Has anybody here taken Korean lessons to enhance your hobby experience?
Wondering if Duolingo is going to get you to basic ordering...

KAMPS did for p*ssy what Starbucks did for coffee .. took a nasty necessity and turned it into an upscale treat.
One of the first Starbucks outside of Seattle opened a block from where I lived.  Walking around with the now-iconic cup would get you "Wait a minute, that's the FIVE DOLLAR cup of coffee?" comments... much like Jules in Pulp Fiction commenting on the Kahuna burger.

Having the safe, reliable, honest P4P experiences that KAMP's create, may tip enough people  accept legal, regulated  sex work.

But I've found some cursory knowledge of K-pop, K-dramas, and the words I've picked up from them to be helpful for breaking the ice/small talk.

Yes, I am currently doing private (online) lessons that I am paying for, and watching youtube videos in my spare time to improve my Korean, working towards fluency. It does absolute WONDERS for Kgirl sessions - you can see their eyes practically pop out of their heads when you sprinkle in a few Korean words and slang, they love it. I used to live in Miami so my Spanish achieves a similar effect when I session with Latinas 3-4x a year, or go back down to Miami for vacation and hit my beloved Cuban strip clubs.

I pay 25 an hour for my online Korean lesson tutor sessions once a week. Well worth it.

And in terms of the Starbucks analogy, I couldn't agree more. Apartment Kgirls are the best P4P experience I know of, flat out.

I've heard good things about the fuck clubs in Germany, but haven't had a chance to partake yet. And even when I do, my fetish for Korean women will probably keep the Kgirls on top in my mind.

Also Vincent was talking about an expensive milkshake in the movie. The Kahuna burger's price was not mentioned in the scene with Jules.

Not in our lifetime monger brother.

And I don't wanna know what they're saying about me in Korean.

 

 
Do you know they have a nickname among themselves for us mongers?!  I'm chatty Twoontuesday.

 

YMMV

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Starbucks convinced stupid people that their coffee was actually worth several times more than they had been paying for a BETTER product for their entire lives. K-Agencies deliver a SUPERIOR product (service) at half the price of their typical American competition.

 
As for learning Korean, even though I have slanted eyes, I have a very Anglo tongue. I have a very difficult time with pretty much all Asian languages, the words just don't roll off my tongue easily, I will confess  a couple of my Korean GF's have tried to teach me a little Korean, the same as my Chinese, Thai and Vietnamese GF's have made similar efforts, but Asian languages have never stuck with me.

I have been studying the language and attempting to get semi literate but not merely for seeing K-girls.

 
I do find they like the effort I make and if I can say little things during the session which make the interaction a bit better. Mostly though, I think it helps put many more at ease with their own limited English and when they feel a bit more relaxed with me things just seem to be better. This also seems to work a bit even when the woman actually speaks English better than she lets on -- pretending not to understand is a good defense mechanism and to some extent control mechanism. But many seem to see my efforts to speak some Korean as at least a small form of respect for them as a person -- specifically a Korean person -- so the trust level moves up a little.

 
Now, if you're planning on learning enough Korean to tell them what you want or how to talk dirty in Korean to them expect to both spend a lot of time on that site (seems like it might be good from a real quick look) and then learn the slang from the K-girls.

 
If you just want some phrases:
Anyeong or, more formally so perhaps good for the first meet, anyeonghasayo: Hi or Hello You can follow the latter with pan-gap-seum-ni-da (nice to meet you) if you like. Not sure if pan-ga-wo-yo or pan-ga-wo would be the form to use if you want to avoid a rather formal tone.

 
Jeongmal yeppuda: you're really pretty

 
bogo shpeotseo: Have wanted to see you -- you might use jeo jeongmal (I really) in front of that if you want to.

 
jeongmal jalhanda: you're really good at this. (If you have not figured it out jeongmal = really so you can use that on its own like you would in English -- surprise that something is true or expressing some doubt playfully using inflection.)

 
ppal-ahjweo: is asking for a BJ

 
woonri haja: lets do it when you're ready to get to the main event.

 
na ssanda: I'm cumming

 
jinjja jeoaatseo: it was really good (jinjja is another word that can mean "really")

 
woori ttohaja: lets do it again

 
gomaweo: thanks.

 
No, I did not know these but long ago one of the native Korean speakers provided the list to a bunch of us. Most of these are in an informal form of speech but you're not likely to be seen as acting rude if you try using them.

Duolingo is probably the worst app out there for learning any asian language. Especially to the extent at which you seem to want to learn some of the language for conversation.

ask me why I don't speak Korean after having dated so many.  My response is that we are in America, and the language is English.  If I was living in Korea, I would learn Korean.   So they should be the ones learning English.

 
Most of the girls, other than 90-day wonders, have been here for many years, yet I'm always surprised by how many don't have a good grasp of English after several years in the US, and it usually comes down to the fact that they live in Ktown and they don't need to speak English to be fully functional in that community.  Their English is often good at the incall, because there are not that many words and phrases they need to know to get through a fuck-session.  But get these same girls on the outside and their English skills will collapse pretty quickly.  Every one I have ever dated I encouraged to spend an hour each day studying English if they plan to stay in the US for any length of time.  Me learning Korean is not going to happen.  Even when I go to Korea, I am hosted by a Korean friend who can interpret for me.

Thanks, very informative.

 
Is there a polite way to tell a girl to try going down deeper? A lot of time they don't get what I say and I wouldn't want to push her head, because thats kinda an asshole thing to do, especially if it's the first time seeing her and you don't know what her skillet is.

You might try something like deo (or teo the ㄷ in 더 is kind of a mix between the d and t in English) which means more -- or perhaps better (assuming 더 works) would be deo juseyo (meaning to me give more in a polite form).  No idea how one might put the two phrases together to say suck more of me or try taking more in.  

You can also say cheoncheonhi (천천히)for slowly and ppalippali (빨리빨리) -- to me the pp sounds more like b -- for quickly. I don't think either is actually correct but both I suspect would get the idea across.

Yeah Starbucks is overpriced coffee of questionable quality as far as good coffee goes. It's just very streamlined and popularized and ubiquitous enough.

Thanks! PaliPali sounds hilarious for some dumb reason. I saw the translation as "chop chop" and literally giggled imagining an American girl being told xhop chop as she's sucking on a penis.  

Happy friday

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I would avoid pali pali during sex. It is most commonly used to hurry someone along. I even heard it once coming in a door when a neighbor suddenly opened their door just as I was coming in.  

 
If used during sex I suspect it would carry the connotation of “hurry up and finish”.  

 
But, I do not know for sure. I suppose it’s worth a try. I just won’t be doing it.

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Ah, great reply.  I could understand ladies from Argentina or Columbia, but was completely flummoxed by the mushmouth hillbilly accents of Oxaca and Veracruz.   German FKK's are (or were) the bomb -  Absolutely stunning talent from around the globe for €100/hr .. especially good with the US$0.90c Euro in early '00's.  And, I took German in middle school, so I can get by.   But, even in the thick of it, my mind would wander to the untrammeled, uncovered delights of Bay Area C/K AMP's.  I'm thinking if I could get basic conversational in Korean, I'd have heaven on earth. Thanks for the tip on private tutors.

all they do is whine about their shitty customers and tell me to hurry up and shower.  none of that "oh baby" ..."me feel so good" acting or geisha service they give to other non korean speaking customers.  

Personally, I hate the fake acting of "oh honey". Part of the reason why I like kgirls service is that they usually keep it to minimum.  

 
I don't mind hearing them bitch about customers as long as they don't it too much.  
Some bitch in English as well lol.  Besides, them cursing under their breath in Korean probably ruins fantasy anyway. Eh, I'm not a fantasy guy at all so I don't care lol.

are less than sincere in the flattery they use on their customers??!!!   I'm shocked, shocked, I say!     Lol

And all this time I thought I really looked just like Brad Pitt. I am heartbroken.

Now if a k girl calls me honey, I know she isn't really being sincere. Same with those AMP storefront girls, they used to call me that same thing, but the service was a lot worse there.

No, in all honesty, I think the fake act the k girls put on is usually appreciated, and is usually needed. Obviously I don't need it but I do appreciate that at least most of the time an effort is made to impress us or for some basic rapport building. It makes the experience better than other types of providers.

I just said that I like that most kgirls keep acting to a minimum. As opposed to cgirls, who a lot of time think that best way to get someone to cum fast is to put in a vocal acting performance and loud porn moans.

A long time ago I came up with a monger first name. It’s not mine. But it’s how I introduce myself to providers. It’s sort of my equivalent of the Van Halen brown M&Ms.

 
If when I show up, the girl remembers my monger name and uses it to either greet me or at times during our session, I know I have a keeper.  

 
Here’s the thing. I learned a long time ago that all the top tier girls either have great memories or they keep notes about each client. Usually both. This is true for many, if not most, second tier girls as well.  

 
So, if I see a girl for the second or third or umpteenth time and she remembers my name? It means she also remembers my preferences the second I walk in that door. And, in my experience, girls who do that pride themselves on delivering great experiences. The fact that they take the trouble to remember my (fake) name is a pretty significant indicator to me that I can relax and enjoy the ride. Because this girl is in it for the win.

After 12 years of being called "honey" because Kgirls are too lazy to learn my name until the repeat session, if there is one, I won't even let a RL girlfriend call me honey.  Lol

 
In a way, I don't blame them.  A large percentage of Kgirl fans, especially the BBFS hounds, are one-and-done.  (Some have argued in the past that the odds of catching an STD go down if you only see each girl once.)  Lol    If its just as likely that she is never going to see the guy again, there is no point in trying to learn, and in some cases, pronounce, his name. My own take is that its not so much a case of insincerity as it is the practicalities that go with how many guys they see in a day, week, or month.  In other words, from their perspective, repeat and make it worth their while, and they will usually learn your name and use it going forward.

Yep. On my fourth visit with Blue, she asked me my name. LOL.

Lol a lot of times I don't bother to exchange first names with them unless I establish the girl as being in my regular rotation. There are many girls who I'll only see once, or some I might see just twice because of the short amount of time that some providers stay in the area. Some of, what in my opinion were some of our best girls, stayed for only about a month or two, and never returned after that. Now, by that time they were already massively popular. They would've maintained good business but decided to leave anyway.

Anyway, if I know I'm seeing a girl only once or twice, exchanging first names won't even be necessary. And with the communication barrier it makes exchanging first names that much more difficult.

Idk, with some exceptions for chatty/nosy girls, most girls don't ask me me my name period. There are girls I've seen 10+ times that never asked me my name. And I kinda like it that way.

IMO, the anonymity goes along with the NSA aspect that we all (I'm sure) greatly appreciate with this hobby. We are lucky to benefit from their excellent service, and the fact that it is on NSA terms makes it that much more convenient for us. Yet, the companionship aspect is still there, those needs are met as well.

There are some girls who I hadn't exchanged names with because I didn't feel that it was even essential with connecting with them, that connection is merely felt throughout the session or built throughout multiple sessions just by spending time with them. But if it's clear a girl will be a regular of mine for a little while, names are exchanged and sometimes I even like to ask their korean name. I see learning a little more about Korean culture as being a nice added bonus of the hobby.

My atf would greet me with taking my penis down her throat 30 seconds after I'd walk in the door.

We formed quite a connection that way. We'd also occasionally go ot and just shoot shit in broken English.

 
Idk, I don't think a name is important there. Many girls don't like you using their fake name, and don't ask me for my fake name. Works for me.

 
Again, just my preferences.

This (the anonymity) is why I always start off giving my fake monger name. That way we’re both calling each other by our fake names. Until we’re not.  

 
If she wants to give me her real name and the feeling is mutual, I will probably give her mine as well. If it is clear she’s getting feelings I’m not, I figure it’s time to stop seeing her. So I thank her respectfully and take a cooling off period while I see other other girls.  Same thing I do if I find myself feeling more attachment than I should.

 
I have found it very handy to have a plan in place for dealing with that kind of situation when it arises. Which is just part of this whole pursuit, in my experience. Feelings happen. As always, YMMV. And everyone should find methods that work for them.

Well said, agreed. Whatever works for one person may not work for another.

 
I've had some chatty girls ask my name. The smarter ones even asked if it's real or monger name. I was honest with them. Some I repeated with and they remembered my name, some I didn't repeat with for various reasons. I never forced the issue and never wanted to get closer. And I've pretty much dismissed the girls' few attempts. Someone else might want to play along or get closer. Ymmv is the name of the game. As brother twoon says, YMMV