What was your most awkward moment during a kgirl session?

For me it occurred on the same day after having a really disappointing session with a non-kgirl provider who looked absolutely nothing like her Eros pics (I’m talking a 2 or 3 in the looks department).  I stupidly went through with the horribly overpriced appointment, which amounted to a non-GFE BJ-only a encounter.  

Anyway, immediately afterwards I wanted to erase that memory as quickly as possible so I booked a session with my go-to kgirl agency, where the girls are reliably hot, even if not always faithful to their pics either.  I wasn’t disappointed, but during the pre shower, while scrubbing me down, she says “what’s this?” and proceeds to pluck out and hold up  like a foot long strand of hair that had gotten stuck in my crotch from the earlier encounter.  

I had no explanation for her, and pretended not to know how it got there.  I imagine she concluded I must be quite a man-slut though.  An awkward moment, but we didn’t let it derail the fun that still lay ahead.

My lesson learned is to stick with kgirls, they almost always rock, and not to book back-to-back appointments.

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Maybe it was awkward for you, but I don't think it was for her as she probably rationalized that hair as belonging to your SO. What's awkward to me wouldn't have been the implication of me having seen someone else before her, but rather, the lack of attention/cleanliness that allowed the hair to be there in the first place lol.

that she said anything at all.   After all, who is she to be asking such questions?  Also it should be pretty obvious to her not only what it is, but how it got there.

 
In any case, a good response (Like we can ever think of one when we need it.) might have been that you were just coming from having been nude bare-back horse riding on your palomino.

 
I'm sure there are better come backs, but that's the best I can do for now.

Their hygiene is meticulous. Can you even imagine how many showers a day the typical K-Girl takes?

 
The first thing I used to do when I would go to the Hotel Del Rey in Costa Rica for my regular fuck fests which would usually consist of seeing 12-15 different chicas over the period of a long weekend was to find housekeeping, tip her well and get a HUGE stack of towels, at least twenty of them just to start just like the K-Girls do so each chica could take a shower both before and after the session and so I could do the same. I would often take close to a dozen showers a day. I might have been drunk for my entire time down there, but at least I smelled good and there were no awkward moments like you described.

 
Back to being a "man slut" many of the chicas in CR would snoop through my trash cans for evidence of how many chicas were there before them. It's not that they really cared that I was fucking other women, it's just that the pros had learned that a guy who had already have sex four or five times that very same day was not going to cum very easily, some of them would even ask beforehand about how many girls I had seen that day. lol

 
The lesson you "should" have learned was NOT to avoid back to back sessions, the proper takeaway from your experience is to shower both before and AFTER a session if you are going to have multiple sessions in the course of a single day.

Does an ackward moment with a jgirl count?

 

A few years ago, I sessioned with Shiro for the first time.  I'm usually composed, calm, cool and collected.  Shiro is so beautiful that I was intimidated by her beauty.  Really!  No shit, no kidding.  She welcomed me with her billion dollars sparkle smile and a wet kiss.  I'm loving Shiro!

 

Solo shower and when I come out she's waiting for me naked in front of a full length mirror and invites me over for dfk and bbbj.  I almost blew but managed to chill for a minute.  Then on to the bed and she gave me the most exquisite P2P I ever sexperienced to that date.  I came so quickly and she looked me in the eyes and asked me what's this about?  I said you're so fucking sexy and you got me so turned on I couldn't help myself.  She laughed coyly and cleaned us up.  More dfk.  Then she insisted I fuck her doggy style round # 2 to explosive completion.  Fuck yeah home girl!!!!!

 

 
YMMV

A few years ago I had my first session with my beloved Jesi; 100% kgirl.

 

 
I hit the ATM machine with a half hour before my scheduled appointment.  Problema!!!!  Only $5 bills were available.   So, I show up on time for my first ever appointment with Jesi.  She's so HOT!!!  She has a billion dollars sparkle smile for me!  I'm loving Jesi!!!  

 

She takes my hand and guides me to her room.  I introduce my true self to her, bow respectfully and hand her the wad of $5 bills.  She looks at the wad of bills and then gives me THAT look and asks what's this about?!?!

 
I replied I hit the ATM machine before coming over and only $5 bills were available.  If this is the worst thing that'll happen with our session today, we're gonna have a great time together!!!!   She nods approvingly and leans in for a lllloooonnnggg dfk.
Fuck yeah home girl!!!!!!

 
YMMV

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I wouldn't saw AWKWARD, but the closest thing to awkward in Kgirl land for me is those few critical moments between the initial shower and the bed. Do I lay down or sit on the edge of the bed, or remain standing? Do I lay face down or face up?

Then watching her as she comes out of the shower. Will she join me on the bed? Will she start with dfk or bbbj or tease? Will she tell me to flip over for a massage/rub to start things off?

I wish there was a script for johns to follow in a kgirl incall. Lol.

There is...

 
Sit at the edge of the bed naked.  Motion for her to come over.  From there, do you prefer lap dance or bbbjtcim with partial swallow and spit?!?!

 

YMMV

You can certainly use the choice you make to influence the script she will follow -- most will be experienced enough to have a plan for whatever choice you make -- so think of it as a way to set the direction of the session.

 
Or you can offer to dry her off before leaving the bath area, and if she is comfortable with that you don't have to worry about what to do on your own

 
But the anticipation, as you note, is hardly to be called an "awkward moment".

awkwardness by taking her hand in the bathroom, walking her to the bed, sitting her down on the edge, telling her to lay back, kneeling down on the floor and gently pushing her knees apart.  From the view directly in front of you, you will both know what should happen next with no need for verbal communication at all.  

 
A couple of things happen at this point.  . . . . .

 
1.     You have taken her off the script.
2.     You have put yourself in charge, so the session will go as YOU want it to go.  
3.     You get her head into the session right off the bat with DATY.
4.    If the DATY is decent, she will reciprocate with an excellent BBBJ . . . . . . which will . . . .
5.    Flow seamlessly into fucking.  Just tell her how you want her . . . . Mish, Doggy, CG, etc., and tell her when you want to switch positions.  You're in charge . . . . remember?

 
The key here is to be outgoing and confident in knowing what you are doing.  Taking charge comes with responsibility to make your session as good for YOU AS SHE WOULD.  During the session, if she says, "What's that smell?", you don't want to have to answer, "Fear" or you have failed at being in charge.    LOL

This is an excellent point that many mongers do not realize is as important as it is.

 
Asians in general come from patriarchal societies. Koreans are noted for being significantly more hierarchical/patriarchal than most. As a result, kgirls are raised to expect a man to take responsibility. It tends to be almost instinctive for them. If a man can’t take responsibility, in their minds he is less of a man. Though, as with anything, there is a bell curve. Some are more this way and some less. But this is the starting point for all of them.

 
Some guys take this being in charge thing to mean that they have to be aggressive. All I’ll say about that is: if you are thinking that, take a very hard look at yourself and think again. It’s about actually being responsible. To explain what that means in detail would lead to a longer post than I’m willing to write. But, with a little thought and study it’s not too hard to figure out for yourself.

I did not mean in anyway to suggest that taking charge has anything to do with being rough or physically abusive. I'm referring to making decisions about where the session goes in a confident, but respectful, way.  You want the girl to appreciate and respect you for stepping up and taking responsibility for making this fun for both of you.  There is no room in that scenario for aggressive behavior and, in fact, such behavior will convince her you are not worthy  of having the responsibility for the success of the session, and she will quickly lose interest in "following" your lead.  

 
Sometimes, my advice is not comprehensive enough because I assume too many things are "common knowledge" in the Kgirl scene when they really should be fully explained.

Just to be completely clear, I did not think you were suggesting rough or physically abusive behavior.

 
I simply have seen too many occasions where mongers with a certain bent took anything sounding remotely like “man up” or any of its variations to mean they had an excuse to indulge their abusive tendencies. You might think I’m being paranoid. But on several occasions I’ve seen this go bad. Sometimes to the extreme.

 
My response was simply in the probably vain hope that those who have that specific bent might actually think twice before indulging. As you and I both know well, there are too many occasions where a girl suddenly has to take time off to deal with the aftermath from having a session with one of those guys. And that achieves the opposite of the goal of helping the girls feel that they are safe.