As I am close to many providers, I hear all sorts of horror stories about clients behaving badly.  These clients are on both coasts and need to be BL for the safety of the girls and hobbyists alike.  Bookers also need to be vigilant and more strict in preventing these predators and creeps from getting a free pass.  Just because they are a regular client and brings in lots of business does not give them carte-blanche in treating girls with disrespect.  Because many K-girls don't speak English or have clear legal status, there are a-holes out there that try to take advantage of them.

I agree 100% with everything you said!

hey xnyong,

Why do you think these kinds of behaviors are particular to the clients of K-girls?  They aren't. Also, while the advice is fine, it's highly unlikely guys who behave this way visit any board on TER.  But, hey, if it makes you feel good to post this here, knock yourself out.

Lack of English skills and uncertain legal status makes them more vulnerable to these vultures.  You would be surprised to know that many reviewers and regular clients are often the culprits as they take advantage of these girls by threatening them with bad reviews and such.

I almost exclusively see K-Girls. They have always been so nice to me and I to them. It makes me sad that assholes would take undue advantage of such wonderful providers. But then such is the world today not just in our hobbying world but unfortunatey in almost every facet of life

They also depend on our timely accurate reviews for their livelihood, especially for newbies or touring girls.  If they provided a good service, the least you can do is to write a review.  It will help both the provider and potential clients alike.  Reviewers who see hot providers, but do not review are hoarders and being selfish.  If you want to be nice, go see them again, but writing a good, but accurate review is even better and more appreciated.

You should always treat the K-dolls with respect, there are a lot of A holes out there and the K-dolls should through them out.

Actually, I have had a couple of providers tell me that there are some real jerks that do frequent TER. Sad to say so. This applied to both Korean providers and non-Korean. I would hope the bookers would get the word out on these abusers. I informed one booker that the girl was hurt by a dude previous to my encounter.

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You are probably right. I am going to start writing them. In the past I have refrained from doing so as I have found most of the K-girl booker reviews are slightly degrading compared to the other girls I see. I will do my small part from now on.

Too often, the girls don't say anything, to even the booker, out of either ignorance, fear, or tolerance. Bookers even after they get the complaint, often don't BL or share the bad info with other bookers.

...You are a good, honest reviewer and obviously a nice guy based on all your whitelists.  I'm sure you will post all your experiences, not just the good ones.

No doubt, and I didn't mean to imply there was no one on TER who'd act like that.  Simply that the vast majority of them have no idea this place exists.  For example, I was hanging out with a bunch of mongers in Costa Rice recently and none of them had even heard of TER.

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Yes, I will. It is the fair thing to do.

Very true. I gotta say that one highly regarded K-girl passed some derogatory info on to a booker. The booker responded by saying he was a good customer. Not exactly the response you would have hoped for.

I would agree with you on every point. Treat these great girls with the respect they deserve.