I'm sure more vets can chime in here, but in my 3 years mongering, I never give girls my review handle. Sometimes they'll kakao me to write a review when it's slow, but I just say yes and never do it. Some girls have accounts here, while other regulars will tell them the latest info like parasocial gossipy bitches. When I do write, I avoid enough specifics to preserve anonymity.

If you do monger in the Bay Area, just know that word does get around regularly to other girls if you disclose detailed or relatively sensitive information. Personally, don't disclose who you see, especially in your case if she's giving you preferential treatment. I made an off-hand comment about my reg to another who was outside of my rotation, and the reg found out. Learned my lesson there.

by giving her your TER username in the first place.  They do not get jealous about you having sex with others, only that you are giving others some of your money.  Regulars sometimes expect to get every discretionary hobby dollar you have to spend, and when you are seeing others, they get pissed and believe they are losing money that should be theirs.  The only way to avoid this is to NEVER give your TER handle to a Kgirl.  Then you can tell them you don't have time to see other girls, you only see them, and they can't prove you wrong through your review history.   I've seen over one thousand Kgirls in the past 15 years and not a single one knows I'm CDL.

Most of these girls monitor the review boards like a hawk. Be careful on not to share your handle. These hoes became unstable when you refer to them as what they actually are and what they actually do for living.  Just tell them that you don't have handle.  

she object you for seeing different girl when she sees 8-10 guys a day and if you ask her on that, she will reply: "But I am not cheating on you and it is just a. JOB";  They are the most twisted creatures.

All of them live in alternate reality.

I’m plenty experienced in relationships, it’s just I find providers seem to fall for me.  I do question if it’s genuine feelings or is it weekly paycheck??? ie:  I met a new CP last week, 1st time she already says she loves me and wants my #,  over the weekend she messages me and says she’s going to NY for 1 month and wants to see me before she leaves.  So I see her today.  Again she says she loves me a couple times and I am #1,  tells me she wants to go hang out 1 day when she returns and wants to come to my house and cook a dinner LOL.  Seriously?  That’s not going to happen.  I have no idea what I did to deserve this but this is a common happenings for me.  
Get this… right after my sesh today the Kgirl messages me and ask “what are you doing today???” 🫣.  Talk about universal connection!!! Ohhh plus my CGirl of 10 years want me to come  visit today… I’m just going to assume my k-girl friend is very good at navigating TER and uses it to get the 411 on her clients and to have a little background info on her guests?  She could be reading this very post right now but IDK.  In the end I am a paying guest and she is the provider, until we decide we would want to establish that we want something more between us.  I accept her as my friend with the freedom to have other friends as so does she; and I know she does have friends and a life outside of myself… next time we meet we will have another great session,  chat, have a few snacks, play some music,  and then I’m on my way back my life.. rinse and repeat and we all enjoy the lives that we live!  I do really like my k-girl friend and would establish a more inclusive relationship if we had better communication.  I feel I miss a lot of her verbal and text content due to translation misguidance. If she expressed that she loves me as she has led me to believe I would be willing to take that move with certain stipulation.  She is that complimentary to my needs that she fulfills. I’d hope everyone who reads this also has that person or persons that they establish who just do it for them over and over again?  Please share on that…

I went and saw my k-GF yesterday on the fly as I wasn’t expecting too but work ended early and I was in the neighborhood.   PO said she wasn’t working but the power of messaging got me an availability!  ASAP at that… so prior to arrival I stop by and pick up some fruit and nuts as a welcoming token, plus I was hungry myself Haha! When I arrive she is wearing Street attire and no make up or eye lashes but for some reason I find her to be more sexy and appealing looking like the girl next door.  She is shy and very slow to warm up but once we started a little physical contact it became explosive and powerful!  Again, it was another top notch session with alot of passion and excitement!!! She gives me about 1 hrs of her time and then return back some of the roses I
gave as an offering… There was no mentioning of TER or recent posts from my account. She did ask when the last day I had sex was but I faded that Q by shaking my head not to reveal any info on events over the past week… I’m learning honesty isn’t always best here 🫣.  This is good advice to other mongers who might read this and had a similar situation.  I love my time with this woman and feel blessed to have such a great situation in play!

Wake the F Up before all hell breaks loose!

Years ago, I was stalked by a provider.  She somehow figured out my screen name.  I thereafter switched to this alias, and have NEVER posted a review under my original screen name.

Like a burner phone, there is no reason not to use it if needed.  If you are single and your phone is your own, who cares.  By analogy, if you were never going to see or review another girl but this apparent lunatic, who cares.  But you are seeing and will of course continue to see other girls, and you must get the equivalent of the burner phone, which is the ALIAS.

I may not speak from a place of wisdom, but I speak from a place of experience.

CR