"wannabe" seems pretty legit to me. He has PM'd me and is very knowledgeable about girls he has dated on the outside that I know, too. He named names, he doesn't just say "my ex's" so he's got some cred in my opinion. I'm not Korean, but just from my own perspective, Jameskm sounds more Korean to me and Dancebbq, so I don't think that's a drum you want to beat here. You know I like you, so we who know a lot (but not "everything" like you) should get along here and work together towards broadening a better understanding of the mysterious minds of Kgirls for those with less experience.
I've been reading these kgirl forums and I'm shocked at how easily you guys fall for these girls. I get it, they're hot, fuck great, and make you feel good. But that's where it ends. As a Korean, the shit they tell me makes me smdh....
You guys realize that when girls go on "vacation," part of the reason is because they're trying to get away from some of your stalker asses, right? You know that "private" number she gave you is like 1 of 3 phones, right? You guys need to realize that Korean girls have no problem being your friend, but stop trying to become their boyfriends. IF she wants to get closer to you, you'll know. But other than that, treat this solely as a FWB situation. If you ask her out, and she says yes, don't think that it's the beginning of a romance... and don't get butthurt when you find out that you're not the only one she's hung out with (some of you guys are such babies... one of you fuckers.... I'm not going to say exactly what happened because I'm sure you'll just cry to the girl, but some of you need to get your big boy pants on... I'm not sure if it's because you're a millennial or because you're madly in love with her).
I'm in the DC metro area and we don't get long term girls like LA, it's all visiting girls. That being said, the girls that visit say its a breath of fresh air for them because a lot of you guys just smother the bejesus out of them. You need to get it through your heads that an opportunity to get in a relationship with these girls is very rare. Don't try to pursue them because if you do, you'll never get one. What happens next is that you smother the shit out of them, they move away or ghost you, and then you start PMing everyone asking what happened (I STILL have idiots in Seattle that contact me asking me for info on their favorite kgirls... that's called stalker).
If you still pursue a girl and she easily makes an OTC date, congratulations, you just became a SD!!!! Read CDL's post... it seriously needs to be pinned.
https://www.theeroticreview.com/discussion-boards/k-girl-113/if-youre-going-to-try-oc-dates-----13242?page=1
If you really want a Kgirl as a girlfriend, you have to let THEM pursue YOU. If they don't want to pursue you, then it means they are NOT interested in anything you have to offer them except being a good customer, so get over your fantasy and stick to business or move on. Most younger guys don't have the patience to wait for these things to play out, so as the OP says, they become an annoying stalker. If you know how to seduce a civvie girl into your bed, the same techniques will work on a Kgirl, but you have to get them down off the pedestal and treat them like a regular girl, not some kind of goddess.
Kgirls are very intuitive because they have studied men extensively during their work. The big turn-off for them is guys trying for an outside relationship in order to get "freebies." They will smell you coming a mile away and either ghost you or flip the situation and play you for some kind of hustle. When its over, you will feel like a complete fool. Dating a Kgirl is not for the insecure, but most often, those are the kinds of guys who get in over their heads in a fantasy relationship that they think is real.
Almost all of my successful LTR's with Asian hookers, both Thai and Korean have certain things in common. The first one is "they called me", even if I "make the first move" I always tell them not to tell me yes or no right now. I make sure she has my number, tell her I like her and would like to see more of her, but I make it clear she has to call me and that if she doesn't I will never bring it up again and I will continue to simply be her customer.
One of the other things that almost every one of the girls who actually looked at me as "boy friend material" and not just a sucker to extract more money from has done was have a "friends first" date. Almost every girl who fucked me on our first OTC date was indeed looking for a sugar daddy or something like a SD/SB relationship. All the girls who ended up being real GF's tested me to see if I were just looking for a "freebie" or if I had a genuine interest in them. Newsflash guys, showering these girls with money and/or gifts is NOT the way to their heart. They either like you or they don't, trying to buy their love only makes you a sucker. Now of course you can't come off as a broke dick or a cheap ass, but trying to impress a girl with your money only makes you a target and it won't make her fall in love with you.
with everything you said, so I will, especially the part about not fucking on the first date. Its always a test they put you through. I've even had girls offer it to see if I'll bite, and my usual response is "maybe next time." The second thing is to make sure you spend as much on that date as you would on a session. Psychologically, her knowing you could have spend that same money on an hour of pussy, but chose to show them a good time (even if, in GaG's case, you spend it all or most of it on the bar tab) instead, she knows you are spending time with her because you like her, and not to try to get a freebie, and at the same time spending what you would on a date with a civvie girl. Its a show of respect. If she wants to get more involved with you, she will let you know, and if she does, you can pick and choose when and where to go all out on a "special date" from time to time. I've had dates where they wanted to go to a museum (Yes, most Kgirls are educated and smart enough to appreciate a museum even though some guys look down on them for the work they do), which is FREE, followed by a nice dinner somewhere, which is LESS than the cost of a session, and usually by then, they are WANTING to have sex with me and there is no money involved, ever again.
Yup. Any relationship I've had with a K Girl- 4 in 15 years--- they pursued me. If you ask they will take advantage of your naïveté. And definitely not for the insecure. But honestly the hour fantasy time is much better. I mean we do this to avoid drama and relationships right? My "relationships" never lasted more than a month. It got boring. Because they became needy like all women 😡
Both CDL and GaGambler nailed a very important point which is these girls will know real fast if you're just looking for free ass. We're Asian... we can see bargain-sniffers from a mile away. Don't think you're gonna be the first person to be smooth enough to pull it off.... it's been tried before by LOTS of guys before you.
And these girls REALLY don't like it when guys pursue them. GaGambler's method is probably the most text book way to get things started. Let her know you're interested, and leave the ball in her court. Don't inundate her with phone calls, texts, Kakao msgs. Just stop that shit. If you want to give her a gift, DON'T do flowers and chocolate. It's overplayed and she'll just toss it in with the rest of the chocolates she has stashed somewhere. If you really want to leave a mark, get her a Sephora or MAC gift card. Or, get her pastries. In Korea, eating decent (doesn't even have to be super expensive, just decent) pastries is a sign of wealth. Right now, gastronomy is HUGE and coffee/pastry shops are popping up all over the wealthy areas.
It's not about sentimentality with these girls... it's about utility.
put the chocolate to good use by re-gifting them to their regulars, like yours truly. Since many of these guys actively chasing Kgirls are doing EVERYTHING else wrong as well, I don't think letting them continue to bring chocolates, while knowing where they will end up, is such a bad thing. Lol
Hahahaha!!! OKay, you got a point LOL
Now that I think about it, I never got re-gifted chocolates. I've gotten clothes a lot as gifts (I sure hope they weren't re-gifted otherwise I've been wearing women's clothing hahaha)... sweaters, shirts, underwear (pretty standard Korean gift), and shoes. I really liked the home-cooked meals. That actually meant a lot because it means that she took the time to actually make the food (Korean food takes awhile) and she was willing to let the apartment smell extra funky lol.
I think what was real nice for me was that I was NEVER expected to buy gifts or to spend a whole bunch on her. Like CDL and GaGambler, I spent what I normally would on a date with a non-pro... catch a movie, get drinks (doesn't even have to be expensive), and a nice dinner (same thing, doesn't have to be super fancy). I think because they knew that I wasn't looking for free ass and I honestly wasn't looking to be in a relationship that I got on really well with them. Also, it helped that I'm around the same age as them and sometimes even younger (yes, some of those kgirls are a lot older than you think lol... sorry to ruin your Asian schoolgirl fantasy hahaha). The only "favor" that was ever asked of me was when they needed a ride and were in a hurry... not the other favors that some of you schmucks are used to like co-signing an apartment, co-signing a car, greencard husband... stuff like that lol
And to the Seattle kgirl stalkers... thanks a lot for the Ferragamo loafers.... they still have that new leather smell hahaha
Sounds like a cool way to get designer clothes, and loafers, but I don't think I'd be inclined to wear underwear that some guy left at an incall. Lol
BTW, not only loafers, I saw a girl a few days ago that just arrived here and still had that "new-girl" smell.
I made sure the underwear was at least washed and smelled like summer breeze :p
My last Thai GF and her roommate must have had two cases a week given to them which probably saved me a thousand bucks a month that I would have had to spend on wine for the two of us. lol We only drank the "good stuff" and gave the crappy stuff to her younger GFs that worked for the same agency who couldn't tell the difference and actually preferred the cheaper, sweeter wines. So please fanboys, only buy the good stuff for your favorite hookers, their boyfriends like me will appreciate the gesture. lol
Man, such anger in your tone. Lol.
By the way your over generalizing. every case is different. I wouldnt say girls feel smothered or that girls are just looking for sugar daddies.
Like civie dating some chicks liked being pusued and some dont. Some chicks are gold digging hoes some actually care. Ive experienced more the latter with my exes.
Makes me wonder if youre really korean or know how to speak the language to communicate with the girls.
"Every case is different" only if you're still trying to figure out how to do it right. Like GaG, I have found what works for me, so I can pretty much do things the same each time. What am I missing here?
Preaching he knows shit. Another punk come out of nowhere and pissing about he knows everything. When everyone knows Im the only on who knows everything. Haha
"wannabe" seems pretty legit to me. He has PM'd me and is very knowledgeable about girls he has dated on the outside that I know, too. He named names, he doesn't just say "my ex's" so he's got some cred in my opinion. I'm not Korean, but just from my own perspective, Jameskm sounds more Korean to me and Dancebbq, so I don't think that's a drum you want to beat here. You know I like you, so we who know a lot (but not "everything" like you) should get along here and work together towards broadening a better understanding of the mysterious minds of Kgirls for those with less experience.
Maybe you're right about working together. Call my rant a release from people PMing me asking about stuff that frankly is none of their business. Not just here, but on my local board as well. There's one guy that keeps PMing me like clockwork and it's fucking obvious he doesn't get the hint.
My question is this: why do guys really want to know the details? Just to say you know shit? Or because you want to know the girl better? In all honesty, it's better to know less about the girl and to just start fresh with her. Ignorance is bliss... it's better that way.
I met a visiting Thai girl last night and she's great. Super pretty and fun. We started talking about personal stuff and she asked me if I had a gf. I said no and I asked her if she has a bf. She looked at me with a very familiar look but I told her I really don't care if she does (obviously she does), but she had a relieved look when I told her this. As a result, we've already made plans for me to hangout next time I'm in her city. It's not about putting in effort or showering with gifts... in fact it's the opposite. Just relax and let her do all the work.
should be the catchwords for the day. For me, the less I know about a girl's personal life with others, the better. Its always best to start from scratch from your own experiences with her. There are girls I passed on because of something someone told me personally about them, where, if I didn't know, they would have gotten some of my money. Talking too much about a girl's personal life actually hurts her business rather than helps it, IMO, unless you know the guy is mature enough to be discreet with the information. There are guys here that, as soon as they hear a girl goes on outside dates, they start hounding her the way you describe in your OP.
Things that none of us who actually know "how things work" should ever share, either publicly or privately. Simply put, "hobbyists just can't be trusted to know certain things" and I know that most of the fanboys would simply be unable to help themselves and would start blabbing to all their friends things that just don't need to be out in the public eye.
Yes, I get more than my share of PM's from guys wanting to know about stuff they simply can't be trusted to know as well, but I am pretty good about giving "hints" when people ask me shit I don't want to answer, GO FUCK YOURSELF!!! usually does the trick. lol
And passing it as is own to get "in" with the ter ho in crowd.
And yes that was one amazing run on sentence!
The kfob wannabe reminds me of Stucko from kgirl fat hippo mecca Banghor. Two nerds perfect for each other.
Anger in my tone comes from guys who PM me on this site and our local board asking me "what happened to so and so...." and "do you have her personal contact info" and "what's her story". They don't need to know these things. If a girl wanted a guy to have her personal contact info, she would've given it to him. One guy who PM'd me on my local board actually went to the court hearing for one of the operators unannounced.... just showed up. Really?!?!?!
With regards to over-generalizing, I've been seeing kgirls now since the first one's came to Bellevue maybe 10 years ago. I know what works and what doesn't work. You need to realize that what we've said doesn't mean it's going to work with every kgirl.... some girls come here strictly to work for a given amount of time or to reach her final number and then go back to Korea and start fresh. They don't want a guy, they don't need a guy, and they certainly don't have time put up with guys that essentially are looking for free ass.
Got dumped? Nope... well.... I was rejected, but given an education in return. Why? Oh yeah, I speak Korean and that particular kgirl basically gave me a quick run down... one of which was to STOP SMOTHERING KGIRLS.
As for me being Korean or speaking the language.... let alone that I don't give 2 shits what you think, but how does that have to do with your asinine post? LoL... you don't know me, you don't know what I know (which is more than you), and while you may think I'm over-generalizing, you're not even close lol
Seriously, don't speak on subjects that other people clearly have more experience and info on... you end up looking like a dunce.
Well, well....what do we have here...btw, this is "visine13" reincarnated.
C'mon Jose Kim......You really think anyone genuinely gives a flying fucking KIMCHI'S ASS about what SECRET shit you know or don't know.
You act like a wannabe Kgirl Yoda swinging your little purple life saber around alone in your bedroom. Just Imagine for a second I'm in your bedroom with you and I'm Dark Vader......and I just rammed my Big Black life saber in your bung hole....this is your WAKE UP CALL......that you're Monger #999 that has had some sort of unique experiences with one Kgirl or another. In other words......you ain't special Jose Kim. You know just as much shit as monger #998!
If you're so frustrated with people asking you SHIT.....then don't go on boards like this and post shit with cliff hanger, carrot dangling story lines.
2 days ago I PM'ed with curiosity of which Kgirl actually lived with one of those ring leader idiots from Seattle. You in return, replied to me with this bullshit lecture about protecting the NOT so private lives of the Kgirls? If that was the case.....if you were so concerned about their privacy.....why the FUCK did you even mention that you knew a kgirl that lived with one of those Seattle idiots.
After reading a few of you're post, I realized that you're just another lonely IT nerd that watches BONER JAMS 2000 on Friday nights like a TRUE 40 yr old virgin.
Gimme a break Foooo....
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No idea who Visine13 is, but yeah, I never said I was better than anyone. And as for the shit I know, well.... 
Man you guys get realllyyy touchy when it comes to your beloved kgirls haha. Seriously, you guys need to calm down. That is so serious rapist anger there with your Star Wars analogy lol. Why do you care so much? I made a post and then you go on this epic rant/meltdown lol. Did I call people out by name? Nope. Did I belittle you in some way? Nope. Jesus-fucking-Christ... no wonder these girls can't stand your sorry asses.
As for the PM, you asked me for a SPECIFIC NAME for a kgirl. Why did you even want to know? And that is something I will NEVER divulge. Seriously, you guys don't need to know the specifics. Why does it even matter? Does it affect her services?
Nope. Does it affect how she is nice to you? Nope. Yeah, I mentioned that A who kgirl lived with Woodstock to prove a point about Woodstock's bullshit, but did I ever say who? Nope. I'm not like some of you fuckers on USG with your alt names that post every little detail.
As for my posts... did you really take the time to read my posts? I'm flattered Who's the lonely IT nerd that has the time, and actually cares, to read what I posted? lol
You guys make this too easy.... :P
Whaaaaat?......you don't know Visine13? You must be a fucking Millennial! Visine13 was Dark Vaders illegitimate son with a Kgirl......dumbass!
You know Jose Kim......you remind of my #1 sales guy "James" for the last 3 quarters. James was smart, had spectacular experience and a resume to show for it. However, he was also the same little COCKY Chiwawa yapping sales guy that I fired from my company earlier this year. I fired him because like a little Chiwawa bitch, he ran around the office lifting his little leg and marking territory leaving his urine sillage where no one wanted it. He felt entitled as the new HOT SHOT sales guy of MY company, and so was pissing off several department individuals.
I'm going to slowly withdraw my Big Fat Black life saber and reinsert in to your bung hole. Let me break it down for you. You see....I'm just an anonymous monger who's not a fan of Cocks.....sorry....I mean COCKY COCKS! You check out my Cocky Cock High Post from earlier.
Like I said previously......you're monger #999. 1.) YOU "just" like monger #998 started seeing k-girls at some point in your short millennial life.............2.) YOU like monger #998 was tired of watching "BONER JAMS 2000" on Friday nights and one day decided it was a good idea to fall in LOVE with a sweet little K-girl...............3.) YOU, like monger #998 rode the K-girl roller coaster (ie., OTC, Kakao talk, sending "I miss you" & "Did you eat today?" text messages, she tells you some of her "SECRETS".......yada-yada.......Whheeee....so EXHILARATING!!!!........until.....4.) JUST Like monger #998, YOU obviously found out that some of our sweet little K-Girl will "Pee-Pee" on you at the drop of a dime......awwwweeee....so Fast so Furious........Holy Shit! I learned and experienced a lot!....therefore "I MUST" be a K-Girl Yodo and yield the "Purple Life Saber"........LOL!!!!!........Punk ass!!! let's forward to today.....congratulations! You're #999 Jose Kim!!!! Again, you ain't special!!! Now you understand that!
Yeah.....I skimmed your posts on my porcelain throne with my elbows on my knees at 6am like everyone else. Per the PM, As Jersey-Shorish and Cocky as your reply was to my simple curiosity....I TOLD YOU I respected it, as 2 other members replied with her identity. No harm done Jose Kim.
Moral of my rant.......don't take your Sorry ass Chiwawa to your neighbors house and have it "immediately" run around the yard peeing and marking territory without first showing the courtesy of a proper & subtle introduction to the neighbors 90LB Pit-bull.
OMG... are you having a mental breakdown???
That was an epic meltdown hahaha. Wow... I don't even know what to say. This was amazing. I have no idea what 3/4 of that was about, except it has to do with you sodomizing me with a foreign object, once again Star Wars, something to do with a chihuahua, and someone in sales. Dude, this was great. Thanks for proving my point. All this about being a millennial... you have to be one because only a whiny little bitch millennial would make such an asinine, random, jumbled, and "......." filled post.
That was simply amazing. Obviously you've had a difficult time getting "in" with kgirls and now you're just upset that the "new" guy has more experience (not really new... new to this forum though) and knows more about the ins and outs than you do. No problem man. Maybe if you weren't such a whiny bitch the girls would actually entertain the thought of actually talking to you.
BTW, why aren't you going psycho hose beast mode on everybody else. Is this because I didn't out the kgirl to you in the PM? Forgive me for not being a blabber mouth... obviously you're one of those guys that NEEDS to do everything or else you just get a hissy fit. And how was my response to you "Jersey-Shoreish and Cocky":
"Please don't take this personally (I'm like this with everyone), but I don't divulge that kind of information to anyone. It's not that I don't trust you - you can be the most secretive person in the world - but it's more out of respect to the kgirls and their privacy. I've found that kgirs have become so popular that their private lives really don't exist anymore. Everyone seems to know something or another about their private lives and they really don't appreciate it.
Information like this isn't really pertinent to services and safety so that's why I don't give info. Sorry man, don't mean to be an ass, but this is a rule that I've always had with everyone."
If you really think that was "Jersey-Shoreish and Cocky" then you've got to be an absolute snowflake aka millennial whiny bitch. Thanks for the meltdown... I needed a good laugh 
I must applaud you....spoken like a true shivering Chiwawa bitch millennial!....LoL! Obviously your young dumb ass can't wrap your head around abstract analogies!
There you go again.......talking about just how you are in the "IN". It's now very obvious to this board you're a little punk kid.....because you act deaf & defiant like the little bitch Chiwawa millennial you are.....I'm going to whisper in your ear really really slowly this time........"You aren't any more in the "IN" than any other monger who has at least fucked 30-100 K-girls. I'm confident there's 998 of us who has. This volume is sufficient to render enough experience for any monger to be in the fucking "IN".......dipshit! The only guys that are going to be "WOW'ed'" by your shit are OTHER MILLENNIALS New to the K-girl playing field. Just look at me for example.....I'm even in the "IN"......I've be ramming YOU with my Big Black light saber "IN" & "OUT" of your bung hole since we started this lovely conversation.
I kindly asked you to share the fucking name. All you had to reply was.... "No" sorry. But instead.......I got a fucking lecture about your stance on the K-girl privacy act.........Blow me!......No......BBJCIM me......punk!
I have no qualms about you sharing your shit.....just leave your fucking purple light saber at home don't act like the K-girl whisperer.....Chiwawa boy! Like DanceBBQ said......it's your tone......its annoying.....veterans pick up on this......it's you're seemingly sly condescending innuendo style of delivering your message that's fucking annoying and THAT lands you in my COCKY COCK book.
Btw, Jose Kim.......just for the fucking record I'm in the "IN" too...... 
Wow.... are you okay? I really think you should talk to someone... professionally. That is a lot of anger right there. It's okay, I get it.... you're just projecting right now, especially when it comes to being a millennial, because only a millennial and not a grown ass man would vent in your manner. You really do have an almost alarming obsession with millennials... it's okay to be one, we won't think any less of you
You know, for the amount of anger, frustration, and near rage that you display, I think it's best that you maybe go for a yoga session and/or try to stay away from red meat. Perhaps a nice long walk on the beach to clear your head. I'm very surprised just how touchy you are about this subject. I mean, it's not like it's a competition or anything about who knows the most kgirls otc or who knows the most secrets or who knows how to date a kgirl. It's very surprising to say the least.
But as I said, it's quite evident that you're just projecting at this point. You're constant need to incorrectly label me as a millennial and talking about how much knowledge one has on the subject. I mean really, since when did this become a competition? And who the hell is Jose Kim (I have no idea what that's even referring to)? *sigh* It's really sad to see this is how the millennial generation reacts to things that make them uncomfortable: they just lash out and make themselves look even more immature. As for my tone and what you deem as annoying... if you don't like it, don't read it There are plenty of other threads in which you can drop your apparent knowledge in. And even though your knowledge is lacking, it's okay.... we don't think any less of you.
This is precisely the annoying shit I was referring to. Punk!.....don't play the cool and collect adversary shit with me. I see right through your Hillary Clinton debate bull shit! Obviously that strategy didn't turn out to well for her......Im not even close to being done with you. Like all CEO's Im an early riser......I'll reply to you further tomorrow morning at 6am from my porcelain throne while I'm floating a few logs down your way.....Pathetic little fuck!...
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LOL... This is too funny. I love it when you talk dirty hahaha
I can't wait for your next rage-fueled rant Thanks for making this thread hilarious. He actually said "I'm not even close to being done with you"... I have a smile that is literally hurting my face. Please tell me your Korean because that's something a Korean mother would say when scolding their child lol. I also love how you dropped the CEO anecdote... Of course you're a CEO... you can be whatever you want to be Hell, even multilevel marketing people call themselves CEOs. Always remember how special and unique you are... you can do whatever you want to do and be whatever you want to be. Go get 'em kiddo 화이팅!!!
You shouldnt pick fights with people superior to you.
By the way. Youre beneath me.
I wait for your witty response. Oh self proclaming all kgril world knowing one.
and never visit this area of TER... but this post is awesome!
LOL!!!
A feel DC resident! Welcome to the kgirl fanboy zoo :P
I still need to make a date with you
Our little slice of heaven. Well, maybe not today. Lol
Same story as dating a civvie. Boy calls/text girl, girls don't reply right away, boy freaks out and think more = better, bombards her phone, girl turned off and disappears. Kgirls are not that much different than a civvie. Fact that you already banged her doesn't change the fact you are trying to appeal to her female side, instead of her hooker side.
A few comments on what's already mentioned.
- If you like her? ask for her kakao, if she gives it to you, that means she at least doesn't mind you as a customer. Don't start bombarding her with emojies and texts, send a few msgs to see if she'll engage (food pictures are great icebreakers). If she doesn't reply, or gives curt answers like "ok", "wow" or "kkk", you are staying in the customer circle with little chance of getting out.
- If she gives you her kakao without asking, your chance is a little better. Same thing applies. If she starts asking you to see her, you are firmly in the customer circle. If she initiates text with you and not asking you to see her 3-5 texts in, you might be getting somewhere
- Try to be a friend and at least pretend you are not looking for freebies. Fact she's an escort means she's not keen on having sex for free. And don't start bring her stuff. If she says shes hungry or sick, you can offer to bring something. Never bring useless things like flower
- The "friends-only" date is a first date. How often do you get to score on a first date with a civvie?? not often right. Same thing applies when you first go out with a kgirl. If you are lucky enough to get to this stage, just remember she's unlikely going to go back to your place and bbbjtcimws you all night. If she does, she's playing you for something.
- Don't try to be captain-save-a-ho. You can't solve her problems and don't want to solve her problems. It's often much deeper than your wallet can afford. Just enjoy the company of a beautiful korean outside the bedroom. A lot of these girls also don't like it when you pry her personal issues until she gains more trust in you.
- Be in control, not some insecure whiny little bitch. All females find leadership and confidence as huge turn-ons. Lead her, know where to take her, fearless when making a move and don't be afraid to disagree with her. She'll like you more because of it
- Lastly, don't buy her shit, as soon as you pay for that first purse/shoe/dress, you are an ATM
The Captain Save-a-Ho is a terrific point!!!! +1000 on that one. If you want to be Captain Save-a-Ho, you're better off doing that back in the motherland... I miss Korea 
These girls don't need saving... in fact, they probably know how to survive better than we do. Some of the older/seasoned kgirls can put any Brooklyn hustler to shame. It's actually pretty magical to see them work somebody lol.
I have actually met quite a few who probably needed "saving" but I have NEVER met a broke K-Girl.
I hate painting with such a broad brush, but if there is any "class" of hooker that does NOT need saving, it's got to be K-Girls.
is one of the most successful Kgirls anywhere. If she doesn't have $100,000 in her safe deposit box, she starts freaking out and says she needs to work more. I had graduated to OTC sex with her after a few outside dates, so that became the new normal, and one time after a three-hour romp at her residence, she said "Give me three hundred dollars." She's my GF, so I did, no questions asked. Although she could tell by the look on my face I was thinking WTF? So she laughed and said she hadn't been to the bank for a few days, but wanted to take ME out to dinner, and sure enough, we went out to a nice steak house, and 'SHE" paid. I thanked her for buying me dinner, and we both laughed. You gotta love the way they think. LOL
The point being, all Kgirls I have known intimately have safe deposit boxes filled with a considerable amount of cash. I'm sure there are spendthrifts that are exceptions. But for the vast majority, you are correct that none need saving.
the poorest never has enough, no matter how much they have.
Just call me Stinky Wizzle Teeth.