the one?  Would you be okay with her being on the list and potentially leaving town, and you never seeing her again?  What happened to the American concept of "innocent until PROVEN guilty?"

Maybe I misread. But it didn't look to me as if Jensen was suggesting the OP should have revealed kgirl names. It seemed to me that he was just listing possibilities - as he often does.

Yes, I'm not saying anyone needs to A B and C.... Just some ways I think the original communication would have had much more relevant and valuable (actionable) information.

i got the opposite from jensens responses to me.  he thought he had a gotcha moment when he called out my pregnancy timeline.  i'm sure he expected more people to back his "gotcha!" post and move against my OP.  when that didn't happen, he then began to try and poke holes by saying my post was missing this, that, the other; basically throwing shit at the wall hoping something sticks and lights some type of fire against me.

If you posted a list, your post would be gone as it's against the rules.

I kind of agree with Jensen, the whole post is about you and you feeling better about yourself! I just think the situation is you being selfish! I know I said that in an earlier post. Your needs come first, over your wife and child, the guys on the board and other Kgirls you might have seen!  

Badger, I'm not sure the post was meant to be a "helping" post per say. It was more of a "here is my story" post imo. Which is more than perfectly fine imo. Those in the area perhaps could pm him and possibly get more clues/info.

It sounded like he and Jensen were into a non helpful & helpful post interaction and I felt I had something to say.

Thanks for letting us know. OP. I hope everything works out. I’m negative and, to be quite frank, pretty happy I stay away from BBFS, and my hobbying has gone down since BBFS is being openly advertised these days.

How do you know your wife wasn't hasn't been whoring around for years and gave you the hpv?  I'd would definitely get a  paternity test.  You don't want to raise a kid that isn't related to you.  If you divorce her you can seed Korean gals without a worry in the world.  

Maury already told him it was his.  Lol

In the very beginning he said he did not have sex with his wife for months and he got the clap and she was negative.

The hpv can be dormant for years and years.  She could have been a street rat or just a party girl.  You never know.  He's being to hard on himself.  Why didn't they have sex?  Probably because she was getting it elsewhere.  

He 's already made clear they both know that hpv can be dormant a long time. He was also pretty clear that the lack of sex was related to recently having a baby. Last, the point of his post to this board was about the clap, not hpv.

Any man that has bareback sex with a Korean prostitute when he has a wife or a girlfriend is the one who doesn't respect women.  I would never date a civilian if I was dating prostitutes.  If you cheat on your wife and give her hpv, aids or herpes you should be locked up.

The saying, "What goes around comes around", comes to mind!

There are always those guys who are in sexless marriage.  

tbinsocal949 either you can't read, or you're an idiot or both.  the hpv dormancy thing was all over the thread.  you stated in other posts that you pay "extremely old grannies" for sex.  you are single and you don't have enough game to get pussy from desperate geriatric for free?  so you can't read and you're single and you pay 60 and 70 year olds for sex... please fight the urge to suicide, there is still hope for you.