I've been reading these kgirl forums and I'm shocked at how easily you guys fall for these girls. I get it, they're hot, fuck great, and make you feel good. But that's where it ends. As a Korean, the shit they tell me makes me smdh....

If you really want a Kgirl as a girlfriend, you have to let THEM pursue YOU.  If they don't want to pursue you, then it means they are NOT interested in anything you have to offer them except being a good customer, so get over your fantasy and stick to business or move on.  Most younger guys don't have the patience to wait for these things to play out, so as the OP says, they become an annoying stalker.  If you know how to seduce a civvie girl into your bed, the same techniques will work on a Kgirl, but you have to get them down off the pedestal and treat them like a regular girl, not some kind of goddess.    

Almost all of my successful LTR's with Asian hookers, both Thai and Korean have certain things in common. The first one is "they called me", even if I "make the first move" I always tell them not to tell me yes or no right now. I make sure she has my number, tell her I like her and would like to see more of her, but I make it clear she has to call me and that if she doesn't I will never bring it up again and I will continue to simply be her customer.

with everything you said, so I will, especially the part about not fucking on the first date.  Its always a test they put you through.  I've even had girls offer it to see if I'll bite, and my usual response is "maybe next time."  The second thing is to make sure you spend as much on that date as you would on a session.  Psychologically, her knowing you could have spend that same money on an hour of pussy, but chose to show them a good time (even if, in GaG's case, you spend it all or most of it on the bar tab) instead, she knows you are spending time with her because you like her, and not to try to get a freebie, and at the same time spending what you would on a date with a civvie girl.  Its a show of respect.  If she wants to get more involved with you, she will let you know, and if she does, you can pick and choose when and where to go all out on a "special date" from time to time.  I've had dates where they wanted to go to a museum (Yes, most Kgirls are educated and smart enough to appreciate a museum even though some guys look down on them for the work they do), which is FREE, followed by a nice dinner somewhere, which is LESS than the cost of a session, and usually by then, they are WANTING to have sex with me and there is no money involved, ever again.  

Both CDL and GaGambler nailed a very important point which is these girls will know real fast if you're just looking for free ass. We're Asian... we can see bargain-sniffers from a mile away. Don't think you're gonna be the first person to be smooth enough to pull it off.... it's been tried before by LOTS of guys before you.  

put the chocolate to good use by re-gifting them to their regulars, like yours truly.  Since many of these guys actively chasing Kgirls are doing EVERYTHING else wrong as well, I don't think letting them continue to bring chocolates, while knowing where they will end up, is such a bad thing.  Lol

Hahahaha!!! OKay, you got a point LOL

Sounds like a cool way to get designer clothes, and loafers, but I don't think I'd be inclined to wear underwear that some guy left at an incall.  Lol

Man, such anger in your tone. Lol.  

"Every case is different" only if you're still trying to figure out how to do it right.  Like GaG, I have found what works for me, so I can pretty much do things the same each time. What am I missing here?

I made sure the underwear was at least washed and smelled like summer breeze :p

Anger in my tone comes from guys who PM me on this site and our local board asking me "what happened to so and so...." and "do you have her personal contact info" and "what's her story". They don't need to know these things. If a girl wanted a guy to have her personal contact info, she would've given it to him. One guy who PM'd me on my local board actually went to the court hearing for one of the operators unannounced.... just showed up. Really?!?!?!  

and never visit this area of TER... but this post is awesome!  

A feel DC resident! Welcome to the kgirl fanboy zoo :P  

Well, well....what do we have here...btw, this is "visine13"  reincarnated.  

You shouldnt pick fights with people superior to you.

Preaching he knows shit.  Another punk come out of nowhere and pissing about he knows everything.  When everyone knows Im the only on who knows everything.  Haha

"wannabe" seems pretty legit to me.  He has PM'd me and is very knowledgeable about girls he has dated on the outside that I know, too.  He named names, he doesn't just say "my ex's" so he's got some cred in my opinion.  I'm not Korean, but just from my own perspective, Jameskm sounds more Korean to me and Dancebbq, so I don't think that's a drum you want to beat here.  You know I like you, so we who know a lot (but not "everything" like you) should get along here and work together towards broadening a better understanding of the mysterious minds of Kgirls for those with less experience.  

My last Thai GF and her roommate must have had two cases a week given to them which probably saved me a thousand bucks a month that I would have had to spend on wine for the two of us. lol  We only drank the "good stuff" and gave the crappy stuff to her younger GFs that worked for the same agency who couldn't tell the difference and actually preferred the cheaper, sweeter wines.  So please fanboys, only buy the good stuff for your favorite hookers, their boyfriends like me will appreciate the gesture. lol

No idea who Visine13 is, but yeah, I never said I was better than anyone. And as for the shit I know, well....

LOL

Maybe you're right about working together. Call my rant a release from people PMing me asking about stuff that frankly is none of their business. Not just here, but on my local board as well. There's one guy that keeps PMing me like clockwork and it's fucking obvious he doesn't get the hint.  

should be the catchwords for the day.  For me, the less I know about a girl's personal life with others, the better.  Its always best to start from scratch from your own experiences with her.  There are girls I passed on because of something someone told me personally about them, where, if I didn't know, they would have gotten some of my money.  Talking too much about a girl's personal life actually hurts her business rather than helps it, IMO, unless you know the guy is mature enough to be discreet with the information.  There are guys here that, as soon as they hear a girl goes on outside dates, they start hounding her the way you describe in your OP.  

Same story as dating a civvie.  Boy calls/text girl, girls don't reply right away, boy freaks out and think more = better, bombards her phone, girl turned off and disappears.  Kgirls are not that much different than a civvie.  Fact that you already banged her doesn't change the fact you are trying to appeal to her female side, instead of her hooker side.

Things that none of us who actually know "how things work" should ever share, either publicly or privately. Simply put, "hobbyists just can't be trusted to know certain things" and I know that most of the fanboys would simply be unable to help themselves and would start blabbing to all their friends things that just don't need to be out in the public eye.

The Captain Save-a-Ho is a terrific point!!!! +1000 on that one. If you want to be Captain Save-a-Ho, you're better off doing that back in the motherland... I miss Korea  

Whaaaaat?......you don't know Visine13?  You must be a fucking Millennial!  Visine13 was Dark Vaders illegitimate son with a Kgirl......dumbass!

OMG... are you having a mental breakdown???  

I must applaud you....spoken like a true shivering Chiwawa bitch millennial!....LoL!  Obviously your young dumb ass can't wrap your head around abstract analogies!  

Our little slice of heaven.  Well, maybe not today.   Lol

Wow.... are you okay? I really think you should talk to someone... professionally. That is a lot of anger right there. It's okay, I get it.... you're just projecting right now, especially when it comes to being a millennial, because only a millennial and not a grown ass man would vent in your manner. You really do have an almost alarming obsession with millennials... it's okay to be one, we won't think any less of you

This is precisely the annoying shit I was referring to.  Punk!.....don't play the cool and collect adversary shit with me.  I see right through your Hillary Clinton debate bull shit!  Obviously that strategy didn't turn out to well for her......Im not even close to being done with you.  Like all CEO's Im an early riser......I'll reply to you further tomorrow morning at 6am from my porcelain throne while I'm floating a few logs down your way.....Pathetic little fuck!...

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LOL... This is too funny. I love it when you talk dirty hahaha

And passing it as is own to get "in" with the ter ho in crowd.

I have actually met quite a few who probably needed "saving" but I have NEVER met a broke K-Girl.

is one of the most successful Kgirls anywhere.  If she doesn't have $100,000 in her safe deposit box, she starts freaking out and says she needs to work more.  I had graduated to OTC sex with her after a few outside dates, so that became the new normal, and one time after a three-hour romp at her residence, she said "Give me three hundred dollars."  She's my GF, so I did, no questions asked.  Although she could tell by the look on my face I was thinking WTF?   So she laughed and said she hadn't been to the bank for a few days, but wanted to take ME out to dinner, and sure enough, we went out to a nice steak house, and 'SHE" paid.  I thanked her for buying me dinner, and we both laughed.  You gotta love the way they think.  LOL

the poorest never has enough, no matter how much they have.

Yup. Any relationship I've had with a K Girl- 4 in 15 years--- they pursued me. If you ask they will take advantage of your naïveté. And definitely not for the insecure. But honestly the hour fantasy time is much better. I mean we do this to avoid drama and relationships right? My "relationships" never lasted more than a month. It got boring. Because they became needy like all women 😡