Hi folks.  I'm looking for ideas for a small gift to bring to a session.  Something that says, hey, I know it's a job, but you're a real person, and here's something to break up the routine.  A small box of chocolates?  Is there something you've found gets a better response?  Appreciate any and all ideas.  Thanks!

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But don't bring cheap wine, her boyfriend will think you're cheap when he drinks it with her later that night, I HATE it when well meaning johns bring cheap wine and we end up just using it to cook with. lol

Chanel makes a nice moisturizing lipstick that retails for $36.  Best for repeats.

No wine, no flowers, no candies, etc.

I will assume you've seen the girl a few times.  

I agree with the flowers, don't bother. It also brings attention to yourself when your in the building. Chocolates and wines they'll just give it away to other customers or SO's.  

Cash, hard dick and bubble gum is a gentleman's choice of extras to bring.

The way I have always tackled this gift issue has always been the same. Do not give them anything pricey or expensive. I tend to do things that they can munch on like food.

Hasn't this been discussed a number of times already? Best gift would be leaving a nice tip.  

Unless you know the girl and what she likes just give a cash tip.  As has been said, cash is king.  I used to tip at the end of a session but another guy told me to tip up front so she can show her appreciation in that session.  Wish I had thought of that before LOL

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Alhambra? I'd hink she has enough water bottles!

I recommend a Amazon gift card. The rationale most of the providers especially kgirls order their condoms in bulk from amazon. Sexy Lohan ordered hers from them. No doubt other do.

It's small, you can find nice stuff at all price points (I usually opt for around $100), it will last forever, it's practical, it always fits, won't be fattening, they won't be allergic to it, they don't have to water it, and since time immemorial, women have always loved it and always will, and it always makes a great impression, because unlike a gift card, it's very personal.

Don't pay attention to these naysayers.  Follow your instincts.  Bring chocolates and wine.  Sees or better on the chocolate and a decent full-bodied red for around $50 on the wine.  If you want to really make a splash, give her five pounds of Sees chocolates, but don't buy a five-pound box, buy five ONE-pound boxes.  I don't like having to open a five-pound box at the incall. Its a bit awkward.  Thank you in advance for your WISE decision to gift SoCal Kgirls chocolates and wine. I will remind them to thank you profusely.  

Well, if you have to give chocolate, then give anything but American made because Koreans do not like sweet.  Belgium or Swiss chocolate are not as sweet.  Been to Seoul many times and this is what my business partners tell me.

I'm assuming they will re-gift some of it to me, so its only important what I like!!!!   Lol

Really?? I swear I saw a See's in Seoul... might've been at a Duty Free department store though hmmm...

I don't even give jewelry to my wife ... I let her pick it out.  Everything has to fit their style and only they know what fits their style.  So if you give them something they think looks out of character they really aren't going to appreciate it or wear it.

Could just be for the korean market.  When I was in Belgium, walked into a Godiva store and asked if the chocolate in Belgium the same as the States.  The sales person said Godiva in the states are made for that country because Americans like their choco on the sweet side.  Makes sense since i found their chocolate to be on the mild side.

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As a longtime vet monger—Leave a nice tip. If you become a good and trusted client some of them will tell you what they like to eat, you can bring some and they can have it for dinner later. Flowers get thrown away and candy given to others. Since I don’t drink alcohol., I don’t buy alcohol. They remember cash...

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+1000. Same goes for any make-up, skin/beautycare products, fragrance and so on. Getting something that she doesn't like and can't exchange for cash is not a good look.

I don't really like chocolate, I MUCH prefer wine, so I stand by my earlier statement to gift wine, and not that cheap shit either. lol

Giving them flowers will often piss them off, because the first thing that comes into their minds when a guy shows up with $50 worth of roses is that they would have been much happier and thought more of the guy if he had just given them $40 cash and saved himself $10.  However, regifting candy to another customer may prompt THAT customer to leave a generous cash tip, so they have effectively turned the candy into liquid funds. Its a win-win for everyone.  Same with alcohol.  Many girls don't drink good wine, they drink beer, but they have customers that do, so a regift to the right customer will result in a tip.  Another example of turning a gift into the cash that they really wanted in the first place.

Exactly. Flowers are the WOAT gift.

Although these kgirls are here in the states, they are still pretty much still living within their Korean culture.  What you may give to a American born provider may not be same as an oversea visitor.  This is why cash is still king for kgirls

The one exception was a favorite girl of mine who had the same phone I did. She saw the battery life I was getting with my extended battery case and was so impressed she announced “I want one! Do they come in pink?”