So.....where to start.  Positive for HSV-2.  Saw a Kgirl 27 days prior to the start of my symptoms.  Cluster of blisters at the base/shaft area.  A 2nd crop formed 8 days later.  Coincidentally where the condom ends at.  That area.  Of course, there was some grinding so maybe it was from that.  

. . . fail to protect you when left in the wrapper.  You have to actually put it on your dick.

the CDC, Mayo Clinic, New England Journal of Medicine, WebMD - the over-riding consensus is "The average incubation period after exposure is 4 days (range, 2 to 12)" with none even coming remotely close to 4 weeks.

She is getting tested soon.  Will find out.  Already told her, just not how I got it.  No mention of the escort. She was very understanding and said she doesnt care about a rash, so as long as I didnt cheat.  Oh boy.  

actually "was very understanding and said she doesnt care about a rash, so as long as I didnt cheat." it's because she either already knows, or at least strongly suspects, that she is the probable source.

I agree.  When I was married, if this happened, my wife would have cut my dick off while I slept the very first night.  The fact that she is understanding means you have to consider that she may think she is the source, and gave it to you.  If that's the case, don't be quick to admit anything.  Let it play out and see if she fesses up.  If she does, you just got a "get out of jail free" card that you can play if SHE ever catches YOU.

She might never get it from you.  
Virus can stay dormant for years.  
Even if she will get it from you, she might never have an outbreak.  
She might already has it.  
It's not as big deal as you thing. Looking at statistics, according to the Centers for Disease Control and Prevention, about one out of six people in the United States aged 14 to 49 have genital herpes caused by the HSV-2 infection (the herpes simplex virus often responsible for genital herpes). Yet we all assume that nobody in the hobby has it. Who are those people who has it? Soccer moms?

How do YOU know that the OP meant only that the condom failed to prevent transmission of the STD but did not break?

"...cluster of blisters at the base/shaft area...where the condom ends at."  That means there was skin to skin contact in an area not covered by the condom.

Yes, from that you can infer that this might be what the OP intended, but it is not exactly clear and certain.  Sores and lesions do not always first break out at the locus of infection.

Wife is negative for hsv-2.    I bought a condom and put it on.  Where it ends is where i got the blisters.  Its the kgirl.  I fessed up to the wife.  Got kids so she will stay for them.

Nice try. I just love these Anonymous posters with their, "One time at music camp ..." Tales of terror about seeing hookers. Anyone notice that they all sound the same. Just once, I want to hear a different one about how the wife caught the guy and killed his dog, slashed his tires, and burned down the house.  

Do not believe everything you read from companies sponsoring studies. This is a major scandal in the medical community. Valtrex business is getting you to believe they are the cure. Independent studies have shown that while the medicine does indeed suppress outbreaks and reduces transmission of hsv2 there is still a significant shedding of virus episodically even in asymptomatic carriers when checked by sophisticated DNA cultural swap technique from volunteers in U of Washington clinic report published in peer reviewed journals. Risk never goes away completely.

I have an amazing amount of sympathy for your plight. However, it seems odd that you would think this an unlikely result after regularly frequenting K-girl spots. Those are really beautiful, sweet girls, however, they perform at extremely high volume all day long. The reason they dont provide outcall is because:1) "handlers" like to maintain control; and 2)so the girls dont waste time driving between one client and another. K-girl's undercharge relative to their looks, service etc. Consequently, their marketing costs are low and their personal incalls average 4-8 clients a day , six to seven days a week. Do the math!! You may save yourself  one or two hundred dollars up front, but when you have that "oh crap" moment, why would you be surprised??!! Those beautiful nymphs are following the high volume, low-price model where risks are much greater mathematically. It is simply math and a risk profile graph.